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I like this definition of cross dressing, taken from another platform I visit:  “Wearing a garment that provides support for an anatomical feature that you do not naturally have.”

When “the look” involves altering natural anatomy, rather than just garments, I think you are getting into transgender experimentation, rather than just fashion.  Just my personal definition though.  

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50 minutes ago, Gudulitooo said:

6'3 and a half inch, no heels. I am happy with my look in heels in the miror, which is also 6 ft apart from me. So my reflect lies 12 ft afar.

In a crowded area, my colleagues can chat with one another, and at the summit I get the minutes by radio.

Oh wow yes you are tall.  Though I hear most women find tall men attractive, so it does have advantages...

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3 hours ago, Gudulitooo said:

On my point of view this looks great. I don't wear heels to work or with friends because basically I am tall. Being tall is a handicap for relations. It is like not smoking, not going to coffee machine or not watching for football. Thus to me wearing heels is a selfish satisfaction out of any social life.

But it is largely different for you normally calibrated guys.

Now I am curious, how tall are you?  I am 6 feet without heels, and for the reasons you state I won’t ever wear platforms.  But it will not stop me from wearing 4” heels.  I love the feeling and look of the feet at the heeled angle.  

7 hours ago, Gudulitooo said:

Perhaps it is not only between you and her.

How many friendships or relationships will she have to abandon / recreate when her friends or relations see you both in heels ?

This is an interesting point, and I sometimes wonder if it is healthier to introduce things like heel wearing during a vacation trip away together or something, where you do not expect to see anyone you know, and you are already in the mood to be more anonymous and create new experiences.  

Similarly, I can’t help but note that I started wearing heels in public under similar circumstances - on a trip away from home and among people that I didn’t already know.  It was only through time in these experiences that I became comfortable  with the idea of wearing them into the office and among people I already knew.  

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In my experience with coworkers, the less you hide, the more normal it feels, and ultimately it will have no effect on things overall.  I wear 4+” heels into the office every day.  It’s my normal, we interact normally, and this would continue if we were to meet outside of work.  Hiding, on the other hand, might lead people into imagining association with nefarious activity.  

I agree with Tech that hernaezjames’s cross dressing experiment should probably be taken to a different forum.  It is not offensive, but it can be in conflict with the other efforts here to normalize guys wearing heels as an anatomically correct male fashion choice, rather than cross dressing.   

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3 hours ago, balletboot said:

I dont agree with any of that. If that's what you want more power to you. But I myself what to try and make this work. Yes I love heels but I certainly love the woman I am seeing more than heels. I know my love for heels isnt going anywhere but I'm willing to work on this and try to make it blossom into something great instead of just running away so I can wear heels everyday.

Maybe you can work out a compromise to start and see where it goes.  The heels in your picture look to be at least 3.5”, which is fairly normal for me and HHP but we have to admit is pretty unusual in the broader world.  How does she feel about a 2.5” cuban heel, which is relatively common in men’s fashion?  I am only suggesting this because I am living a similar compromise right now with my wife, who is opposed to the feminine look of thin heels but has no problem with my 3” underslung heels.  

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5 hours ago, HappyinHeels said:

Yep, what CAT says is true. The service is always better when you are in the store in heels than not. It removes any doubt and gives them the vibe you are not a bashful customer. HinH

Wearing heels while shopping is also a good conversation starter with sales associates.  More often than not, when I am shopping, they compliment my shoes or outfit when offering assistance.  It’s also a quick way to develop yourself as a regular customer at a store, where you can go back often as get good treatment and insider information on upcoming stock changes and discounts.  

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