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  1. 9 is very unique, I wouldnt mind trying out those beasts myself.

    7 is a very classy and conservative look.

    5 is hot, usually not a thigh high fan, but those are great.

    Tough choice, depends on your style and mood I guess. Just since 9 is so unusual, and shoes like the others can be obtained fairly easily, I would probably choose 9 for a custom made. I would probably do a slight scaled down version of 9 though if possible (ie, shorter platform), but then those won't be mine, will they? hehe :smile:

  2. My heel buying has gotten a bit out of hand in the last year as well, seemed to start when I began street heeling. My collection grew from about 4 pair about a year ago, to more than 25 and I am averaging two more each month recently. I can now fully understand why so many women have tons of shoes, the choices are limitless to meet any occasion or mood, and it is really a lot of fun to do.

  3. Well, I met someone last week... and she was great! Even kidding around about fetishes... But as usual, most people that think they are open minded are in fact not open minded. I told her about my fetish... she wanted to sleep on it... and the next day she told me it wasn't going to work.

    I should learn to keep my big mouth shut!!

    That is really a shame, my philosophy is that you probably should let a new GF know early on, but I would really let her get to know you a bit more first and you to know her. Be sure that she is open minded and that you have reached a comfortable stage in the relationship.

    I think the first impression rule is very important, and if her first impression of you is that you do something that is not socially considered the norm, then she has very little to cling on to with you and can easily just say no.

    If you give her a chance to get to know your personality, wait at least several dates into it, then that gives her something to know about the inner you and gives something solid to internalize for her before unloading something about you that might be tough to swallow, as it is for many.

    It worked well with my wife of 10+ years, but I waited several months in my case. I hinted at my passion over time before opening up completely almost a year after meeting her. I don't think you should wait that long, but seriously give her a chance to know the other parts of you before opening this box. Just my 2 cents.

  4. Just recently got my first pair of Women's Levi's (stretch & boot cut), and I really love the look. They fit me so much better than men's jeans and they don't look too feminine, which is great. I am definitely getting several more of these in the near future. :smile:

  5. My 6" boots is done, with just over 1/2" plattform.

    Very well made for outdoor use...the softest leather in the shafts...

    Wow, I do like the boots you ended up with, they did a fantastic job indeed. I am sure you will enjoy them!

  6. Definitely agree with many here... If this part of your life is very important to you, you would be miserable hiding it or even putting it aside completely for a woman. You would eventually resent her for it. I have been married for more than 10 years to a woman that accepts it and I would be crushed if she were to move on and I would have do this all over again. If I had to start over with a woman, I would present it to her slowly, for sure don't push it on her right away, make sure she likes you and your personality first before going full speed on the heels. Some here might disagree with that and would say start with it right from the start, maybe they have the mojo to pull it off, but I remember dating was not easy for me, so adding that element to it at the time would have been way over the top.

  7. For the few pairs of Pleaser brand boots I own, i used snaz75.com and had good experiences with them. They have decent prices, have been around for many years and perhaps better organized than the dimoutshoes site and I think they sell everything that Pleaser offers. Just a suggestion based on my experience with buying Pleaser brand in the past.

    Also, about the sizing, I think Pleaser does tend to make the boots a bit narrower than some other brands, and length-wise they are true to size. Anyway, the suggestion to go one size up, might be a good one for you if you have a wider foot. I was able to get my true size and was comfortable in the boots for hours, but I might have a narrower foot than some, I usually am fine in M or B width shoes.

  8. Edmond, there are a very wide range of men here and even with the very diverse group we have on this forum, there is a common love for heels in all of us, which is the reason for coming here in the first place, and we all have that connection. I actually agree with some of your views, you have some good points, but I feel you are being rather blunt about it and you have to expect some abrasive responses to the way you presented it. I am a married man, and I wear heels in public. Coincidentally, I align with many of the points mentioned in your first post for my street heeling. That does not make my way or your way the "correct" way to do this and that should not be stated as such. Just saying, be open to others' thoughts here. We are a community with a common passion and we all try to get along here and accept that we are all different. There is no one template that fits all here and the way you attempted to dictate your ideas on everyone here was begging to get these types of replies.

  9. As someone else said, please do encourage the husband to introduce himself here, there are a LOT of men here, and they have all made me feel more comfortable not only at this site, but in public as well. There is such a diverse range of guys here from those that do this very privately at home, to those that do full "en femme" in public, and everything between. This is one of the few forums I have been to where I can feel somewhat normal about what I do and feel like part of a community. I have a wife and kids, live a mostly normal life, and thanks to many guys here in my exact situation, I am how very happy and confident doing this in the open. Note that I am rather discreet with my public heeling (and in front of my kids), and I think I am pretty content with that aspect of my life now.

  10. Knee highs are by far the sexiest, as they usually are very form fitting to the leg and I love that look. Thigh highs are just too over the top (sort of slutty) and they are not all that comfortable or remotely practical. My heel attraction started when I was very young with stiletto pumps and sandals, but I moved to boots in my early 20's and haven't looked back since.

  11. Welcome and so cool that you are coming around to your husband enjoying more than the norm in clothing. Fortunately, my wife understanding in this as well. You'll find him to be a lot happier when he can share this stuff with you openly. Anyway, looking forward to hearing more from both of you.

  12. Very nice boots indeed. I have been buying up several ankle boots lately for street heeling, just like the ones attached below for my street heeling. I've been getting very confident in these types of boots lately under long bootcut jeans, wearing them almost daily after work and on weekends. Just having lots of fun. I have even walked several miles around my downtown area in them, just a little sore after, but not too bad really. The best part is almost no one notices, and those that do, don't seem to bothered by the look at all. :smile:

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  13. Same thing is slowly occurring to me I believe. I can still walk barefoot without issues, but I do find it harder to lift/flex the front of the foot upward beyond the 90 degree point lately. I am wearing heels quite a bit more than ever this year since I started street heeling, where as in the past it was just an occasional at home thing. Yes, I am noticing the change, I sleep and sit with the foot extended "en pointe" as you say.

  14. I agree, because of the larger feet on men (on average), that a 3" heel almost doesn't feel or look much like a heel. All of my street heels are 3.5" - 4.5" and are somewhat discreet looking. My older at home heels (pre-street heeling) are 5"+ but I don't seem to be that interested in them anymore, I guess since I have been having too much fun being in public with heels this past year, and I can't imagine myself going street heeling in 5-6" stilettos.

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