Iamme Posted December 10, 2009 Posted December 10, 2009 I already posted a part about this in the 'Partners thoughts of you wearing women's footwear?' thread, but I really want and need to get the full story out. Last weekend when my girlfriend was coming over, and I confessed to her that I have a high heel fetish and that I love wearing high heels. I also confessed that it's not entirely limited to high heels and that I like wearing women's clothing as well. She looked a bit weird at me at first, but then she said to me that she loved me for who I am and not for what I am wearing. After my confession I put on my pair of Demonia Platform boot, with 4'75 heels, together with a white skirt, fishnet tights and her bra and hoodie that she loaned me. She told me I looked cute! (There's a picture of me in that outfit below) She told me I could pick out any pair of high heels that I wanted and she'd get them for my birthday, which is coming up next month! I picked these: http://img38.imageshack.us/i/cheetah06gpur.jpg/ I love these... They look so cute and sexy! After telling her, a big burden has fallen off my shoulders. I feel so extremely relieved that I told someone I trust and who on her turn happens to accept it and supports me in it. I have been keeping this secret from everyone for the last 6 years. It feels so extremely good that I can share it. All those feelings of being afraid of getting caught and looking weird at that I cropped up in those 6 years... All gone now. Well, in those days after that I talked a lot with her about high heels. She didn't like them, but she told me that she was willing to wear high heels if I wanted. I left the choice up to her, but she still said she wanted to try. And thus we went shopping today. Not for heels per say, but she still needed some decent shoes for the prom night that is coming up tomorrow. She wasn't too sure about buying heels at first, but she ended up buying 2 pairs of heels. (Thanks to a limited offer that the second pair of shoes was just for one Euro) When we got back at her house, she tried one pair on. I got to wear the other pair! We have about the same shoe size. Her heels were a tad too small for my feet, but I walked around in them nonetheless. Later she took of the pair she was wearing, and I switched my pair for the pair she just had taken off. Another great experience. I could hardly contain my excitement!! I think I was in them for about 90 minutes. (I will get pics of them later this weekend!) She has practiced walking in them now, and she told me she figured out why I liked wearing heels, since she thought it wasn't so bad after all. She enjoys me seeing me in my heels too. She told me that I turn extremely happy like a kitten that plays with its toys when I am wearing heels. We have agreed however that I will not constantly wear high heels and other womens attire when she's around. She has a -boy-friend after all, and I fully understand that. Whew, that is that. I just wanted to get this out. Thank you for reading! I hope this encourages other guys to confess to their girlfriends/wives if they haven't done so already. Go for it guys, wear your heels with pride and joy!
mtnsofheels Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Congatulations Iamme ! Awesome story and most of all great job in telling the one that means the most to you about the honest you! The real You! Your story is a testament to being honest with yourself and then your partner and how much stress that relieves by just saying it and telling her all about you and your likes! Plus the hidden benefits of her accepting you and now sharing your interest for the both of you is huge gain for you. Thanks for sharing and great job, and envies to those that do not have that! Mtnsofheels
chris100575 Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Congratulations! My ex wife hated the very idea of me wearing heels and I was reduced to sneaking a few minutes in them when she was out of the house. I met my fiancee through a dating site, and I told her about my heels the first day we met as everything seemed to be going well. She didn't mind at all, and nearly three years later is still happy for me to totter around the house in my stilettos. I love those purple shoes by the way!
Dawn HH Posted December 11, 2009 Posted December 11, 2009 Lamme:-) Congrats. You did the right thing at the right time. And it does relieve a lot of built up stress. You feel a lot better after you do it and everything goes right than before. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
wood&metal Posted December 12, 2009 Posted December 12, 2009 I've had it go both ways.... I told a girl I was seeing about 4 years ago, pretty much right off the bat.. She gave me about the same first response (weird look, and she thought I was trying to run her off) but was cool with it... Unfortunately we parted ways for other reasons.. I recently told another woman I had been seeing off and on, and it blew up in my face.. I'm sure I waited too long, but i'm also sure the reaction would have been the same had I told her earlier... We no longer speak to each other.. Never frown because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.
Iamme Posted December 13, 2009 Author Posted December 13, 2009 Thanks everyone for your kind comments and replies! It still feels very good that I have told her about it. I feel bad for those who have partners and girlfriends who aren't so supportive, like those of Chris and Wood&Metal. Even that it can tear a relationship apart... Too bad there aren't so much open-minded people around! Well, I've returned from another awesome weekend with my girlfriend. First off, the prom we went too was really nice! She wore her heels that we bought for the occasion, and she looked gorgeous in them. Also, I saw many other girls and women there with gorgeous heels on too. After the prom we returned to her place, and quickly went straight to her room. Of course, the time had come for me to wear the heels she wore at the prom! She also still had the other pair around too, and of course, I wore those as well. I got pictures of them and me wearing them below! The day after I was going home. She told me I could loan the pair of heels she was wearing at the prom! I love them really much, and I am wearing them as I type. They are still a tad too small, but they are still fairly comfortable. The other pair she has really is too small and those really hurt my feet. Too bad since those are cool heels as well. Today we went shopping, and though we initially went shopping for a new pair of pants for me and Christmas presents, I also ended up buying a nice pair of stockings to go with the heels. Both heels are Celinda heels. The first pair you see is the pair she wore to the prom and the pair I am wearing now. The other pair is the pair that isn't nice to my feet, but then again, they're my GF's heels so I can't complain about them. Haha. Don't really know about the heel height for both of them, but they are of regular height (about 4 to 5 CM). I hope you like the heels! Tell me what you think about my girlfriend's high heels!
Histiletto Posted December 13, 2009 Posted December 13, 2009 Hey Iamme, Those heels are perfect for the prom and they look very stylish. I'm sure they were a great conversation topic throughout the evening. Looking forward to hearing more about your heeling ventures and the budding relationships in your life.
Heel Obsessi Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 I so admire someone who is able to come right out with the fact they like wearing heels. It;s took me 44 years:(
Bubba136 Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 You are in such a good position, Iamme The shoes are nice but what is even nicer is knowing that you have the support of a kind and loving woman. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
roniheels Posted December 14, 2009 Posted December 14, 2009 Congratulations on your high heels and the fact that you have a very supportive partner that shares in your interest of high heels. You are one of the lucky ones to be able to share your enjoyment of high heels with someone who enjoys them with you. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us.
Iamme Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 Thanks everyone. I am having a great time with my girlfriend, in high heels but also when I am in my normal shoes. You know, I feel that that confession really helped our relationship, in terms of getting closer to each other and such. I really love my girlfriend's high heels, and wear them a lot around the house now. Yesterday I even had a short walk with them when I was going to take the dog out for a walk. It was dark out and late at night, and was curious what it'd feel like walking in heels when out and about. I also felt like building up my confidence in wearing high heels in public so I sneaked her high heels under my sweater and took the dog out for a walk. When I was alone on the road I put the heels on and went on with walking the dog. I was a bit shaky and nervous at first, but then I thought 'This is how I am, no one's going to change that fact. If they got a problem with me wearing heels, it's their problem.' I quickly calmed down after that, and really started enjoying my small walk in my girlfriend's heels! How did I love the sound of the heels clicking against the concrete! At one point there was a young woman on a bike passing me but she didn't saw me wearing heels. Guess people really do have better things to do than watching what other people have on their feet. Haha. Just before I came home I switched the heels for my normal shoes again. There's no need in hurrying things. I think I'll venture out in my heels late at night for a bit longer, and then when I feel ready go do some public heeling with my girlfriend.
Bubba136 Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 Would your girlfriend object to your wearing high heels in public? And, why don't you buy your own high heels? Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
RonC Posted December 16, 2009 Posted December 16, 2009 You've got a nice thing going on there. I really love the pair with the tassels on the toe. Very feminine and sexy IMHO. I would adore having my girlfriend wear those, and if she let me wear them once in a while, well, that would be heaven!
Iamme Posted December 16, 2009 Author Posted December 16, 2009 Would your girlfriend object to your wearing high heels in public? And, why don't you buy your own high heels? Nope, my girlfriend would let me wear them in public if I wanted to, we've already discussed that subject. She wants to do some public heeling with me when I feel ready. I do have my own high heels, it's just that I've worn those on and off for the last couple of months. Having a new pair to walk around in is refreshing. Of course, I wear my own pair too every once in a while (given, those are way more comfortable since they're in my size). Buying a new pair of high heels is really hard if I don't want my parents to find out, and having my girlfriend sneak a pair of hers into the house isn't as suspicious as me coming home with a shoe box with a pair of freshly bought high heels in it. (My parents are really nosy, they almost go as far as opening my mail and packages that I get through the mail). I've yet to move out, but not until I have enough money and graduate from college, which still takes another 2 and half years. That pretty much explains why I am extremely hesitant when it comes to buying high heels. The more I buy, the harder time I have to hide them. Fortunately, my girlfriend is willing to buy a pair of heels for me every once in a while with my money, and keep them at her place, so I can switch them out whenever I feel like it.
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