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Ok, thanks, Barney!

Steve

Bluejay,

You were certainly at the right place at the right time to take advantage of a clearance sale. Now you're all set for next spring with those wedges. They are definitely better looking than the classic Ugg-ly boots. And you have just the right top and bag to match them.

Steve

One of these days I hope to understand the concept of unwinding.

Suggestion: start here: http://www.themacallan.com/the-whisky/

Steve

Hey, great story! Thanks for sharing it. You just never know who has the high heel gene and who doesn't. It's great to get into conversations with guys and gals who do have it, though. I've met many people who are very open to guys in heels and it's fun to chat with them.

Steve

Nice boots. I like the fabric look.

Wear them well!

Steve

I had a nice discussion on the phone with the woman who runs www.cross-dress.com yesterday. She wants my company to supply her with legwear made for men. I noted that she sells women's style shoes but made for men's feet on men's lasts, and sells them in men's sizes, so this appears to be a good sources for some of you with larger feet. They look like good quality, and you'll pay more, but if you get good value, it's worth it.

Hope this suggestion helps. If any of you have dealt with this company before, let me know what you thought of their products and service.

Steve

JeffB,

Good review! I would agree with everything you said and I voted "Helpful" on your review. I bought mine in black last June but haven't worn them a lot yet. I will when the weather gets cooler and I can't wear sandals any more.

Steve

Looks very natural. Glad you're happy with your hair now.

Steve

Dave,

Cool boots. Are they actually flat or do they have a bit of hidden heel? Glad you like them!

Steve

I agree with Shafted. If you're going to wear a white skirt, just match the top, shoes and handbag. I like black and white together. Black top, black shoes, black bag, maybe?

Steve

@KiLty,

No problem! I have a thick skin and wasn't at all miffed about what you said. All is forgiven. And I DID get your name right this time!

Best,

Steve

I've been shoe shopping with quite a few guys over the past few years and it's far more fun to engage the sales help, especially the gals, than it is to slink off into a corner alone and pretend you're invisible. The subjects you can bring up are almost endless:

What are some of the new styles that you like?

What's selling particularly well these days?

Do you have many guys buying women's shoes here?

Are you good at figuring out which guys are buying for themselves and which are buying for someone else?

What styles do men like to buy?

I've heard good things about (a particular style). Have you tried it? How do you like it? Or what do you think of it for me?

What's on sale? How can I get a discount?

Use your imagination. Stick to business and don't get personal, except to compliment her on her shoes or pedi perhaps. Keep her in her comfort zone. Treat her well if she's helpful. Tell her boss or mention the good service in a product review. Make sure when you leave that you'll be remembered in a good way, so next time you show up, the red carpet will be rolled out for you. However, don't buy anything you don't want, or aren't sure will be to your liking. It's your money, so spend it wisely. On the other foot, don't pass up a good opportunity; once lost it may be lost forever.

Steve

Fatfuzz,

Go ahead and do so! Nothing bad will happen. I've had lots of positive experiences trying on women's shoes in stores ranging from Payelss (recently with Bluejay, where there were a bunch of jocks trying on athletic shoes in the same aisle - no bad looks) to DSW, Macy's, Nordstrom's, Naturalizer, Aerosoles, Fluevog and Hudson Bay Co. (with Ashley), and many others. The sales staff is interested in selling shoes to you. They are not going to laugh at you, make fun of you, or cause you to be uncomfortable in any way. Just the opposite. They'll do whatever they can to make the sale. It's their livelihood so it's serious business to them, and your gender is irrelevant. Go for it with confidence and you'll probably spend more than you intended!

Steve

Makes me want a backup pair but at That price and wwill I ever wear them out.

Do you mean "wear them out" as in "wearing them out in public" or as in "wearing them to the point that they are no longer serviceable?"

I have a few pairs of shoes that I bought "back-up" pairs for, in case I wear them out in the second meaning of the phrase.

Steve

On a serious note, a pedi is the "ultimate in pampering." You don't need to get color applied, or even polish. Just buffing is fine for many people. But the extra care the nail tech provides is worth it to me once a month. The nails are trimmed correctly, the cuticles are processed properly, the exfoliation is effective, the buffing of the callouses and rough skin is important, and the foot and leg massage are heavenly. Everyone owes it to himself to splurge and try a pedicure at least once. I did and I was hooked! I didn't go with any color the first few times, just clear polish. Then I decided to get more adventurous.

Steve

I like those boots. Usually I find Nine West sizes run small on me. I normally wear a 12M, but the last several times I've tried on Nine West pumps they've been too short. Good luck with them!

Steve

TBG,

Nice work! Next thing you know it will be a mani and pedi! LOL

Steve

Yeah, Dave...what Happy said. C'mon over some day this fall and we'll take a tour of Easton together. HHDude, Mtns, Pebbles, Bluejay, and others - you're all invited, too!

I'm trying to get Jimnj2 to visit here one of these days. How about it, Jim? Are you up for a great pedi and some shoe and hosiery shopping?

Steve

HHDude, I understand your dilemma. My advice would be to arrange a time for you and your mother to sit down and discuss the issue as two rational mature people. Lay all your cards out on the table and be totally honest. Tell her what you love about heels and why you love them. Disclose all about your collection. Tell her about his forum and that there are many others like you out there. Ask lots of questions about why she is so against you wearing heels - is it for your safety? For her reputation? Is she afraid you're gay? What bothers her? Learn more, find out what makes her tick, and explain to her that you're distressed because you love her and don't want to hurt her, yet you love heels, too, and it's part of your being, which won't change. Perhaps by communicating in a rational way, you and she can come to terms and compromise. Who knows, it might even end up that she would take you shoe shopping and give you advice. What better way to bond? Good luck! Steve

Good pics, Ash. Good advice, KH. Steve

Hey, great post. It's fun to lose your inhibitions and chase the demons away. Glad you had a good time and I'm glad your gf is so supportive! Steve

Nice find, Jkrenzer! I really like the style of those Wild Pair pumps. Continue to enjoy them! Steve

TBG, Glad it was just a minor wound and all is well. I like stories with happy endings. But if you're going to start wearing pumps a lot, you'll have to change the title of this thread! LOL Steve

Nice boots, Ash, and I like the long hair. Looks very natural. Steve

Hi, ShockQueen! Good to see you still posting. Thanks for the advice. I haven't been to Denver in a couple of years, but if I get out there, I'll try to arrange a visit to that Payless. Hope you're having a good summer! Steve