MackyHeels

Very well done. With your size every woman shoe fits. Envy you..

JeffB i'm overwhelmingly happy for you being free from oppressed judgemental stares or commentary. 

Have to add with respect what you're wearing and the whole outfit when quickly glanced upon from afar can be mistaken as ordinary heavy set black woman with short hair. Yet you do it successfully without anyone getting offended or jealous  in a bad way unlike myself.

On the streets whenever it's busy people aren't out taking up the sights unless you're a construction worker on a lunch break sitting by watching endless females stroll by.

People are busy or in a rush not caring about saying hello or chatting. It's all about quick glances and presuming your gender is a woman and end of story. Yet if anyone looks more closely they may react differently startled, laughing upon oneself assuming your a lady, finding out the contrary etc..

Believe this gender identification signals, to many people's brain as what you're wearing is female then no longer do we need to inspect closer.  

Happens to me often at the gym when newbie members may start concentrating on their workout unaware of others surrounding them in a crowded gym. Some may look at my legs seeing my crop tights and instantly believe, oh that's just another thin female. Until they are intrigued or impressed look closer and find it's a man with a fit female type body. Then the longer stare or giggling to oneself of the presumed error of my gender.

Same as i shop walking towards the mall entrance parking lot seeing some people walking towards my direction. From a distance none notices except a silhouette of what presumes a female in skinny jeans  and bootie heels. Once we get closer reactions are different, giggles, small commentary about how terrible skinny jeans look on a guy, while laughing commenting on my close resemblance appearing like  a girl. 

While my workplace almost every woman doesn't say hello or wants to share any comments with me. What i found reason being is they detested me wearing skinny female jeans (designer ones). While i outfit myself in traditional male pants suddenly i get a smirking, smiling hello or acknowledgement staring at my loose fitting clothes. While they themselves, woman at work wearing skinny painted on jeans with a body and legs that could easily be detested more than mine. 

Your lucky that you can wear what you enjoy and people acknowledge you with regular genuine kindness regardless what they feel your wearing.

When i first wore pink tank or short sleeve activewear shirt in the gym woman frozen stood glaring, laughed uncontrollably, or giggled to one self turning back as something i had no business wearing. Sometimes it's uncomfortable seeing couple laugh upon me while seeing me countless times but only difference seeing  wear a hot pink long sleeve workout top in the gym. Thanks for the heads up October being breast cancer awareness month, gives me excuse to wear more pink colours than usual at the gym. 

14 minutes ago, ANDROgenius said:

Back again!

The summer is over and now it´s boot time again :-)

So this fall took the next step and invested some money into a great pair of boots. Very high - not the heels - and great to create some edgy styles. Here is the first one. 

 

This is some basic stuff: blouse/shirt & jeans are from the women´s department at Uniqlo. The black long sleeve is from COS.

Seen sweaters with a built in white hem collar blouse with side splits. Wanted to purchase it but found the hemed white mock blouse to frilly material to sheer to wear comfortably. Although like the idea of blouse sweater combination haven't seen anything i would buy as of yet. Good choice.. 

Cool look you have from the back it looks like a dress but once you turn around it's the opposite. Suppose woman would wear the sweater paired with black leggings. Difficult with us guys to wear it, unless we want to advertise and intrigue some woman on our frisky days, which for me is 24/7, Lol.... Love the boot heel perfect height, kind of casual with knee high but classic stiletto for a formal style. Good job..

Would not recommend white jeans paired with the white blouse but do understand why. Think of a more colour balance such as red pants or brighter ones only because your covering entire leg showing only from the front, giving you excuse to be bold.

2 minutes ago, Sydheel said:

I saw a pair of old ZU thigh boots on gumtree (Aus 2nd hand selling site) and grabbed them

they arrived today 

leather front, stretch back, 4cm platform, 16cm heel

OMFG

They look perfect! Great find. Wish to wear exact same boots sometime very hot indeed without looking overwhelming. Believe it's the platform front toe box is seamless blends the boot giving it a normal appearance less bulky moon-boot, ski boot style.

Just curious what is the circumference of the opening above the knee? 

That's a problem with a lot of over the  knee boots fitting to loose making the appearance not looking good.  These seem to fit snugly makes it that much better looking. 

Your correct surprisingly never thought about it in that way. 

Whenever I go to gala charity dinners often see rich ladies showing off their heels. Most wear them once just like the gowns. Guys in tuxes or sharp suits with Pantent oxfords. 

Always wondered what if I  choose to wear some strap pump heel platforms in a dress. What would the people at my table think. 

Often see woman doing comparisons with gowns and heels complimenting each other. 

Woman love to dress for nights out. They feel like a little girl in a princess gown only needing a wand. 

Less and less woman wear heels except for the office anymore. Suppose woman can tolerate it for evening out but rather quickly wear sneakers the morning after going to yoga class. 

Suppose woman only wear pump heels to church function wedding, funeral, baptism, communion. Or wear heels to Friday night or Saturday night out with their significant other. Again only a few hours of wearing heels then change back to flat heel boots or sneakers, sandals. 

On 3/25/2016 at 4:13 PM, Steve63130 said:

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Wearing hosiery with heels is a good idea to prevent blisters, let your skin breathe (especially in boots and booties and other closed-toe heels), and keep the shoes from getting smelly. If you're showing your legs, it's also prettier than skin that has blemishes, leg hair, or other problems. If you wear black, you need not worry about shaving legs, if that's a concern.

Steve

Did i learn a valuable lesson. Wore my new heel block booties fits tight. So wearing any sort of medium denier sock fits very snug. So i thought why bother wearing ankle thin socks with them, big mistake. Barefoot with these leather booties blistered my toes and heel painfully, ouch! Looks as i learned my lesson never again. May try to snatch couple those sock pantyhose they offer free at Marshalls when women try on heels. Bought some thinner ankle socks that won't show to badly from my booties.

Just curious and now know wearing pump heel often see women's feet blistered wearing it barefooted. Seeing some woman in flat sandals with band-aids or scabs on their heel or toes like i got today. 

Going to take awhile to heal before i wear my booties again..

Did little shopping this weekend decided to wear my new Rag & bone harrow booties. Went downtown this time to exchange a pair of jeggings to a smaller size in a exclusive women's store. Again the girl helping me thought it was for someone else this time i corrected her it was for me. She apologized and asked if i wanted to try them on. 

Did it when she asked how they feel going down from 26 25 I couldn't feel or see the difference. As I walked out in the store mirrors while few woman watched. Only seen the sales girl reaction to me in these painted on jeggings lifting my shirt up. Her reaction subtle but taken aback at how tight they looked. Doubt she was impressed or liked it, but put on a friendly demeanour after cashing out. 

Didn't receive any stares because of my heel booties it was a bit odd for me always expecting  dirty looks. Felt i was so confident enough to wear some stiletto pumps but since i didn't have any these booties were good enough. Only after browsing buying Theory knit sweater at another store i did notice a female walking into my aisle  checking out my tight crop jeans and booties. 

Overall didn't see any woman walking around in heel stilettos around the streets or stores. Counted only two females and one booties similar to mine. Almost all woman i observed wear sneakers or flat chelsea ankle boots.

The pictures don't show how well the almost 4 inch heel represents itself. Don't know the angle of the photos makes my outfit appear crap, Do feel I look a little better then photos show. Maybe it's just me and the outfit is a bit unpolished. Could be the leather jacket isn't snug enough to get a more streamline appearance. 

Do believe you need to go all out when dressed in skinny jeans end heels. If the upper torso looks to loose really throws the appearance way off.

That is why I dress with tight fitting tops in the gym to match up my crop leggings I wear. Gives a better overall athletic appearance. While wearing a loose shirt something looks off. 

Overall at the time I felt really comfortable wearing what I did. The extra height in the heels gave me even smug confidence. As I shopped I noticed the Asian female across the blouse racks adjoining my aisle staring at me. Once she turned the corner looking over my lower body without any sort of negative reaction. Was really refreshing not hearing a smirking grunt or giggle or dirty stares. 

Wanted to extend my shopping experience at a mall nearby. Thought not to push sooner or later someone would make a judgemental reaction seeing me. 

Before my shopping I needed to find a restroom from my drive downtown. Parked my car near a lot and walked to a corner McDonalds which I didn't yet change out of my white designer sneakers. When I walked quickly to the restaurant noticed old Asian lady laughing soon as I passed her. Seen a  young couple talking the female eyes were observing me to and from my car. As I made my way into McDees opened the door for a three teen girls also needed to use the restroom. Surprising no real reaction from the girls like giggling etc... Although did overhear some sort of comments about me from one unaware I was following them to the restroom upstairs. Notice after leaving one sitting at a table waiting for her friends stared upon me closely and seriously. Shows me sometimes it's not the bootie heels gets attention but my legs wrapped in denim tightly. 

Do feel the need to get my feet in some 4" pump stilleto and black opaque pantyhose  or stockings in a fitted tunic and do some more serious shopping finding some gems  woman overlooked. Find shopping can be enjoyable if the environment is non judgemental.

Do feel going out of town malls feels awkward because of families feeling safe in the surrounding giggling noticing my feminine  style over-reacting pointing fingers etc... Unlike downtown most people not familiar to shops or street traffic being a little more preoccupied and unsafe then confines of a secure mall.  Less likely to notice me closely maybe presuming I was just a female shopping without realizing I was a man. 

Nice heels looks good. Like the picture with the woman in fishnets in Giaro's. Envious on woman crazed about your heels rightfully so. If you decide to wear them again instead of fishnet pair of black camo leggings would look cool also. 

Nice work reminds me of Pierre Hardy printed booties. Sometimes prints can look tacky or gaudy appearing loud. Yet camo can look always safe cool look. 

Reminds me wearing my new Swirl black white leggings to the gym. Had few woman taken aback at the bold colour. One smirked others stared in shock while a female friend loved them pinching my thigh feeling the material. 

Like the suede fitted toe box looks really nice and the heel height perfection. What compliments did you get care to share?

Agree tomorrow getting little cooler so i just might put on my heel booties to a mall. Have some unfinished business last Sunday ready to try on a Black knitted stretch long sleeve sweater with Rag & bone Moss Dre jeans. If they have both in stock i might take a picture in the change room.

12 hours ago, jamie1608 said:

I've just had these delivered.

http://www.bananashoes.com/pleaser-fabulicious-shoes-lip-106-criss-cross-sandals-clear.html#

for some reason I love the look and feel of clear "stripper" heels

Your not the only one. Surprised more woman don't own similar clear heels. It goes with everything no worries to match colours. 

Yet you mention "stripper" heels but in truth any platform stiletto I've seen woman wear I think the same label as you with big smirk glancing at anyone wearing it. 

Again those who wrote if you feel comfortable and wear it with confidence what else matters. 

Funny going shopping this Saturday seeing more woman in heels at the mall. Not that I seen a lot but observed a few ladies in them. One lady with her child in a stroller and hubby next to her. She was walking awkwardly in what looked like Vince cumuto pumps in a 4 inch heel. As I passed by I could tell she had trouble walking in them outfitted in tight black coated skinny jeans. Later seen a female with her boyfriend ahead of me walking in the parking lot at the mall. She was entirely dressed in black and her steeleto ankle open toe heel sandals went really well with the black skinny jeans. Couldn't tell if she was wearing knee high boots because the heel bookie sandals blended so perfectly to her jeans. Could tell she was a bit confident then began to grab the arm of her boyfriend while walking preventing any mis steps. 

Overall I believe many woman are little self conscious wearing heels at least what I observed at the mall.  Find  woman  a bit older wanting to look sexy in heels having limited opportunities wearing them anywhere else except going shopping. Did observe almost all females in stilettos heels often glance seeing if anyone recognized them in heels. Thought it was only me that feels the need to be aware of anyone's opinions, reactions to what I'm wearing as i walk passing people in a mall. 

Today would of been a great opportunity to wear my new black bookie block heels at the mall. Outfitted in some cropped rolled up legging light wash AG jeans and sheer white Henley hemmed countour shirt. Thought the block heel booties would slow me down. Visited two malls finding the correct size jeggings jeans. Funny how the girl helping me locate the size  at another mall asked if the size for her was correct. I played along saying yah, what she did'nt know they were for me. She wasn't aware that the tight painted on skinny crop jeans I had been wearing was woman. If I wore my heel booties rather my white sneakers it would look a bit more obvious. 

Although mother and her daughter were shopping in the sole female store noticing me then walked passed giggling upon me. 

Rag & bone clean euston sewn faux pockets upfront. 

Seen these at a store military green inspired heels . Unfortunately not my size. Oh so nice.. 

2 hours ago, jim102 said:

Hi! I am interested to try:

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Those at 228$ and 210$ are very pretty but why those prices? Is it high quality? Looks like tey don`t have plateform!

 

Don`t have the wallet for!

Never owned any of your brands listed but i did buy my first booties couple years ago from  their store brand Wishbone Collection. The quality was really good fit very comfortable and sizing very wide for a woman's bootie. Just that the brand name isn't what some women or myself like showing off, seeing the emblem on the back off the heel block shaft. That is why i went with a trendy designer bootie which feels way too tight on one foot. To bad the wishbones collection bootie i own ain't that impressive or evokes any jealousy from the ladies as my designer booties.

Suppose it makes me feel more secure knowing woman indeed would want to wear and buy exact same ones. While the Wishbones get shocked stare and look over of what type of brand it is then i'm ignored or eyes rolled once the figure out the brand. While my designer booties get a smile or smirk and evokes jealousy often making some woman upset. 

Often Brown's has discount sales so you could pick up a $220 retail boot for $160 later in late autumn early winter.

10 hours ago, HeelTV said:

Some new boots from le Silla.

 

And again casadei my personal favorite

You the man.. Congratulations..

10 hours ago, HeelTV said:

I couldn´t resist and bought these beauties from casadei.

 

And this is the complete outfit.

Totally amazing and envious of your purchase and understand the impulse buy. They are perfect booties not at all formal like a pump stiletto yet can be worn well with leather pants and a blazer as shown.  Had my eye on them but sizing and the price i would have to pay for my outings ain't worth it. 

Buying something nice often is more noticeable by others looking at your heels. They look very comfortable which makes it that makes you much more confident walking in them...

These aren't high heel stilettos like i would like. 

Bought these leather Harrows booties which i own camel suede exact same type pictured in my avator. Only reason buying leather ones is when it rains the camel suede stain way to much which i avoiding wearing. Have another very first bought cheap generic block heel booties in black nubuck distressed which i can wear in wet weather.  Still good and very comfortable but the way it appears with skinny jeans looks awkward either i pull the pants in the shaft or stretch spreading  it over which often the jean hems ride up and off the boot shaft. 

Do find wearing my camel harrows gets looks from females different then my cheaper nubuck booties. When wearing feminine clothes or booties find pricer items gets envious reactions those who know brands and styles, before the inevitable laugh or giggle, or shock glares.

Suppose it's my expensive way of observing others  giving a bit of a breathing space and bracing before the cowling laughter or prejudicial judgemental commentary begins to others about my heels. 

Cuban block heel about 3.5 inches easy to walk in and trendy with the select girls wearing them.  It's that time of year to wear them paired with skinny jeans stopping me from going out in sneakers and shorts in these upcoming autumn / winter cooler temperatures.

Will wait and see when they arrive find the suede camel stretch a bit better then these leather a bit less forgiving. Seeing that my suede camel harrows  are bit to tight on one foot little pain for a nice appearance. Just wearing them for out doing errands shopping etc.. For work heels aren't an option even though seeing some woman wearing them irks me deep down staring upon some strange woman feet.

Anyone else have this feeling. Knowing you have something at home but couldn't wear it only because of valid reasons but see some female wear it unbeknownst to her you also have the same style...

Don't see to many woman walking in pumps in casual settings. When i did see one pair of hotties one of which was wearing purplish pink suede pumps. While many people stared including myself i could tell she knew wearing them would get more attention in her skinny jeans. Wearing Pumps like your picture showed gets peoples eyes on you male or female no matter.  Although you look fine in them do believe females get a little perturbed seeing a guy in them, or any sort of feminine clothes, skinny jeans etc...

Just my experience when i attire woman's yoga activewear females get upset ultimately for the usual reasons envy, jealousy. Once you wear something well that belongs along the aisle of the women's section frustrations and anger sets in from the opposite sex. Rarely you will get complimented as i did in a Costco parking lot about my tan smooth legs in female denim cutoff short shorts. If i wore some sort of heel sandals the woman complimenting me would be a lot more animated about my appearance then saying you got great legs...

If their not Chloe sandals the description would be dowel wood heel think i had a picture year ago with a model wearing them. Try different high end designers and i'm sure they will come up. 

2 hours ago, codyandamber said:

My wife loves these shoes and I cannot find them for her anywhere.  I took this picture off Neiman Marcus IG page but they don't seem to carry them and I haven't received a response.  I'm trying to surprise her!   Any help would be greatly appreciated!  

If i'm not mistaken they are Chloe sandals probably from spring of last year. So maybe difficult finding them. 

Just amazing. Your heels looks longer than usual? Love the heels.  You must have smooth undamaged legs. Doubt i could get away wearing those hose with gentle nicks and old scars on my shins and calf over the years. 

Don't know how you do it? Being so bold more than not woman don't shop in formal wear like your wearing, unless they're coming from the office. Even a woman wearing what you are would feel a bit out of sorts or at the very least stared upon at her sharp wardrobe liking it or not. Seen this phenomenon before a solely sharp dressed woman almost exactly as your pictures show in the woman's department while everyone around is casually dressed in leggings, tight jeans flat shoes, staring maybe envious what she is wearing.   Thought to myself wow, she certainly gotten attention from everyone around closely observing reactions from everyone looking upon her. 

What i learned over the years women prefer to shop in leggings and tank top, maybe oversized sweater depending on the climate flip flops or flat knee high boots. The reason being they can change in and out of clothes their deciding to buy without touching their skin such as shorts, pants, skirts, dress etc.. Makes for easy and quick change without taking off much or getting some sort of skin rash from others trying on lets say a pair of skin tight jeans... 

You must get people glaring stunned looking at you. Heck, even when i wear some humble 3 or 4 inch block heel booties some woman instantly stare upon my shoes when they hear the click clack on the hard marble floors at a department store while their shopping. Takes a lot for a woman to be distracted looking at the display of clothes and turning their head towards me.

Know a woman 60 years old also afraid to wear clothes that look sexy and young. Trying to convince her she has a great body and that most woman would die for. How do i get through to her. 

Want to poke fun at her saying, "did they hire  a younger version that looks exactly like you the other week, with great legs and body, wearing gold stripe black running tights, hair exactly the same" (sarcastically knowing it was her, trying for her to guess it was indeed (her) 60 year old not someone else). 

On 9/11/2016 at 8:00 PM, pebblesf said:

On 9/13/2016 at 2:30 AM, Rick24 said:

a number of men, who wear heels secretly like me, have zero confidence to wear them in public, and most of the negativity is in are minds, most people in public, will not care if you are wearing red pumps, I'm only starting to buy more shoes now, but I will take it slowly on the public heeling, when I found this forum back in 2005, it was my answer, my heeling will get bigger when I move out of my parents house,  not one person knows about my heeling, but talking to heel wearing guys who do wear out in public does make me feel more comfortable, I

Let's not get ahead of ourselves people do care what others wear don't be fooled. Only when someone stands out of the ordinary looking horrific or attractive we set some judgement upon them. 

Was recently at a local street festival where people mingled, ate local cuisine, rode carnival rides with kids and families. Most people  if not all wore shorts, sneakers, sandals my keen observation what the ladies wore. Seen one female in a printed loose dress wearing platform beige five or six inch stilettos pushing her baby carriage similar to what our member cat photos showed he would be proud .. She was quickly recognized  easily stood out from the crowd. Thought to myself she was way too overdressed for casual Sunday afternoon at a closed busy street block festival.  While many didn't stare pointing fingers or laughing upon her wearing heels in such a casual setting many had to notice. 

Even had comments i overheard some observations made of my appearance, apparently from couple single ladies looking me over at the street festival as i strolled passed.  Was wearing nothing out of the ordinary but had dark tan which they commented among themselves. 

So what i'm trying to get across is wearing heels is suppose to simply attract attention, from people be it on a female wearing it or us guys. So you have to want attention, good or bad, because no matter what, your going to get it. If you're shy or hate others watching over you, then heels isn't the type of footwear to wear. So your mindset has to be either oblivious to what others are observing over your footwear and attire. Or you have to want or needing the attention like the Kardashians. People taking your photo like paparazzi of disbelief and rarity site of a male in heels.    

Had a older posh tanned woman today i've seen for years but recently stayed apart for many months. She closely observed me getting into my car at the gym parking lot as she made herself out of her car. Her long stare was intriguing to me because normally doesn't pay much attention in the gym.  While i had on short cutoff denim shorts and white sneakers with red short t-shirt. I began to think what if, wow, hmm,  just showing off my smooth toned tan legs got this older woman gawking. What if i had on six inch heels open toe sandals what would i thought to being stared upon by this woman's reaction? Would i be self-conscious thinking she is staring at my heels or would i think she admires, amazed of my tan smooth legs or both?

 Either way i would of gotten a reaction heels or not only my mindset has to interpret the meaning of her glaring stare. My conclusion hoping she would be amazed either way how i styled myself. 

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On 9/5/2016 at 0:46 AM, Rick24 said:

your right, there is more advantage for men who wear heels in public than being stuck at home, for the men who wear outside, it makes it easy for the dating scene, for the one's that wear at home only, it can be a huge disadvantage for us, many straight guys wish to wear heels, and many suppress it, and there are the ones that don't wear in public, its easy for women to say that guys should be themselves and be open and wear what you what, but that's just words, you have more too gain wearing in public than wearing in secret, most people won't stare or point or care if you are a guy wearing tight men's jeans, with a pair of thigh boots from top-shop,  people today don't care but if you tell them or they see you wearing heels, there like; oh I did not know he wore heels or he is not the sort who wears them; that is what they would say, women don't understand that a mans world is not an easy life, because they say we have privilege, but that's a myth, this is 2016 but what equal rights do men have now, nothing.

It all depends who you surround yourself with. If people you see on a daily basis are old fashion and backward thinking  then your premise is correct.  Often than not we don't know how  people will react to a male dressed up in feminine attire and heels.  Once you experienced a horrible incident because what your wearing didn't agree with a particular strangers fashion senses or perceptions what a male should dress like.  You survived that test,  not crying, running away or fall  hiding in a fetal position then after anyone's stares or comments will be easier to cope with. Sooner or later you will find when people do comment it will be positive often than not unless you dress horribly mismatched masculine wardrobe  that contrasts opposite with heels. 

Funny that you wrote woman often say for a male to be themselves. Had exact phrase said to me from a older married woman intrigued on why i don't show up at a pool anymore. She telling me concluding don't be intimidated from others be yourself. Little did she know and soon finds out i was reprimanded not wearing enough coverage using the pool. Certain females must of complained seeing me wearing thong swimwear. Anytime that particular woman who gave me the advice  being myself, did stare chuckling, with rest of the woman, watching me closely showering on the pool deck. Doubt most women at the pool  would feel comfortable watching me wear what i feel comfortable and being myself in what could be described as very provocative thong swimwear leaving nothing to the imagination. Let me put it another way if the woman seen me entirely nude not much would shock them seeing anything they didn't notice with my original swimwear on. 

What the deal was or is, i certainly like to show off my body, proud on how it looks entirely. This brings uncomfortable reactions or thoughts to a woman's mind on what they can't help themselves from seeing. Thus i'm asked to wear more when using the pool. Trying to be myself doesn't cut it because i've  been directed to cover up yet legal what i  wear as swimwear.  Not wanting to fight the request to wear more i decided to exile myself from ever using the pool. Private pools can arrange any sort of uniform standard so i appeased the request but aching to dip myself into the pool with a more modest coverage thong that i wore before. 

I've seen exact same heels but was afraid that a size 41 would not fit me, from designer expensive past purchase mistake. 

What shoe size are you originally? I'm a 10.5 us woman's, men's 9.5 or 10 US. 

3 hours ago, HappyinHeels said:

I disagree with wearing heels that blend in or will be taken as unisex from a distance. Do women wear what they wear so they can be seen as unisex? The best heels are the ones you most want to wear to reflect the mood you have that given day.

Agree whole heartedly about trying to stand out. Let's face it sexy stiletto heels are meant to be admired and gawked upon or my case drooled upon. In some instances moods can get you arrested wearing certain things we want to complete an outfit, depending on my libido that particular day...lol...

 We have to be mindful where we trek not making others to uncomfortable.  Sometimes people shrug things off what we like to wear. Other times people look as their brain are about to explode seeing certain outfits. 

Time and place for what we wear is often the best advice. Otherwise  things can be both uncomfortable for everyone including us. 

Rule l live by is never dress half ass. Always strive to the extreme rather trying to be modest or careful. Often the later appears sorry or pitiful even when woman try it.

Thank you dor the advice i'm sure your correct about the sizing.

Do own couple of booties in

Suede in uk8 and US 11 both are tight. After wearing them i see my foot red in places where the shoe squeezes to much. Yet i  percevear wearing them anyways.

As for woman sneakers such as nike or asics i own find i need at least 10.5 US to feel comfortable. Have sizes ranging from 12US to 11US which feels a bit loose  on the large. 

Maybe i should wrap my one bigger foot like Japenese Gisa woman do to make their feet smaller. Anyone heard this practice somehow shrinking their feet. Probably takes a long time for your feet to adjust. 

Went shopping online got the itch to buy some heels. My first heels i tried on were at the store size 10US thought i could stretch or wear them. To no avail returned them no questions asked. After that ordeal i was hesitant to buy any other heels until now. Bought some pricy 5" stiletto heels thinking they are italian 41 euro 11 US they must fit my male 9.5 US foot or woman's 10.5 which i measured not long ago shopping for sneakers in the woman's shoe department. Again my foot was is in pain the narrow footbed and front pointed toe box. Expensive lesson this time sales were final no returns.... 

Just puzzled to what size i can wear. See so many heels out their in size 11 US  which theoretically should fit my men's 9.5 US. 

Virginia's Secret pump thought these would fit but gun shy to try and buy them.

sted as european sizes (blue column)