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Don't forget the gender reveal stunt that started the fire in Southern California.

I agree with many of you, I don't know how the airline industry is going to survive. I read several passenger lines started increasing their cargo service capabilities in a effort to bring in some revenue. When your completing against FedEx, UPS and other courier services that have their own fleet of aircraft, one has to wonder how much probability is there in flying a passenger plane as a cargo carrier. I'm sure there are many families like mine who elected to do a driving vacation this summer instead of getting on an airplane. Regardless of your view point on what is happening, I think

I figured it is time for an update. Surprisingly word DID NOT get out at the office. I continued my typical Friday morning routine and our secretary did come in a few more times early in the morning. She also wore some nice pumps that varied in heights from 1 to 3-1/2 inches. Things were good until the first of the year. In January I was reassigned to take over a project that required me to relocate to the client's office. There was no way I could wear heels at their office. With COVID-19, our company like so many others required everyone to work from home. I'm thankful I have the abili

Thanks for the comments. After reading them, I realize using the word "Discovered" might have been a better for the title. With today (Monday) being the first full day with everyone in the office, I was a bit nervous and wondered how many people know by now. I realize word will get out. I'm curios on how long will it be before someone, other than the secretary, makes a comment, good or bad, about my heel wearing. If my coworkers were attempting to look today to see if I was wearing heels, they unfortunately were out of luck. I had men's dress shoes on and spent the majority of my tim

I was caught this morning by the secretary at my office. On most Fridays, a good number of my peers work from home with the remaining staff starting around 8am. I typically get in at 6am so I can enjoy my cup of coffee and sift through all the weeks emails in peace. Over the few years that I've been at this firm, I've become more relaxed in my persona. We are a "progressive" company where most people are generally open and respectful of others peoples viewpoints and persuasions. Because of this atmosphere I started wearing my heels during this quiet period. I've always figured at some po

I always count my blessings in how lucky I am to have an understanding wife. I "came out" to her while we were dating (over twenty years ago). She helped me get appropriately fitting heels and taught me how to walk in them. When we started a family, she requested I don't wear heels in front of the kids, but helped me select flats which could pass as a mans shoe. As the saying goes "Happy Wife, Happy Life".

Aerosoles are my favorite shoes, mainly because these are what my wife wears.

I've started applying a clear coat to my finger nails. I can not wear color polish since I have kids, and work in a professional environment. Also, there is the fact what I do must get my wife's approval first. I know this is very tame compared to those wonderful colors some of you have shown,

Waist high boots They look unfinished to me. In my opinion, the only decent look was of the woman with the top folded down.

BamBam, Welcome to the site. I'm sure you noticed there are many guys here with great advice on heel wearing. I learned from many of them, and their words have helped me become more confident in wearing heels in public. I hope you find as much wisdom in their words as I have. HH_PE

Earlier this week, I was taking an evening class at the University of California Los Angeles (UCLA). When I left the building and started walking to the parking garage, I saw a young man crossing the street wearing pumps. What drew my attention to him was his stride, or I should say lack of. He walked horribly in the heels. Each step looked painful for him, and was for me to watch. Everyone around the intersection knew he was wearing heels because he had shorts on. Once he got to the other side of the street, he found a bench, sat down, and put his head in his hands. Seeing this, I began

So here is the after action report. Overall everyone liked the look. Several of the women at the party, including my wife, thought boots with a higher heel, and a tighter shaft would have looked better. A few women were disappointed I wasn't wearing higher heels. When I asked what height should I attempt to get, one woman suggested 6 inches. I don't think my ankles would survive that height anymore. It was also suggested a belt around my waist could add to the overall look. I feel a belt would accentuate the fact I could lose a few pounds. One comment I received suggested I go with bl

My wife and I are off to an other party this evening. Here is what I'm wearing this time. Boots, jeggings and a white dress shirt.

RayCF, I have to second what HappyinHeels states, pay attention to your wife. The key, which you imply in your message, is to have open communication about this issue. I too am lucky, my wife is supportive of my heel wearing. When our eldest was about two year old, I realized I had to stop wearing heels around the house. Our child was growing up fast, and my mother in-law was spending more time with us. My wife also indicated it was time for me to stop because she expressed the same concerns your wife indicated to you. When the kids got older (we have three now), I asked my wife what

SF, you got me thinking about why we don't see more men in heels here in LA. With Hollywood, and all the other alternative lifestyles that are present here, one would think heel wearing by men would be more prevalent. Maybe we can blame it on the weather, with shorts and sandals weather almost 360 days a year. Or the alternative could be because the greater LA area is so large, with so many people going everywhere at a hundred miles an hour, we just are not in the right place at the right time, and are to busy to notice.