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Tom-NL is right: P=W/A My mistake, I was thinking in another formula when explaining, sorry to everybody!!! Thanks Tom! Of course this doesn't change the fact that if you are lightweight you'll fell more confortable in high heels, since the contact area is very reduced when wearing them. Heels for all! Flavio.

Thighbootguy I noticed that in all of your posts you aways say about feedback. The thing is that you _asks_ people about your outfit. This is just my opinion, but I think that you did the worst thing - wear what you want - and saw that some people notice what you are wearing and usually don't give too much attention, appears that you live in a place that freedom of wearing is ok. I don't think that is necessary to ask to other people about it but, of course, all of us want to "X Ray" about what is happenning is the mind of who is looking to us. But all the humankind wants to know what other people are thinking about each other, not only about heeled boots or skirts. Maybe this feedback would be very obvious in the reaction of the people itself, for example when the mother toke her kid out of your way, it's clear that she didn't like what she saw and don't want to see her child thinking about beeing as you are. If the people in the grocery, for example, talks to you, smile, of course they have a good opinion about your outfit, even if they think that it's weird, they respect you. For sure we'll have turning noses in the begginning but while time is passing by I think it will be exactly like men and earrings. Maybe you are just making a research for all interests but asking people about yourself seems to them that you are in doubt about yourself. My opinion, I reinforce. Heels for all! Flavio.

I just can't forget the first time I weared a pair of sandals in my feet size.

They were bought in Brazil at www.s-shop.com.br (yes they ship internationally) because they have large sizes.

I was home alone and take some time walking over the house and I couldn't believe that those sandals were fitting so well!!! O what a feeling!

Heels for all!

Flavio.

I'm with Dr. Shoe: The dress is sexy I'm with sandalcrazy27: The dress is confortable I'm with my opinion: the sandal is wonderful My forgotten opinion: the girl wearing the dress and the sandals is hot The hole set is amazing. Ok sandalcrazy27, I have the desire to try a dress like that... looks confortable and nice. Obviously I don't have the curves, if you understand me. Heels for all! Flavio.

You are right when you said that you would receive a lot of welcomes, I'm sure too and will give you mine: WELCOME! I'm on the forum for about 6 months and activelly participating for about 2 months, I was afraid at the begginning but I really didn't know afraid of what! I found this place and the people who start them about 4 years ago. For sure there's people here that are discussing the theme for more then 5 years and they are the best inspiration for everybody. I'm sure they will welcome you too the same way I was when I introduced myself. If you just like to see women in heels, it's up to you and there's place in this forum for it. You look to be openminded. In my case I'm a man who likes to wear high heels as a freestyle fashion, as I consider myself hetero because I have sexual feelings just for real women. If they are in heels, better! Welcome again! Heels for all! (my preferred sentence) Flavio.

All I have to say to BootBoy09 is CONGRATULATIONS in your first day heeling at the office! Heels for all! Flavio.

Since I didn't wear heels at the street yet nobody questioned me. But I think the answer from Jaiden is great But if I need to give a good explanation the answer would just be: - Because I'm free to wear what I like. Heels for all! Flavio.

It looks to be a very confortable dress to wear for sure.

But I really don't want to use it since I like to wear pants, but it's a matter of what I like and not other man.

Otherwise...

It would be great to wear shorts (I love shorts) and the sandals she's wearing in a hot day like today here in Sao Paulo - Brazil.

Heels for all!

Flavio.

7 A.M. What a beautiful day out there! The sun is shynning, birds are singing and people walks wondering about theyr own lifes. I take sometime to get out of the window and prepare myself a good brazillian coffee to get everything completely started. After shaving and brushing teeth I start to think about todays outfit. Open the wardrobe and choose a nice baby blue shirt. But it's a bit cold outside and a light soft leather jacket is ok for this spring morning then I can take it off later if necessary. Black plissed pants will be ok with the hole set. I'm looking beautiful, classy and not too much sexy at all. And them comes the best part and I look to my shoe holder in the wall. I need a high heel with some confort for the routine day walking and choose the ankle boots with pencil 4 inch heels and pointy toe boxes. I love pointed toed shoes as they trully don't hurt my feet in the up part of the fingers. Wearing the boots finishing this outfit is great specially when zipping them up. What a feeling! The first steps at the morning are aways interesting as the feet are getting corretly in to the snugfit of these wonderfully well custom made boots. A look at the mirror shows that my pants covers the boot correctly, displaying just a part of the ankle so the heels appears and it's wonderful. 7:45 When getting out of my building I could feel the fresh air breeze in the face and the warm sun encourages to have a great day! People in the neighbourhood wishes good mornings to each other. Walking in the pavement and the clicking sound of the boots introduces new feelings against the sounds of the nature and the city as well. Girls and boys displaying pants, skirts, shoes, tatoos, rings, etc... as they want to be! Every tribe in it's own concept. What a wonderful world it is... And the day continues... everybody respect each other choice... no rights where taken... no race distiguishing... (...) "Good morning, it's 7 o'clock..." says my clock radio and I wake up for another boring work day with a lot of fools. I take the first shirt with the same pants as yesterday. Put a pair of black ruber soles "male" shoes again. Give a kiss in my wife and run to don't be late to prepare the coffee in the office. Dreams are nice and makes us feel good however it would be better if they come true.

Dawn HH, this is what happens when you study 5 years to be an engineer and spend other 5 years working like one... all in life turns into a matter of physics Heels for all! Flavio.

Hi everybody I wanna start a discussion that, I think, lives in the mind of lots of men here. I have 3 or 4 appearances in heels in public but just in the street in front of house, I don't consider me a street heeler. But one thing I do most is to observe shoes of other people specially women. This way I can consider buying a new style or maybe keep on dreaming the day I will walk through the city in my high heels. Today is a bit cold here in Sao Paulo (Brazil) and the girls of course take their boots out and high heels here are aways present. Today at lunch time in the company restaurant there was two girls wearing wonderful boot styles I couldn't stop looking at. What a dream to come work in my boots or boots like theirs. Well, I think a lot of men here have the same feelings and love to observer women boots or shoes. Let me know please and have some conversation around it. I couldn't resist talking about it here, this forum is the place where I can take all the weight from my shoulders. Thanks to all of you who came first. Heels for all! Flavio.

I always knew a lot of hoaxes and just deleted them after receiving this kind of messages but someones are really impressive. I want to thanks sscotty727 for the link to snopes. What a wonderful work about all kinds of hoaxes and true information. Heels for all! Flavio.

Could you imagine this thighighs? What is more strange, a men who was a wife and a girlfriend that one knows the other or a men who wears high heeled shoes? JackTheHeel is the answer!!! Heels for all! Flavio.

I'm with Magickman! I'll make your words as mine ones! Heels for all! Flavio.

I'm with Dr. Shoe... I don't like it and don't want to see my feet in them! Nothing like 5 inch stilettos... But it's a matter of point of view, of course. Heels for all! Flavio

Of course loosing some weight will increase the time you can keep standed on high heels. I had this experience and some girls I know have said something about it too. But let's talk about physics: it's all a matter of pressure. P=W/A^2 (pressure is directly proportional to the weight and inversely proportional to the square of the area) When wearing high heels your weight will be concentrated in the balls of your feet, that has a reduced area related to the hole foot plant. This reduction will square increase the pressure related to the area reduction. That way, any small lose of weight will help to reduce the pressure (that is what you feel) and help you to stay more time stand on high heels. Of course it all depends on the person, feet shape, shoe quality, etc... Heels for all! Flavio.

Kennard, I think the only solution is to take your sandals to a shoe repair store (a.k.a "sapateiro" in portuguese) to replace the straps with larger ones. It will take some money but not too much and service is usually simple and will keep your sandals as nice as they came from factory. Heels for all! Flavio

Kennard, if they are adjustable ankle straps maybe you can make new holes to fit better in your ankles! Have you tried it? Heels for all Flavio.

That's the point Jamie001! Women wanted to be as "strong" as men in that decade, then what they found at that time was the major masculine symbol of pants. Now we a have a small percentage of guys wanting to wear heels, while the massive percentage of others just even matter that they can do this too or just think that this is women stuff to see, admire and, a very phew ones, have trampling and serve as a carpet to stilettos. That's why we need maybe some efort from a stylist to start a new vogue of men in high heels, and then, we'll be the first ones to agree and turn this in a men fashion, of course with some turning noses around. Is there any stylist in this forum??? Heels for all! Flavio

A point we can't forget is that the "women in trousers" movement was very stronger then our men in high heels, and was a part of women freedom movement also. Heels for all! Flavio

In the motel staffgirl's mind I think that nothing is happening else then "ooops, it's a fu**ing mistake to enter an occupied room". Heels in men's feet is just one of the most bizarre (for her) stuff she has to deal with in a motel's environment. The history itself is funny but for larry it can be the start of a terrible fear. Heels for all! Flavio

I'm with Jamie's point of view. If somebody can live the real life with "secrets", ok, go heeling at 4 walls alone and, if it's ok, go on. But this is not MY case, I hate to hide things specially for my wife. It's just my opinion, but I think that Bert is near the end of his relationship or he'll start beeing too much sad. If someone can't find something inside a relationship, maybe, this someone can start looking for it in another place... this can be more disgusting then a separation itself. Look Bert, I'm not saying that you should or will get divorced, but it's clear that you have been thinking about it. I agree with all points you've showed in your post, things can be hard. But a last point: is it fair to enjoy something that you can't have because of centristic/old minded/preconcepted other people? Heels for all! Flavio.

dr1819 I think you was just unhappy with the woman you had. My wife is a bit insecure about herself at all and that was the initial problem in the night I told you here, but I'm quite sure, as I said in some previous post, I don't like to call her supportive because she agrees with me in the thinking of been freestyle in shoes, not just supports. Today she tries to help me where I can or not wear my heels to avoid social problems. And yes, she asks me to wear them, she likes to see me, and I'm sure, things go more hot when heeling and she tries to make me be what I want to be. That's why I reinforce it, you was sad with that woman... another one should make you happier. She only was a wrong woman in your life. This is my opinion! Heels for all! Flavio.

Micha, I just don't know what will happen when I get kids... they can be higest then me. Jeff, you know that heeling is not a matter of height for us, but a matter of feeling. Maybe people should know that.

Thighhighs, if you gather the courage to wear them outside pants I think it will be really headturner boots. I think they are very nice looking!