PatentHeel Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 To Richie Just read forum guidelines, something I should have done long before I started posting. No wonder i've gotten on the wrong side of you. Hopefully we can start again. I don't like making enemies and I think this is a great forum and YES it doesn't need idiots like me posting pictures of my bottom which were totally out of order. Again, my sincerest apologies. Is it possible to remove any posts which make reference to such calamities? I feel your comments whilst justified, make me out to be some kind of pervert (you probably think i am having looked at those thong pictures lol), but my only vice is being into heels/boots like others here. I would like to think that as mature adults we could settle this amicably and you'd rather not wish to see me go. I understand if you don't wish to remove them and if you still wish for me to go, delete my account. Sincerest Regards PatentHeel PS I have children myself and I would have been appalled for them to see pictures like that too. Can't undo my original actions but can only try to make amends. Hopefully I have proved in this post that i'm educated enough, not made light of my actions, realised my mistakes and never intended for any bad feelings here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thighboots Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 This may have nothing at all to do with me - and I apologise if I am getting involved in something I should not. Fortunately I did not see the offensive pictures patentheel posted, and agree with the comments that have been pointed out - i.e. this is a forum to discuss heel wearing not sexual gratification. However - patentheels has aplogised. I know this forum has been a great source of information and more importantly support to me in my heel wearing. It would seem to be a shame to out a like minded individual based on one, all be it a serious error? Just my thoughts. PS Patentheel - I like your avatar. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tech Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Thighboots... No need to apologise. We haven't banned him, but I personally did find it rather disturbing that he felt the need to expose his private parts to the world, bent over for all to see (albeit in a thong) Yet he has children himself and has said he would be appalled for them to be seeing images like this on the internet... So, I'll not turn this into a battle, but rather, how about we make this into a proper discussion where everybody can have their say on the matter? What does everybody else think? Patentheel did also PM me with the exact same messsage, but obviously he has chosen to bring this into the public eye, so, lets discuss it... Am I right to feel somewhat disturbed that a member of our community feels the need to expose us to parts of himself that he would probably never do if we were all together at a heel meet for example? Am I right to find it even more disturbing that he himself also has children, and would be appalled if they were to be viewing things like this on the internet? ok, so he made a bad judgement call, has apologised for it and so on, but whats all your thoughts on this? You guys are the community, lets hear your voice Heels for Men // Legwear Fashion // HHPlace Guidelines If something doesn't look right, please report the content ASAP! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PatentHeel Posted March 21, 2008 Author Share Posted March 21, 2008 Yes, thank you I'd like to hear others' voices. Especially from those who actually viewed the pictures in question. Also, I chose to bring this into the public eye for these reasons: Firstly, I stupidly missed reading the rules regarding posting and therefore didn't see the bit about NOT posting pictures of the 'posterior'. Secondly, I feel i've been made to feel like a pervert over these pics when they weren't meant it be portrayed like that. Foolishness on my behalf, I should have checked to see the types of people who actually visit this forum. I don't want to apologise any more now, my reputation here as been marred by both mine and Richies posts, hopefully it will blow over. PatentHeel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tech Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 Thanks Patentheel. Please dont feel that I have tried to do damage to your reputation though, I dont try to do that to anybody, as peoples actions often speak for themselves. Why would you "feel like a pervert"? Would you perhaps think the same of somebody else who did this amoung their own friends/colleages or left these images for other children to see? (I'm just asking by the way, prodding the mind for information, learning how other people think about the same issues) Heels for Men // Legwear Fashion // HHPlace Guidelines If something doesn't look right, please report the content ASAP! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PatentHeel Posted March 21, 2008 Author Share Posted March 21, 2008 I guess what i'm saying with regards to 'feeling like a pervert', is that it sounds like I intentionally set out to expose myself to all here. Yes, it probably does look that way given that I gave links to individual pics too. I just never gave any thought to who may be reading the threads, naively thinking that all who visit here would be above 18. Also, I guess initial reaction to my original pictures prompted me to show a little more too. Heels can do that to a person, wearing them certainly makes me feel sexy lol. Anyway, i've been looking in the dictionary today, i looked up the following words: pornographic, explicit, perverse and perverted Kind Regards PatentHeel PS Would you perhaps think the same of somebody else who did this amoung their own friends/colleages or left these images for other children to see? I see your point and agree entirely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PatentHeel Posted March 21, 2008 Author Share Posted March 21, 2008 By the way, do you have award ceremonies at the Annual Heel Meets? I'm sure to get the 'idiot of the year' award . If anyone from Northwest England is attending, can you pick up my award. Patent Heel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roz Posted March 21, 2008 Share Posted March 21, 2008 My personal feeling is that I 100% agree with Rich saying that the pictures completely crossed the line, but you haven't been banned Patentheel so I would just drop it, forget it, move on and post in the spirit of the forum. I don't think there is any need to dwell IMHO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tightsnheels Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 I agree with Roz and for one am very glad and thankful for all the work Richie puts into this forum to ensure it is suitable for all. Thanks again Richie. T&H "Look for the woman in the dress, if there is no dress there is no woman."-Coco Channel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tech Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 By the way, do you have award ceremonies at the Annual Heel Meets? I'm sure to get the 'idiot of the year' award . If anyone from Northwest England is attending, can you pick up my award. Patent Heel Trust me, this doesnt even come close to idiot of the year. Theres a ton of crap we have to deal with behind the scenes that never ever makes it into the public domain, so if you think what have done is "idiotic", forget it. I agree with Roz and for one am very glad and thankful for all the work Richie puts into this forum to ensure it is suitable for all. Thanks again Richie. T&H Hey, dont thank me, Nigel, JMC and Dr. shoe do a ton around here too but thaks for the thanks, its always VERY appreciated by all of the team. Heels for Men // Legwear Fashion // HHPlace Guidelines If something doesn't look right, please report the content ASAP! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roniheels Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 I didn't see the pictures. PatentHeel has been a good contributer of past posts and has displayed some good pictures. I think the concensus is apology accepted, time to move on. Thank you, Richie. You handled that very professionally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted March 22, 2008 Share Posted March 22, 2008 I agree with roz. You apologized, accepted responsibility and now you can get back to enjoying what this site has to offer. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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