JSLS Posted March 30, 2012 Posted March 30, 2012 Hey, New here, and I actually found this forum whilst searching for a little bit of an answer to this whole enjoying high heels thing. Of course, the answer isn't here. It's different for everyone. I did find that a lot of men enjoy heels, and so that's left me feeling less 'naughty'. I playfully put on my partner's boots (amazingly they fit....kinda. Bit of a squeeze!) after I found out about the amazing lining in boots. I found them to be realllllllllly comfortable. I walked in them, with some tips from my partner, even walked the stairs and around the house. Just...wow. So comfortable. I told my partner how much I love them, but I don't think she quite understands fully. I wore them again last night, whilst she slept, and she woke up and gave me a cheeky smile. I'm very much in to women in boots, in a kinky way, and so I think maybe she believes it's more of a fetish thing, but it's not. Well, I've rambled a bit. I will think about posting some pictures of me in my (formerly her...) boots. I also want to buy a nice pair like she has, stiletto heel etc, because her ones don't fit me So...that's my little story haha!
Rei Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Hello and welcome to HHplace JSLS. Your story sounds strikingly similar to mine. I found out my love for high heels when I tried on my girlfriend's boots too. I'm sure you'll fit right in here. ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛABΕ
Bubba136 Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Welcome to hhplacs, JSLS. For the ultimate heel wearing experience, go with your partner to a shoe store of your choice and buy a pair of boots of your own. Best feeling ever, take it from me! Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
Shafted Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Hello and welcome JSLS. Shafted, the boots that is! View my gallery here http://www.hhplace.o...afteds-gallery/ or view my heeling thread here http://www.hhplace.org/topic/3850-new-pair-of-boots-starts-me-serious-street-heeling/ - Pm me if you want fashion advice or just need someone to talk to.
luvmaryjanes Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Its just a magic feeling when I slip them on. I've cut back on wearing them in front of my wife as not to push it on her so much but .... she has to leave for work and hour before me so I get an hour of heel time in the morning. One of my favorite things is when I'm concentrating on the computer or something else so my brain isn't saying you're wearing HEELS! They just seem natural like a hat.
JSLS Posted March 31, 2012 Author Posted March 31, 2012 Hey everyone, thanks for the warm welcome. Welcome to hhplacs, JSLS. For the ultimate heel wearing experience, go with your partner to a shoe store of your choice and buy a pair of boots of your own. Best feeling ever, take it from me! I think I will have to let her get a little more used to the idea that I really like wearing them, before I approach this. I have suggested it, but I think she thought I was kidding. I might pull her into the shoe store today, and see what they have available
SleekHeels Posted March 31, 2012 Posted March 31, 2012 Welcome. It sounds like she has the heel bug already, which is a good starting point. The fact that you like heels has the power to bring you together or push you apart, that's partly up to you. Don't leave her standing on the sidelines while you immerse yourself in heels... maybe the first time you go shoe shopping together go for her and make her the centre of attention, then maybe next time it can be your turn. By your wearing heels she needs to gain something in the relationship, not lose something. Good luck to you! If you like it, wear it.
JSLS Posted April 1, 2012 Author Posted April 1, 2012 Thanks for the advice. We actually did some shopping, for both of us. We went to one store for her, bought some shoes, and then whilst browsing in New Look, I saw some boots I liked, and we bought them for me. Wore them all evening, and she loves them I've told her straight up I'm going to want to buy more, and she's happy with that, but I totally get what you're saying. Thanks
Dr. Shoe Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 Lucky you! Many guys on here would kill for a missus like that! Welcome anyway. Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects.
pebblesf Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 JSLS- That's a great story. I applaud you for trusting your partner and sharing your boot fetish with her. Your partner sounds like a great person, who is accepting and wants you to be happy! I too, love women's boots, and think they look great on guys! Can't wait to see pictures of you in your boots, I hope to get more pics of me in boot soon also! Enjoy your boots! Don
JSLS Posted April 1, 2012 Author Posted April 1, 2012 If I can't trust her, who can I trust? We've both had things we've liked and told each other, and there's not a thing I wouldn't tell her. Is it still a fetish if it's in no way sexual for me? I'll just add, I was reading thread to my Mrs, and she said "They're nice boots. It doesn't matter who is wearing them, if they're nice, they should be worn. And if you're happy, so am I. If you were wearing ugly boots, I'd tell you they're ugly" hahahaha! She's amazing.
Rei Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 Is it still a fetish if it's in no way sexual for me? I would call that a preference. ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛABΕ
Shafted Posted April 1, 2012 Posted April 1, 2012 I would call that a preference. Absolutely! Shafted, the boots that is! View my gallery here http://www.hhplace.o...afteds-gallery/ or view my heeling thread here http://www.hhplace.org/topic/3850-new-pair-of-boots-starts-me-serious-street-heeling/ - Pm me if you want fashion advice or just need someone to talk to.
JSLS Posted April 1, 2012 Author Posted April 1, 2012 You have a good wife. Hang on to her forever. I intend to
docs41 Posted April 2, 2012 Posted April 2, 2012 You are a VERY lucky guy! You may have found another interest that you both can share. Congratulations. If the shoe fits-buy it!!!!!!
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