Hiline Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 Hi all it just seemed a good idea to share whats been going on with myself this last two weeks. On Wednesday the 13th i had some very very bad news. While i was working in London my mother sadly passed away. She was only 54 and had been ill for awhile but no1 had any idea this was going to happen As you can guess i didnt want to live in an empty house by myself while all the sorting out was being done so i moved into a friend of mines house untill my sister comes back to our house. A good plan all round she saves £500 a month in rent and i can still live there. Anyway the same friend had seen me about 7years ago in heels i felt very very bad about being caught in them but he was very good and never said a word. I'm not sure what it was maybe it was all the people askin what they could do for me,maybe it was the feeling the feeling at that moment in time i could do pretty much what ever i wanted that made me want to ask my mate if he would mind seeing me in heels around his place. For about two days i just wanted to ask and one night i just came out with it. He said he wouldnt mind so i went upstairs and came down in my 7inch Mary Janes he looked alittle shocked but only said "they look nice" and didnt say anything about them again. The next i went out and got myself a pair of black 5" ankle boots. That i've worn pretty much all the time i've been in this house since. There really nice and when i think of the name of the shop i'll post the link. 7" heels are alittle to unstable to wear around anyone for me atm. If i fall over by myself i dont care infront of my mate would make me feel real bad. I know i've gone on abit and i hope it made sence it just felt nice to share that with random people . Its very late here and about time for me to take of my heels and go to bed . I might even get another pair tomorrow................ And i still cant spell Hiline
Jarl Ayari Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 Hiline, I am very sorry to hear about your mother, both GG and my condolances. We are in the birmingham area if you ever want a bit of support or just another friendly place to wear your heels... Kudos to your friend to, it just goes to show that most people and friedns really will just accept us for who we are and what we do... Best Wishes.... Andi & GG Smile and the whole world smiles with you, Fart and your on your own!!!
Dawn HH Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 Hiline:-) I know just what you are going through as I had the same experience several years back. Please accept both Mickey and my condolences to you and we both hope that things will eventually level out for you. Cheers--- Dawn HH Mickey 68 High Heeled Boots Forever!
Histiletto Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 My condolences to you, to the rest of your family, and to those your mom associated with. The loss of a parent is hard to take, even if you don't really see them as much. The stages of life often means we leave the security of our parent's presence and strike out on our own with the love and confidence they tried to instill.
roniheels Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 My condolences to you and your family on the passing of your mother. I know what you're going through as my mother passed away a few years ago.
Dr. Shoe Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 Please accept my condolences too. Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects.
FXHH Posted January 25, 2010 Posted January 25, 2010 condolences to you and your family you and your family are in our thoughts great friends you have there!!
loswabs Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 Thoughts and prayers are for you and yours at this difficult time. Best wishes It's my opinion, no more, no less
Guest Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 my heart goes out to you, god bless you!!!!!!!!!
Hiline Posted January 26, 2010 Author Posted January 26, 2010 Thank you all very much for your kind words . And see what i picked up today in the "who go some news shoes thread "
Dawn HH Posted January 26, 2010 Posted January 26, 2010 Hiline:-) I saw them and I wouldn't mind a pair of each in my collection. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
Hiline Posted February 1, 2010 Author Posted February 1, 2010 I just wanted to say thankyou for all your kind words. The service is tomorrow and i'll be wearing my next new suit and 3/4 over coat. On any other day i'd feel great about going out in 100% new gear but anyway i know i'm gonna looks SUPER SHARP she wouldnt want it any other way....................... P.S i've spent more on clothes & heels in this last2weeks than in the past 6months
NH Heels Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Hiline, my heart felt condolences in this difficult time. It's never easy to lose a loved one. Jim
xaphod Posted February 1, 2010 Posted February 1, 2010 Hi all it just seemed a good idea to share whats been going on with myself this last two weeks. On Wednesday the 13th i had some very very bad news. While i was working in London my mother sadly passed away. She was only 54 and had been ill for awhile but no1 had any idea this was going to happen Hiline Sorry to hear that HL. It's a real jolt when that happens. I've been there when my mum went in for a minor operation that went wrong. OK, I used to live about 200 miles away from my mum, but, checking my answerphone having returned home one evening, I was dismayed to hear that she was in intensive care having previously been fine and dandy earlier that day. Cue one mad dash up the M1, but I arrived too late. It's been 9 years now, but recounting it here still hurts. My sympathies, Xa
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