morpho

good luck, forgot to say that i personally consider to dress full in femme ONLY for a public outing because it hides all my id and cannot be recognized easily, whereas in normal style, if I meet someone or somebody that know me or remembers me and maybe i dont remember, spotting me in heels is a great topic to gossip and i wouldnt know who is talking about me etc, and it can made my life a hell, since my wife doesnt know, sad but true. In femme is more challenging- yes, much more work- yes, too risky-no, i think less, because in anycase a Tg is a TG in public and no body gives a damn most of the time is accepted anyway, than a person that cannot be defined, people tend to check out the TV or TG and admire or criticaze the outfit rather than trying to id the guy., so in normal outfit is very likely that most of the public will try to get your id first. hope this opinion can help you. I am going to a different city to heel where nobody knows me for sure, and even that is so so hard to do, will say when and how later in a new thread.

great pumps, love the heel, very thin and very sexy look, where were you shooting? nice audio i liked the click clock, cheers

Thanks for sharing Dr Shoe, Was browsing into the website and it really looks that you have a cool group of friends with same interests over there, great!!! I wish i could join you guys one day but I live far away from UK in a way, what is the music your frind the Dj use to play ? look really fun over there. Thanks again for sharing. Morpho

thanks to all to make all this effort come true, I am doing the impossible to make it, the problem is my job itienerary during these months, is hard for me to set a date, and it was impossible and nonsense to give an opinion from me, sorry, the date is good and will make many to attend, i will make really the impossible to go just for the fact that it will worth the try, and secondly to wear my boots in company of all of you guys, maybe you can make the little competition in my honor "the morpho boot competition" if it happen that i can not attend and if all would like to do it of course just for fun. Will keep you updated.

Welcome, thanks for joining, is great to share all experiences and yes indeed it is a very helpful forum, because we can get answers to all of our existential questions and doubts, at least to me it made feel free and without a guilt, I started to enjoy the experiences much more after reading all this forum in a regular basis. First time out, is maybe the most important and most dificult to do. In my case I just did it and it was very dificult, althought i had short trips out in public but no public, i never consider those ones as a real outing, since the challenge is to face the crowd and the eyes of others, and at the same time feel that you are showing off the shoes and the outfit in a full view. My "first first outing" was in Austin Texas, at down town after partying i went back to my former home in 2005, change, i was very drunk though, then I went to the streets, i was totally in femme with a blonde wig and pink suit, with a nude shiny hose and a pair of black 5inch pointy pumps. it was awesome but nobody saw me even if i were walking 2 or 3 blocks twice, then i went back to my car and drive back home, by then i was not that drunk, i have to say that it was stupid, because if i were driving drunk and in femme can you imagine what it could turn out all this story if a cop busted me? imagine walking straigh line in heels and showing the cop my nude legs and heels, in the first outing.....it was really risky. Then another trip to the public but again no public, it was in a park in NYC last year, it was very cold and at night, i wear sporty outwear to get out from my home and then went all the way to the park, once there I took of my sweat pants and sweat shirt, under them i was wearing a brown pencil skirt and a black blouse, i put on a women black coat and took my back pack inside a woman's purse, which was containing my 4.5 inch black leather boots and a wig. ALl the change i did it in less than 2 minutes over a bench in that park, amazing uh? then i went back and forth with my outfit until i got sored under my feet, it was only one couple that saw me, they passed in front of me in the same pad and i look straight to the eye of the woman, i could felt that she was scared at me, my silhuete was not fememinine at all and she could realize from far that i were a man in femme, the guy was totally frozen and never try to look at me, but that woman was staring and giving me a look of being scared big time. I realize that it is not safe to heel in public places that are lonely, just becasue as well as one cannot feel safe maybe the others neither, you never know what can happen. Then my first real outing was last halloween, please check my thread in tv and cd, a"a woman's halloween outfit". what can I tell you besides what i wrote is that hopping into a halloween party totally in femme with even your nails done, was an experience, and the whole long long night worthed the try, I didnt got any negative in fact some ladies were atracted to me, and something in them makes them know who is straight and who is not, but there were also bisexual folks that were looking after me as well but without any indescent experience, in fact we went friends and toasted loudly afterwards, I can tell you that feeling the tighs and the high heel all the time, sitted, standed, walking, talking, paying or even at the taxi, make an experience, and what it make the excitement is that there are people watching wondering and maybe admiring, ....something else that grab my atention is that at the first moment I felt very shy and very self conscious that men were looking at me, in a way that they were totally fixing their eyes beteen my legs and at all my legs and shoes, that was awkward and nervous, later i started to distinguish men that were atracted to another man wearing in femme, men being surprised at seeing a man wearing a halloween custom in femme no big deal"cheers happy halloween!!", and men that were wondering if one day they can have an opportunity to experience that, by checking out deeply and maybe making some comments to their partner or friend next to them. I realize the women fixes the eyes to the clothes but not to who is wearing it, but men always fixes the eyes to who is wearing it and always if it is a man in femme, always always look down to see the heels and the hose, like if they are also doing it closed doors, which sometimes i think that the statistics may be higher than what we think, out of 10 guys 1.5 or more is or has an intention to be a heeler. My intinct is that maybe a 25% of men has no problem to be a heeler but society plays a big role, and there could be men that are so weak to accept, but will always be admirers, and never accpet to themselves, that would be sad if is im not mistaken. I realize that my second experience will be very difficult as well becasue it wont be on halloween and it will be in a normal day or night, at the shops, well thats the idea. So maybe my second time will be the real real first time. but for sure my conclusion is that everytime is a first time since all are diferent. and what we get out from those experience is a better SELF CONFIDENCE everytime, for life, for businesss, for love, for family for us. cheers, hope you can make it soon, take some pics.

Agree, nice video, and congratulation for such a guts to go out in heels and live with them in the normal life, Great boots, keep filming your videos, so motivating indeed. This story of going to work is very nice because you are telling us a story, from showing the shoes in mind and getting ready in a decent way, and then heeling to the office in the snow, stairs etc, and finally sitting proud in your office. I was thinking that it may be a great idea to make a thread of life story videos on heels either out and about or in closed doors, which may give us a story as you did. and then have everybody vote after nominations for different awards, to best boots, best legs, best film, best story, best scenario, best pumps, best outfit, etc, what do you think guys? for that we can prepare some months in advance and during that time to publish the videos, and in separate thread the comments, exactly as we did in leg competition, but with feed back in another thread for us to discuss., i think that also presentation with pics are can be welcome, for those who are not familiarized with vedeos, (like me). cheers

my6heels It was a fantastic video, maybe as some are saying you may try to have someone following you and catching up reactions, like the one of the guy that was sitting and sudenly he took a quick turn and stare in a way that his face was sying wow, incredible!!! hahaha, those ones are cool, so far i think is very decent and motivating, In regards to your shoes, they are very nice,and adequate 4inch heel to walk around and not be tired. I think thats the key, becasue if they wer little high maybe you ont feel confirdent on walking straight and maybe it will hurt you along the way and you may not like the pain. And if they were too low less than 3.5inch maybe it would be boring and the daring wont worth the try, perfect music and nice shots. In fact you inspired me to propose a video-movie project to do between all of us "the hhplace heelers" i will post it later in a new tread. My ideas are many but I still need to land them a little bit more, for future discussion.

Yes did it 4 1/2 thin heels changed over at the same place/same reason.

I had left out the times yesterday (0615-0650) sorry.

Passed a young teenager at one point (early out for paper round), he may have looked back, may have missed it.

Also had a car wait to park as I walked by.

As many have said "It's a head game" I just ignored both "meetings" and carried on. In reality what could you do ----run? and show even more?

In all probabilities streetwise, most drivers don't look and don't see and in most cases it's people like us that may look but more likely in daytime conditions.

I've covered almost 9 miles in the last 48 hours, just short of 4 in heels and yes my feet ache.

Al

nice stories my friend.....I agree with you that it is in the mind and quick or spontaneous reactions to a noise or a staring or even a guy trying to talk to you, is already late, since an outing is planned before and the desicion was made, to go back is not an option, so...the only thing to do is face the consequences but mstly the excitment....I am still planning my second outing which would be soon......if going out in heels is in an advanced level, then these is for laughing, but everybody had passed thru this experirnce before.

keep posting your experiences, and show us a pic of you outfit when in public so we can imagine.

Nice pics happyfeat, even in the second pic the pumps were not that clear to a first take, with that self confiedence you have, doesnt grab the atention to the public in order to stare. by the way great skirt and shoes in number one. Willie F Coyot: Amazing photo, if it was shown in a magazine i will be sure you were a female model. (great corset!!!)

Ofcourse, would be for free for you to be able to walk all day long with your favorite shoes, and not being identified. perfect season, better than going in Santa's outfit. I guess it would be almost impossible to have a negative reaction, nobody will know if you are woman or man, and nobody will care, and if somebody asks you something you just answer in mimics, and if you are trespassing and a police officer asks your id, then you say sorry and get out, you are only wishing to the people nice holydays anyways, maybe you will atract the media, and if it does then please try to show the heels to all the TV viewers, and still be incognito. have a blast my friend. I am tempted to do that really but, my objective is to better go out casual and with a nice outfit all in femme, just to wonder what it feels.

Dear Happy feat: I think today i am disagreeing with almost everybody, maybe is a bad day. Anyway i think the poll is referring how is perceived masculine or feminine for the public the way you wear your shoes and accessories. Shes is correct to say "man in heels" but how? in a very rocker or casual way it still masculine even with the pointiest and girlish stiletto, but is different than with a sexy pantyhose along with women underwear, and a girlish skirt, that may be feminine, which in anyway is not judging your manly level or your sex orientation at any moment, it is just a style. I cannot say I'm just a man in heels, because i don't dare to use my normal outfit and only wear the stilettos, so for me I'm a man that wear more than heels, for me to wear my shoes i have to add my tights , my skirt, then a group of accessories, and change my mood to explore the sensation of the feminine side, not sexual, but emotional, why? i have no clue why? but one of my objectives is to keep trying to go out (working on a real second outing) and be able to feel comfortable in public, with the idea that wearing mens' clothes and heels in public is a little risky for me (just my personal opinion and situation) and wearing the whole package, passing or not passing doesn't matter, is more logic (for me) than going out partially (congrats and all my respects to those ones with great courage that is a normal living style), in anyway we don't need to give excuses, since it is just emotions period. So maybe as a suggestion for good poll sake lets try to add up honestly what would be a public perception of our style. cheers

agree with you tootall, regarding the mens block high heel.

bubba, I disagree totally with your understanding of heeling, all my men shoes are 2inch high and they look totally normal maybe very chunky but still feels as if i am wearing a womens 2inch stilleto, but without the pointed tip. but is just my opinion which is nothing important, in anyway. the important thing is the feeling of excitement that we feel when we try the shoe and go out wering it, if we feel is a challenge then YES it is heeling for the wearer, but not for me or the rest of the professional heelers. Remember the excitment is what counts and is what we call heeling or outing or adventure in heels, etc. i may say that since i wear my heels in private, my first outing was with a 3inch anckle boot but i wear some kind of sleeper over them to hide, ridiculous even if i went out to the parking lot to get something from my car, and come back to the apmnt. at that time, i considered it an adventure but not a public outing, next time i really went to a comercial center which was closed due to snow and ice, i heeled with 4inch boot., maybe there was not a transition between low heigh heels to high heels, thats why my concept is different.

I have to say that im the biggest fan of these shoes presented by "my6heels", you are the man!!!!, I also bought this week a metalic heel again, a little different than the boots i shown one week ago, that indeed are incredible to wear also. But the pics i will show them later, as we are talking real heels lately. "not descriminating other types" which are very very sexy indeed, such as those ALdo boots which has my favorite type of heel, size and shape. keep tunned still, i will upload some pics shortly, but i have to say nothing compared to those chain metallic pumps of your my6heels, cheers, try show us a complete outfit with those hot metallic heels, dont be shy.

from last episode.... My wife responded to me: "Well if you can modify your shoe by adding some inch and a half and your shoes are confortable and are not that heavy for you to wear the higher heel on it then you should modify it", then the next day (ofcourse green flag, not to wait and waste any second) i went to the wallmart where there is a shoe repair and other sewing services shop, and they modified my dress man shoe with a 1.75" heel, that day i wear it, and it was not big deal, but the block as a heel was a little bit heavy but it was ok. At sight it looks a heavy bulky heel but very normal, but if you really compare it with regular shoes you really find a difference of maybe two times the high, then i wear it for some days, and i decided to increase it to 2inch high, then in another day, my wife told me that in fact was a good idea to do that becasue then she can wear higher heels and I wont look similar height as her, she is a tall girl indeed 6 feet tall, and me 6'2" without shoes, thats why........then I went back and converted some other shoes and there it is no big deal now, but i sincerely think that it is not a high heel. i dont consider as heeling to be wearing a 2inch in mens dressing shoes, it is just a modification period. but the sensation is good though, also i think that is good for my posture and my spine, when bending also the knees are less tired and the arch is always in good shape, therefore is a win win situation. Now you all may say why is this morpho not telling wife the fetish passion?...well, the answer is that it is a diferent thing, and is not a good moment to start a problem if she condemns it. The educative period for her thru me, already started some years ago, by touching topics about fashion, sexual orientation myths and truths, sexual games etc, but just comming like that and telling open minded "hey I like to wear women shoes, but not a casual footwear, but the stilettos and thigh high boots, with nylons", hahahahah, my head will roll all over the place, as of today.

Actually for all the incognito heelers, ...... disguising as the bunny with a complete outfit and wearing the best white boots, may be a great ocasion to out and about in the street or to the mall, or anywhere handing out some flyers for any event or ocasion, and it may be a rewarded for such service to some business or you can make it up and just giving best wishes to the public, .......so two positive things, one is beeing dressed up not being identifyied and heeling perfectly and taking pics with everybody, and 2 being paid by a biz that would like to hire you that afternoon for giving away some flyers.....good idea i think.

Wife doesnt know yet, still working on that, testing the waters at every moment, but keeping it discrete i wont like her to think i am obsesed and dirty, hahaha far from that, Last year i gain some space, by having her said that i should be a little bit taller than her when she was wearing her 4inch stilletos that night, we were going to the wedding of a friend, in fact I was 3-4 inches taller than her with my regular shoes, probably she wanted more , then i told her so how? by putting your shoes? guess what she replied? i will tell you guys later on during the week, hahahahahahahaha stay tunned.

I feel much much better knowing that, thanks kneehights, Bubba thanks for the heads up, i feel confortable to go (.01% of the chances to be discovered is still a great risk but when i wear my boots almost evry time i say what the hell, but then after i take them off, i reconsider if what i did was inteligent, so far i havnt done anything stupid or irreversible, If my schedule will let me scape, so please reserve my space there with a cold budingtons beer handy for starting the breakfast at 10 am. but i will confirm to all at least one week before the event, by then i will know. cheers

that girl is really hot, wow

...... There were a couple of guys in the store that had there eyes hanging out on stems but I paid them no attention. When I checked out the comments were about the skirt rather than the boots.

Hahahahahaha " eyes hanging out on stems " made me laugh a lot, i have no idea how or what I would do in that circumstances, my fear is not for me to be traumatized but to not tolerate and have to respond agresively to those guys, which most likely will be ended up making full out at my self, any way, i admire your self control and way to reason the experiences, ...i was wondering that maybe wouldnt been a bad idea to sitdown to try those shoes and dont care about screening willie nelson to those folks, hahahahaha, that would be a nicest story and probably would make a statement in their little lifes, hahahaha probably the image may be recorded forever inside their brain and they will get those nightmares of a nyloned shark chasing them, running in heels, lol

second pair is nicest, i wonder if for the same model of shoe there is a metal heel, that height is perfect and that material very classy, you can wear them out.

I like those shoes, actually i had a pair but in white exactly like those ones, very expensive shoe as well, at least for me becasue i couldnt wolk in them, and got injured many times my toes. had to give them away on ebay. If you could ever walk and stand still at least for one or two hours continuosly without taking them off, you are the man.!!!

Dont worry about the santa outfit for next year, you can look for a bunny outfit and a flufy tail with long pink ears, hahahahaha, and put on a white or light color hh shoes for this Easter, only if you are in the states. Maybe as the tradition you may hide eggs around the house and invite other heelers to go look for them afterwards for the whole day, but everybody in heels higher than 4inch.

Hi to everyone, and congrats for the amazing effort for this event. I am very motivated to go but unfortunatelly ill be traveling overseas (far from england) at that time, but if for some reason i can make it, is there a posibility to have availability at hotel room low cost at the last minute, I will be comming from a 7 hour flight so most probably i would need a couple of hours to regain energies. I saw the pics shown from previous heelmeets, it looks that you guys had a very good time, and that the group know each other pretty well, also i noticed that many people are ok with the idea of disclosing identity, either by picture or by going out in public, My concern is what if we prefer to keep our identity undisclosed meaning no pics nor videos, i am concern of that. I noticed that all faces were shown in all of you, i thought that none of you didnt mind to be in the pic. is it safe for this small detail? or am I a little paranoic? Another privacy issue is, what if general patrons come up from the side door to try to sneak in and find the meet as an opportunity to take a video or something unusual and start taking pics discretely, in order to do something with it, is it posible? or the door is locked and whoever is comming has to have their nickname on the list or being identified as hhplace member etc? Is not that I am a celebrity but i know people in London that are very much linked to my work and network and i wont like to appear in some public media or something, maybe im paranoic again. cheers to all of you and I hope to be able to attend, morpho

I have similar situation with a boot, even if it is close, my foot slides down and is dificult to walk, and for that reason i injured my feet in halloween, so i concluded that the best solution, is to put 1 or 2 insoles all the way down in order to bring to foot higher in the shoe and be much more fitted into the smaller cavity of the front of the toes, then as a boot i cant fix a strap, but im considering in size them according to all me leg size up the the thighs so it will be very tight and sexy, maybe your problem will be solved with a couple of thick insoles. otherwise, go to the shoe reapair that is in the other side of town and tell the guy to give you a cheapest solution since is for a party and you dont want to spend money in that shoe that probably you will trash away, but make sure that the shoe maker wont put somehting ugly or attach something with low quality. maybe the solution for you is what to say to the shoe repair and how to express your self, in order to not feel embarassed, actually you will be able to try the shoe there at the shop to make sure problem will be solved,