morpho

I think the website is doing what it was designed for: Getting your atention and visit it for couriousity, then i fyou see his shoes in the store then you will be tempted to buy them even if they are extremely expensive, just because the marketing is working on you. The shoes are ok, but nothing out of this world, he is certainly a surrealist, and surely very creative, and rare, original and unpredictible. If he wanted to design a website that works like zappos he definatelly may even improve it, but is not in his mind he only wants all of you to open this thread and talk about it, negative or positive, then .......you will tell me if someday you will invest in one pair, you never know. In my opinion there is nothing to understand just that he is designing shoes... period,

Yes agreed.....I am not EMO but I think is a trend that has it own space and for some reason is adopted, therefore it deserves to be respected, as long as it doesnt hurt anyone or anything. see my responce on that yahoo treath. similar to this. In fact, accordint to happyfeet's suggested website, Emo meaning "emotional" then we all are emos, in a way. cheers

Very nice shoes to you all

Had some time to snap some pics!

1st pic: lace-ups in black patent, Steve Madden

2nd pic: lace-up peeptoes in black patent (what can I say - I like patent and lace-ups?), Nine West

3rd pic: lace-ups (satin fabric), Nine West

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Shoelover:

The laceups are very neat, I think i can wear the thir pair in a bar or a launge without any problem.

I think this thread is for guys in public wearing heels, not if nurses will wear high heels when on duty, .....so funny how a topic can take other way, .... Ok, Yesterday a Was on the street, going ack to the office from luch and i say a TG very well dressed, she was walking very quick in a 5 inch high heel, i wanted to approach and try to see her entire outfit and how was her makeup from close, since i could spot her in the middle of the crowd just becasue of the color of the wig, and the height then I could identify the arms and shoulders, definatelly she was a very feminine man, well arranged. Many people were not noticing but others were finding something weird or unusual for some seconds, nothing more. She walked so fast and so fluent in those heels that i couldnt came even close to her. good for her. She looked like a pretty asian actress. this are real artists to my taste.

I am so sorry to read your story i really felt anger against that person managing the fitting room, look i never worn any women clothees or shoes in public, just because is not what i want but i do wear them in my privacy, but if I see someone like you going to buy and selecting women outfit is very private and I dont see any justification for that woman to get her noses into non of her damn business, ...for this i hate injustice and i am the kinfd to correct it giving a lesson of principle to the others, ..i would do the following: Write a letter to the managment and copy to general office, saying what happen in a brief manner, then in the main body of that letter express the disaproval of someone trying to manifest her or his own feelings, frustrations, beliefs, or whatever using the name an image of the store in order to descriminate a citizen and a customer, (you can easily make her a problem and destroy at least the image as an intrudor of privacy, if it happened in the states you are very very supperted) you should do that, she may remember all her life and also warn people to not get nosy or make statements like that in their entire life, one by one will get the lesson. She will get her ass fired and her reputation with a big label saying she is a nosy and problematic person that descriminate cd, tv, freestylers etc, maybe she is racist, we dont know. but is better to have the mouth shut or else. This is an example that for sure is a shame, Assumption, if someone not caucasian (an asian, latino, african american, middleeastern, etc.) goes to a store such as A&F and the asociate says, "oh, sorry this pants and shirts are designed better for blond people" or something like that, imagine what big shit they will get in? of course i dont know if it happened, but i read rumors of racism toward some groups and stuff like that, is very shameful and highly dissaproved. Never keep quiet, and if you feel so embarrassed try to get angry for you to relief and release the tension there in a correct manner. I am proud of you to be as you are. Dont pay much atention for you to get hurted, but pay atention to put in their place who incorrectly think can make a statement freely at the expense of other people feelings. cheers

I really think a guy in heels is going far, but is fun and exciting ...but... a guy in pink shoes, and even heels, is out of place and somwhat ridiculous, but if you like them on you then go for it, i already said why i should be wearing them. I dont like them on me. Sometimes depending the shoe it looks funny on women already.

welcome, just wondering if you admire dudes in heels? closed doors or in public, let us know about your opinion, cheers

Corsair: Very nice boots, these days I am tempeted to buy something like those boots for clubing and going to bars in a normal basis, they are very discrete, but after I am in the shoe store and ready to buy i think the following wich make sense. If i were to wear women shoes in the open, then what the heck go for it and well, becasue the looks and the reactions will be the same, doesnt matter if they are stilletos or 2inch thin block heel boots, they are for most people women shoes period. If I have the guts to wear those boots in the open during the day and even in the airport where is where everybody notices the shoes the most. then go for it push the envelope well to the limit, actually there is no limit becasue nobody is going to fine you becasue you are wearing a higher heel and feeling cool walking with those shoes. After i felt this way i got some pairs of my regular men favorite shoes, which i use in a dailly basis, i increased the heel to 2inch and over, and it still look as aman shoe with a thick heel period, even when i give them to shine, the guy doesnt react and looks like the heel is much more confy, I came to the conclusion that even if I raised the heel to 3inches, the shoe will look weird, plus the base of the shoe is not shped to that curve under the arc of the foot, and it may cause a bone problem, but nobody will think "this guy is wearing women shoes" is more like " this shoe is weird and it may be the last fashion on shoes today" where is a very accepted opinion for me at this moment. I suggest you to go for it turn all your men shoes into a 2inch heel in Height respecting the width and the length of the heel in your mens shoe. normally 3x3 inch If you notice male shoes have a width of 3x3 inches both ways and something lower in the direction of the lenght of the shoe is most liketly to be women's shoes. For Women's shoes it is 2x2, or 2.5x2, (lenght in direction of the shoe x width of the heel) Nice story by the way thanks for sharing, when I travel i take most of the time a carry on small luggage, and i travel with 2 pairs of high heel shoes, most of the time high thigh boots, with 5 inch stilleto heel, and when they pass them in the x rays no body cares, if i am traveling with coleagues then I attach a tag or a price or something showing they are new and if i have to open my suitcase in front of someone that it will make me feel not ok, then i can say "hey check this out!! that is a gift for a gf that always treat me well", then better to be a kinky player than having a gossip at work. but it never happened, since when the security check is done is always private and respectful. Remember Plan B has to be prepared all the time.

I am currently sitting here in a pair of wet-look leggings, legwarmers and high heel sandals... (I'm in Girl Mode)

I have to say that I look damn hot even if I say so myself!

Good Dr. Shoe, I am wondering how it would look if you post a pic when having such exciting moments.

Here's a picture of my silver leggings worn with my patent knee boots.

I think i will go to buy mine later, I were just buying the other kind of leggins that looks sparks all over, but this mettallic plain design looks so hot on anyone, is a guarantee.

By the way, try to lose the panty line, use a T or nothing at all, since is very shiny enaything touching the skin will be refected. including scars and skin marks.

Nice boots, so hot, are you going out wearing this look?

That is a difficult reaction to manage. I've had a similar experience in the past (different subject not related to heels). In my case it gave me an indication of the "true feelings" and gave me some pointers on how to handle these situations.

Yes you are right, but as thighboots says is different in any person, he has a point see below, but for sure i have red flags indeed for telling my wife, so i have to work out even more this process for letting her know my hobbie., thanks for your feedback

Morpho,

I think i can quite understand your wife's reaction. She was faced with an obvious male dressed in female attire and basically not trying to hide the fact. Why not, it is NY after all but it is a sight many will not be used too and anything that one sees that you are not used too will initially cause a similar reaction until the information is processed by the person and they recover and are able to decide how to proceed.

If this is how you wish to present to your wife, then this is certainly the reaction you will get. But what if it were kneehighs who had just walked out of the door instead? Still in 4" stilettos, but clearly dressed as a man expressing fashion freedom. I guess we will never know the answer to that.

How do you want to present to the world?

Personally, whilst I am totally against all this gender specific stuff and I am totally for whomever wearing whatever they choose, it doesn't mean I have to like what I see. Personally I think there are precious few guys that can wear a dress well (or walk in high heels come to that even though they kid themselves they can), precious few can cross the line into female clothing and really look good as an obvious male, but there are certain styles that do lend themselves to being worn by either gender and business suits are one of those. A good example of this is the pictures by Heel-Lover from NZ. Maybe his choice of skirt length is a little to short for my taste, I am a little conservative in this as I prefer knee or longer lengths, but this aside, the look is not as outrageous. Rather a nice juxtaposition of the male and female clothing styles. Another style would be skinny pants with knee boots over as long as the guy has the right figure.

I do not really think you can count the gentleman you and you wife saw as a "heeler" as he was far more than that, and a brave soul too boot.

Simon

Yes you are right, in this case the man was presented as a freestyler with many femenine details such as hair, nails, boots, skirt, I was thinking that if he tried to make his face a litlle more presentable, then people looking at him wont be that alarmed, but it was quite unusual, for my taste, if i were to go out in anormal basis in heels, i would make a little effort to present well, either fashion as a man in heels (like kneehights) or in femme in a way that i put some effort in order to look like a whore or vulgar, but he was have neither of those aspects, is hard to describe, ...i think it was just not very convincing or atractive, ...maybe all the components were not matching and there was no harmony in the outfit besides there was a confusion of a man in dress, and hight heels. Still need to analize this situation because is a potential cause why men in heels are not well seen in public.

You never see a female nurse in heels in a hospital and certainly never a male nurse either. That must have been a very interesting sight to be sure.

Cheers---

Dawn HH

One day I went with my wife for a regular checking to a hospital at houston texas, and there where all this nurses, very normal dressed but the assistant of a doctor that was in the plastic surgery area, (it happened that we stopped there to ask for some info) was very nicely dressed in white as a nurse with a pencil skirt over the knee, some kind of stockings with a sexy design and a pair 5inch white pumps, she was really atracting the atention to the point that even my wife said that she was so pretty and overdressed to be working there, i said sarcastically, well mybe there are two reasons, one she is doing some advertising to this doctor and succeeding,and/ or two the doctor is having fun as well. lol

in anycase heels are well seen in hospitals around the world. it depends if the employee would like to wear them all the time.

But this person that as said is a male in femme, is something that i would liked to see also,

I published a new video with my new black patent pumps 5,5 inches for the training I am doing in this high....It is not easy but the feelings are fantastic, believe me. How am I doing????

Look at

Please rate the video and put comments there ....that will make the video more popular in YouTube and will make men on heels in the street more usual for people!!!!!!!!

Again I have to say that does shoes are my favorite, i am thinking to get the same ones, since you convinced me by posting this video, i could see them in action, well done my firend.

At least you can play with one foot.....or dont tell me that it was in both feet...just kiidin get well, hope it was not a bad injury.

Yesterday was an unexpected awkward moment: As many of you may know i am a secret heeler and wife doesnt know that, the reasons are plenty but the main reason is that i dont feel she will aprove.... given the later intro, i continue with this experience that happened yesterday, we were walking in downtown looking for an adress and it was noon and many people walking in all directions in the street as usual, then we stop ifront of a building whish was closed, but was having a small entrance we were wondering if we were in the correct pplace we were looking for, then we find out it was not, then at that mometn from that door a heeler came out with a 5 inch great pumps and shiny hose, he (not wearing boobs so is a he in that moment) was wearing no make up at all, but was wearing a dress and a nice purse, his hair was naturally long and done, the moment was ackwrd becasue my wife freakout and felt to unconfortable she said nothing she didnt wanted even to turn her head to see the heeler, she was only freezed, I felt i wanted to see where he was going so maybe i will know a route to heel, but my wife left quick, she said nothing and we didnt comment at all, i made my self like if I didnt notice and kept looking for that adress. Giving the recent experience i feel there is a long long long way to go with this "telling her" prosess. In general the guy was not offensive or indescently dressed, it was just a dude in a dress and heels, with nice nails and hairdo. I wanted also to see the reacitons of the other people but i had to move with her quick. I believe that is very fragile to manage this moments because we can make the person feel bad and it could be one of us, or we can send the wrong message to our wife that can be difficult to repair.

tallguyinheels i like the look in that pic you posted also , just enough of the heels to show

Thats true, but very nice picture indeed.

I was wondering after this thread that maybe i will jump out of the car one day in the middle of the way from a city to another and pump some gas, and go to buy some cofe and peanuts to the convenience store, with my TH H black patent 5inch boots over my jeans and a leather jacket, as many of member of this forum do regularly, but i will do that in order to check the reactions, That way i wont care who is there, i probably will never see them again, but who knows right?

Why i want to do it? just becasue i need some motivation to dress up and try to accomplish what i want and sying it over and over in almost every post, haha

I know that i will, but need a little push.

TallGuyinheels: Can you show us your boot that was shown that day? just curious.

Amazing pics, i wonder how long took you to prepare all the shoot, it looks that you hade to remove all furniture from the shooting area. Great boots, and skirts

I've done it! Read this for more details: http://misterdshighheelsexperiences.blogspot.com/

I have to say congratulations this is what i say the best moments of a heeler life, really you will never forget the excitement that even i could felt again by reading your blog, thanks for sharing.

I worked many many years ago in the construction industry doing some kind of deco material supply, and what i can tell you now is to try to look for a pair of high heel work boots ment for women in the fashion stores the ones that are mocking the actual work boots, there are some even with a 4inch high heel, maybe you can get a 2.5 or 3 inch high boot and wear it everyday, it doesnt look weird in a size 11 or 12 and if somebody says something as usual you can tell em that your doctor prescribe them to you for backspine posture reasons. they will inmediatelly shutup their mouth and will understand in a positive way, meanwhile you can enjoy your high heels even infront of the co-workers, if you have a jean that could cover it up the better.

I remember i did the same one day, getting out from my car for the first time in my life in heels and just got the guts to make 4 steps and come back quick even if i was alone and my pants were covering all the shoe, lol, is funny but true thats the begining, now to go out from the car in femme is my challenge, i cannot dare still but will do shortly.

maybe now you are ready to wear thigh high shiny 5inch boots over any jean and go inside the same convenience store and check the reactions, i can bet you that done what you have experienced by accident is actually more difficult to experience than going as i am telling you. One day i will experiment that in a place i definatelly dont know noone, maybe when i take the road for comuting to another city, in the middle of the way, putting my sexy boots and walking to the store just to see reactions. Can be fun.

great story, ....have you gone to a stadium in heels? I am just very curious how it would be. cheers

wow........congrats...there you go what else you want?, "dirty boy" I wish one day I could do "the move" too, but I missed that stage in my relationship, now is a little bit advanced and is dificult to reveal the hobby. Have to think about a creative method, any ideas? I think bedroom is the best reason to explain the fetishism. good aproach!!!

great story, welcome .....keep writing your experiences... as for your shoe quest I think you should let them go and move on with new styles, browse the e stores and get the best you want, or go to shopping mall buy boots or pumps whatever you like where you can return them if is not confy or is not what you want, try them on in the car or in the privacy of your home.

I would wear them bouncing, but a guy in 5+" stilettos, somehow, may not be as intimidating...LOL

I bouncer in stilletos may be more intimidating of course, you never know what is gonna do if wearing a 5 inch stilletos lets say crotch boots and if you have a respectable body to do the job, then i think that if i were to be the manager of the place, i would may promote you to be leader at the place, for sure people will stare at you with respect. and if it happens that you have to take someone out, meanwhile you are in heels, then show your heel first and then say: "Please leave,i prefer not to make something ugly, so I repeat for second and last time, please leave before is too late"

hahahahaha,

Ok? then when? what are we waiting for? Ready with two pair, of sexy kick ass thhboots.

During the cab check I saw the pumps next to the gear shift ......oh sh#$% ! Here it comes 21 questions. All the DOT said was, hope we didn't wake your girlfriend.After seeing the shoes in the floorboard. I replied , not much wakes her up. The first thing after leaving the scale put shoes in bunk and do not remove til I get home. That pretty much broke me of highway heeling. I have not drove in heels since . !

That was a story, well, if your shoes were size 10 usa or 43eu, then please who are you kiddin, the inspector maybe was pulling aleg on you, hahaha, in any case what the hell, you probably wont see him again, and he wont saw to his friends who are you and what License no. etc, is just normal. The problem is that if the inspector is your friend and knows your co-workers, trucker partners etc, that may be a little difficult to handle and to explain.

The other thing I was imagining is that instead of a inspector lets say it was the sherif, and see the heels there and then no girl, that would be raising some suspition if a girl was missing in the county, hahahaha then you have to explain that those shoes are totally yours, and probe it by walking in them as good as you do, hahahaha, anyway, nothing wrong with it, hope would never happen, but you shouldnt reframe from driving in heels just because of that.

One day I was driving in a tigh miniskirt and fishnet tighs with a high tigh black PU boots, the look was so sexy, I have to accept i looked like a hooker, anyway i was driving in the high way, 2 hour trip, and in one of those times when the trucker goes shoulder to shoulder from your car he started to stare at my legs, I felt so so ackward, I was wearing a cap and a sunglasses, difficult to identify, anyway i felt so weird, have to say that was not pleasant, and had to put a sweater over my lap, and stand the guy for some minutes, then he left, i was not to accelarate and get a ticket just because of that.

This is an example of another scenario of a possible bad experience or accident.

I dont have an advice becasue i am not qualified for that since i dont have kids, but i can have an opinion and and analisis if it helps: First In your case the most important thing is to see inside you what you want based on cause -effect, so if you want to let them know, then ask yourself why? or is it important in anyway? Many wont agree but let me put some points that are making this issue a nonsense option for telling your kids. 1. your personal fetishes and sexual life is yours and only yours shared with your wife only, that secret only starts and finnishes in the bedroom. (most cases apply) 2. even if you love so much your kids there are things that has to remain personal "not necesarily secret" and is ackward to give details. 3. your image definatelly will change in their head (of your kids), but not their love toward you, with or without heels is ok anyways, they are noone to examine you, and if they hava a negative or a disagreement what are you gonna do? try to convince? nonsense right? 4. Most probably they wont be very happy for you, mostly or maybe disapointed, but not condemninng, nothing is absolute in this life, so is better also in this point no to do so. 5. To be honest will make you happy or sad? if the putcome will be most likely confusion and understanding but not and definatelly they wont congratulate you. If it happens that they are not also heel fans then they wont feel the same way. remember they are not heel fans. 6. It is very important to ask your wife what she thinks, honestly, is the image of her husband also and that is not belonging only to you, so dont be that selfish, her opinion is another 60% maybe. If you care about her steam and future life and also image. 7. would your life be better? are you gonna be a TG openly? or wear heels always in your normal life? if the answer is yes to this Q's then go ahead. otherwise please consider the other points i wrote to you. The only positive part of telling them is that as you said you will feel free from sercrets, and mybe peace of mind, "selfishly" because you wont know what the rest of the family will really be thinking and maybe they wont like to tell you a negative in order no to hurt you, the worst thing for the man of the house is that the family would be feeling pitty for him for x reason, This is not an issue and is not something to be ashame of is only a hobbie and is personal only can be shared to the people of the same species, shown in this forum for example. You havebeen a model for them all the life , somebody will say "please dont come now and change the rules" in theory they may feel betrayed or scammed, or maybe not, Im just thinking the worst scenario. If this can help you it would be great, remember evrything is in you head, be strong know your options, and respect what you can keep only for you and what you would like to share, this is a non-reversible action, So if you feel confortable and your family must know, and it will ease your life, then I wish you all the best. This is a very good thread my friend an please tell us your process with respects to this matter. I repeat again we are all learning and solving our issues together with mutual help. Cheers Morpho

My 2 cents are this.

Moral of the story? well, in hindsight... which usually is 20/20, it was a bigger deal than what i thought it was at the time. You have to remember, the police man who could pull you over has probably, and quite possibly seen worse than a guy in high heels. So, IF perchance you do get pulled over, who cares. if they want you to get out? who cares. its your clothes, its your shoes, its your life, and he aint gonna arrest you for your style of dress. There you go.

That is a story that i always fear will happen to me, when driving thats why i alwas have a pair of slippers next to me for that case, and if i wear to drive in heels i try not to wear pointy shoes since those ones are extralong and may cause you to press wrong the pedals.

I always wonder if a cop spot you in heels, wearing man outfit, is it a reason to use inapropirtiate footwear and can give you a ticket just for that?

or if a cop spots you all in femme, and of course in your DL your appearance is totally different than the actual, is that a ground to "in the best cases" only to report and keep you in the public file, that you was spotted in femme, so this antecedent makes you in the list of TV and people that may be suspected of something and wearing in femme? this is something that keeps in my head all the time when going out.