morpho

thanks but i moved back home it was a temp job reloc, i will try to go to the whm if possible

Whats going to happen when she finds out? Why would you want to hide something from your sole mate that is so important to you and a part of you. I would think that an honest, true-in-love partner would want to share this with you. After all, it is only shoes we're talking about here, right?

Thanks Johnie,

The only difference is that those shoes that we are talking about are women's, and are comming with a heavy package difficult to explain about liking the pantyhose and wearing dresses etc, etc,

My best feeling about her opinion is that she will not accept, not to say condemning and disapointing.

If she finds out then thats another story, "I need to be creative"

This not like hiding a treasure, it is indeed hiding a truly fantasy secret, which in my humble opinion, i am entitled to keep and deciding not to share even with the love of my life.... for many reasons and maybe becasue i wont like her to change her opinion about me, i like how she thinks about me and i prefer to keep it this way,

sometimes I think that even if she would accept and would like me to keep my hobbie, then maybe wearing my heels wont be that fun and that exciting, I seriously believe that the forbiden gardens are desirable as long as they keep being forbiden, once is public and free then the value disappears, ....this metaphoric idea is similar for me wearing my heels, just the forbiden garden is my secret, and the value is my excitment, ..........too complicated right? but im sure many heelers think this way,

I think that those fortunate heelers like you that had incorporated the wearing heels in the normal life in front of the wife and the world, have a different feeling and perception than those ones like me that cannot risk or are not thinking as it is a big deal to share, just because my/our objective is not to live as a heeler all the time,(ofcourse i would like to go to the street with my boots on) but there is a point that i feel bored, even if I were so excited the first time I raised my man casual ankle boot from aldo to 2.5inch heel, now is normal and i dont care, sometimes I dont notice the feeling, For my stilletos I only like to play for a while, then there is a moment that i say enought and go on with other activities, such as practicing a sport etc,

If I were a TV 24/7 then is different and my life would depend on that secret to be shared, but it is not the case, my life does not depend on that,

Therefore if she discovers this webvsite, then first let me tell her Hi, "Hi Honey" then I think she wont know who is morpho, or johnieheel or etc etc etc, so it is almost impossible to identify me, unless I let the PC logged in by mistake, but is also less likely that it could happen since we have strong respect for each other privacy, phone, pc, reading etc. I think thats why I dont feel that i need to tell her.

when will be the next nite out?, hahaha it really sounds inviting, ...mmm rubber dresses on girls, ....I will give you ashout the next time i will come to London, maybe an spontaneous nite out will be planned. cheers

Only if it gets in the way of the rest of your life. Only you can answer that, not anyone else.

I know what you mean....

I think somethimes it impacts very negative when I need to do something important and I cannot scape from wearing my heels and playing instead, that has happened many many times,...sounds stupid but is real, I missed meetings, and had other significant loss of time because of this obsesion.

Max, .........now we are talking freestyle fashion. well done, very creative. Do you go clubing wearing those boots? anywhere?

When I see a girl in heels I think that they enhance her sexiness considerably but it's not the heels themselves that are sexy it's just the fact that she's wearing them that make the whole thing sexy.

I love heels because of the way they feel but I do like the look in the mirror too but it's not the heels that are sexy...

I agree with you also.....

Just wanted to add an example,

Jeans..... were made exclusively for laborers on the manufacture industry as uniform, then cowboys adopt it, then it became a trend for men and then for women, the styles are evidently different, .... who cannot agree that a curvy girl in jeans is not sexy?,.... now put the same jeans to a guy, .......it still looks as a guy. right?.... maybe in skinny jeans, like the rollingstones, is that sexy? for many no for other maybe yes, ...buuuutt we are talking here about femenine sexyness, unless I am misunderstanding the question.

well same for shoes, hypotetically speaking....if the heels were kept being used by males until now and the designs would be evidently different according to sizes and trends, then girls will still be looking good as today, with long legs, excited calves, straight tights and their walk would be also the same as today, whereas a guy in heels is totally different, look at any guy in male mode with heels )in the mirror and tell me if he is better than Angelina Jollie in her best days. A girl is a girl (including TG's and TS's offcourse) and a guy is a guy (in male image)

if i have to make one choice, then it will be thigh high boots, because they are more fun and since i just play around the house, not going out in heels then is much more fun. I like pumps and knee boots as well but those ones would be better if i would like to coordinate and be well dress. sometimes i am not playing that game.

Trully I dont see why I should tell my wife to share this with me, even if she would like to see me in heels, I think that anonimacy and privacy on this threads are needed for many of us to be able to express what we have the most fear and feel relief in something that seems to be unacceptable in the eyes of the society. In other words, I wont like to share this as it is consider as my personal journal. I would respect her privacy in other things or fetishes or uncommon habits or hobbies, it is normal.

I just got these for summer. The heels are 6". What do you think?

Very Cute! And paired with some beautiful legs

I am not a fan for pink shoes but have to say that those ones look great on you.

The pantyhose is perfect match, for those

I have an obsesion for wearing my shoes, and tights all day long 24/7, is that bad?

all are good ideas, as soon as it will be decided i wont hesitate to book my flight and be pending hoping no mayor duty will appear on my calendar again, By the way this location that I will be about to tell you may do that more than one person to imagine the fun.......LAS VEGAS....... imagine all of us there in boots no one will say a thing in annegative way, we will be able to club, to play, to eat, to WALK, to swim and TAN, to SHOP, to watch a show, maybe checking out a cabaret or two, there are masages etc, the alcohol flows like water for all of those that wlaks better in 5inch stilletos with more than 5 drinks. The hotels are so cheap if there is agroup that will be booked in advance, try to think the possibilities, in heels for a weekend, 24 hrs x 3 days, in dress or in rubber whatever you want it LAS VEGAS WILL BE ALWAYS LAS VEGAS..... (this is not an informercial, lol) AND... what happens in las vegas stays in Las Vegas. Who is up for this one? although Bristol and NYC are good options too.

Als: not alone feeling like that, hope that the small issues that is being argued in the main thread will be overcomed soon, as it makes all the effort af everyone look terrrible, and surely it was not bad at all, ,,i want to think. As I said in the thread of the night at club rub, i feel just with the little feedback, that it was awsome...hope i could join one day as well.

LHH: Thanks for sharing it looks like a big adventure to me too just as you describe I could fantasize, except for the comment of the insulting trannies etc, ...., too bad i couldnt make it, i hope one day i could go there to the uk soon and give you guys a call, Were there many girls? how were they dressed? what music? at what time everything was over? DR: what was the best thing of the night? cheers

believe it or not, not only on the 60's, 70's and 80's were difficult to find larger sizes, ,Now days in many countries, ......I am now doing a biz trip around Asia, and found out that there is practically impossible to find size 10 and up, I cannot find any, the shoes here are so small and very nice designs, amazing i would say, everything is made here, but all the large sizes are for export only, I went to Singapore, Hong Kong now I am in MAlaysia and nothing, everything is small, only ZARA and H&M carry size 40 or maybe 10, thats the largest. HOw the Asian folks do? I dont know but i noticed that they are not large feet people as well, so.....only turist cannot find any size of shoe.

As promised you can solve your differencies here, hope there will be stronger bonds between all of you after this thread concludes. no ideas for me now, I really dissapointed, hope the actual thread of the HM take shape and will be atractive again. MORPHO

Hi all,

I'm really sorry I also didnt make it saturday,

I was in teh car on the way back from the bank, heels in a bag in the car, when I got a call from a company i sub contract from to say a crisis had come up, I work for myself and sub-contract from this company and couldn't afford to not take the work

I am sorry.

On a side note, can i just say that this bitching going on, whilst alright for you guys and girls to do could potentially put off anyone who didnt have the courage to hsow up but wants to hear all the good points to what happened that day, not the crap thats going on afterwards. Why not take your arguments elswhere more "appropriately titled" and tell those here that missed it what a good event it was and maybe try and convince them to come along next year?

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thats my two cents worth and I know I didnt turn up either and have no rights!

I hope all had a good time.

Maybe next year/time we can meet and I will be there?

BUB

DEAR ALL:

GUYS GUYS GUYS.........

FIRST. PLEASE FINNISH READING THIS POST.

IM SO DISSAPOINTED AND WOULD LIKE TO SUGGEST THE FOLLOWING

A SOLUTION ....

I didnt turn up because......(whatever it was the reason i explained many weeks ago)....thats not what i wanted to say ..... by the way im not sorry, im surprised and dissapointed.

This cat fight has to end....and it will end..... NOW.....i AM SO BORED TRYING TO BROWSE FOR feedback of how the HM2009 was, I never assited one......"REASONS" ARE "REASONS"

NOW I WILL SPEAK FOR THE REST OF THE FORUM MEMBER THAT WERE WONDERING TO ASSIST ONE, IF THERE WOULD BE ONE IN THE FUTURE "i hOPE"

I had my budget to assist, long way airflight ticket, time, etc, but for different reasons couldnt make it, at this point I dont know if I was fortunate or unfortunate, since I am reading all this boring argument between the most popular guys of the forum in regards to a inmature issue.

If the next HM will be real then I am scared that most of the time you guys are going to talk about this stupid topic and problem, and make otheres that are tryimng to convince themselves to have the guts meet people that share the same pasion and turning everything in a n argument well i prefer stay home and burn my boots as a symbol of disapointment.

I am not taking any side and wont be part of that of course, but i will invite all of you to please refer to a new thread i will open with the name "Solutions for disagreement and issues of HM 2009"

So if you guys are going to keep the cat fight please do so there so for this thread can only contain stories and adventures during the event, we will really appreciate it.

I am sincerely sending to those who would like to kindly continue fighting there so I and the rest of the comunity would not get bored on reading this thread.

If you think I am rude, you are mistaken. the thing that im not very happy watching people that i was about to meet that are turning this HM into a big dissapointment, I hope not , I really hope I am mistaken, and would love to see that there would be a nother HM.

For me and for many others it is so difficult to decide to go out or not, so imagine how difficult would be even if there are people screwing up even the environment of that, where is the motivation?

It took me many many years to say yes i would like to go if i can, now start over again.

I feel i needed to write in this way with my boots well tighten so you guys can realize that is very much screwed up other things besides the hm and if kneehight thi or airwolf that and whatever!!!, "Potential new atendees for the next one" are very dissapointed to see that, is that the quality of people or of topic we were going to see?

I know that is not like that .....since i pretty much know many of you the way you write you show your talent and the intereting side of you.

Please move on and tell us how thing were there etc (ONLY IN THIS THREAD), what were you wearing etc, buy my motivation back,

TO ALL: CLICK THANKS IF YOU AGREE, AND I HOPE THAT AFTER THIS POST THERE WOULDNT BE ANYTHING RELATED TO THE BORING ARGUMENT.

Cheers to ALL PEACE

sorry this one will be long again, try to finnish the story.... This outing is not counted as a going out in public to me, it was one day before halloween, and was i think a friday, halloween was on saturday, anyway...that friday night I went out from my house at around 12am with a bag full of candies, in a vamp outfit 5 inch heel black boots, face with a scary makeup. My prupose was to take a walk around the block, ....no one was on the street, and there were only people going out to have drinks etc, so the atmosphere was a little relaxed, I could hear people having fun in the background like if there were some get together in some houses around etc, I was walking only one block and just like that... very quick ...these guys in a bronco pickup truck with the stereo at the highest volume passed beside me,.. so fast,..... i thought that hopefully they didnt noticed I was a guy wearing a femme vamp costume with a 5inch stilleto boots, the truck passed quick as I said, and then before taking the next block and turning right or left they decided to go back so they turned around, and turn on the fog lamps to me and stayed there staring, (exactly for some seconds I was realizing that that was actualy happening, but one thing was true..... I didnt freak out ......for some reason I was very calmed..... I saw there were two guys maybe in their twenties on that truck, .......the longer they were staying there pointing the lamps to me my patience ran up, I started to feel offended and it didnt took much for me to be ready and focus to strike if one got the nerve to get out from that truck, I got very angry, I remember, I decided to walk straight the line not turning around and keep looking at them, for sure they couldnt id me since my make up was really bloody scary, but the fact that I were in heels gave me a disadvantage, they stayed there for 20 seconds and then decided to aproach slowly, (like a movie really)......exactly at that point I started to think one million things, what would happen if I fight and then the police come and arrest everybody and me in 5 inch high heels arguing what heppened with the officer etc, .....well what the hell....I said if it happens it happens and is halloween, I got a good explanation for my wife and friends , family etc, which wouldnt be important at that point., then I started to think what if this guys are armed? in any case I decided to continue walking and not rushing, then the truck was almost beside me when the guy shouted "Freak!!!!!", he stayed 5 seconds and I responded to his face, "If you have real balls let me show you how freak I am, get the f..ck out of that looser truck ....you and your goomar both at the same time here and now". I couldnt believe that I said that knowing the consequences, but in any case they provoque me, (I know it was really stupid but it made me boil) The guy remain staring for 3 seconds not more and fuel the truck and made the noise of the tires like if he was a hot rod, that was so reliefing and satisfying, f.....ckn cowards I shouted. With no time to loose I walked back home checking no one was watching me from the distance, I changed and got out again into front garden to water the plants, wanted to see if they were comming back but it didnt happened, hope I gave them a lesson. Now I feel stupid to said that because the purpose is to do my thing not to start or continue a stupid fight. Fortunatelly nothing happened, now I cautious and knowing my self more in how I react I prefer to prepare my outings carefully, I am a very sensitive guy when wearing heels. hehehe and very calm indeed just that night was different.

Morpho, It sounds like you need to 'get out there' right now.

There is not much of a rush for me as I wear heels so much, but It is super when I get a compliment, which is more than you would think. I get as much heckling as anyone in these kind of boots....male or female....They kind of 'go beyond' the gender issue BECAUSE they are so in-your-face-fantastic

and people see and wonder at the boots, if they are interested.

They are not girly ...remember that I am not cross dressing, or in pink strappy sandals.

Let me know what you think.

M

Thanks Mike, Is true indeed I need to go out there and everywhere at least once, I feel so tempted all the time when I go home from work or I walk the streets alone or with my wife or friends, I am just looking for heels around me, so I can see if I could do that one day, I always say to my self ...If I where wearing heels now what does that man or woman (assuming that someone is infront of me) would say or how would react, in any case who cares I know but there is something that is not letting me do that for some reason and I cannot overcome and it doesnt let me to understand that is not the end of the world, as I could see in you pics

I think, that you probably have enought confidence to do what you do in a regular basis becasue is part of you life and also your area is very tolerant.

Also if I could have a friend to do the same then it wont be that much challenge since i would feel im not alone and the atention is shared, but rememebr no one in this world knows that i like to wear heels. One day i will or maybe I have to go to England to join some of you guys to do all that, since where I live I always meet someone at the street, or at the mall,everywhere.

Maybe a good Therapy would be to go with the style of your boots, to see a game manchester united vs arsenal, and challenge all the looks and opinions who cares. maybe if the boots where in red it could work better for that purpose.

Lets cool down this thread for a while with this video, check this out have some Humor of what is an emo. never to be ofensive.

cheers

Mike, really I wish also to have the balls to do that, wow, i could feel the excitment just by imagining being in you awsome boots, in that specific moment at that specific situation just like if right now i close my eyes and then I appear weaaring those boots exactly there and turning my head and just checking out that bals guy comming toward me and left looking that lady staring at my boots, wow, man Shout it aloud : Men..... get out there!!!!!!!!!!! more pics? a video maybe?

Too, too complicated thread, I was wondering the other day, that as we had concluded in many many other open threads that male wearing high heels, in public or not, has nothing to do with being gay or not, as a matter of fact there is a notorious difference that straigh men wearing heels is very common than gay people, not including bi, which in my question cannot be counted sorry no ofense, the question is: Then Why Gays dont feel to wear high heels in a mayority of the cases, I really got surprised hearing from many gay men their reluctancy of trying on my 5 inch tigh high boots on halloween or even any high heels, made them feeling weird or even disgusted, I am very confused with that irony, if I could call it like that. If the gay are men that look for other men, and want to be atractive to those other men, why not to look femmenine? or is it that the targeted men need to like the other men that looks like men and not femenine at the same time?. sorry for this big big confusing question, but is true, why the gay men are not inclined to wear heels more than straight men.? Of course there is at any moment a intention of segregation or ofense to no one at any time, it is only a big open question, who can answer it? Cheers

Those boots look awsome with the pants, so interestig, Last week I spot a sexy girl, very very sexy asian tall and cute girl, she was wearing those pants, maybe vynil, I couldnt tell but similar look, and a pair of 5inch pointed ankle boots in a PU that blended with the pants pefectly, it was a very sexy look, she was making heads to turn and stare in a positive way, and people were really liking it. Nice pics

Just wanted to thank Kneehighs and all of you who makes possible this event, I regret to say that I wont be able to attend, because of biz travel, however I will have fun in Asia, and possibly do a public outing there, if it looks safe and tolerant, at least in Japan and Thailand, I dont Know if in HOng Kong and Taiwan since are my 4 destinations, will tell you later how it went, take pics from the waist down if possible or of all the group. Have fun, to y'all

Yahoo! Answers has some good questions and answers, unfortunately, you've got to know the answer to know if one is right.

Many times the asker will choose a best answer that's wrong because it's what they wanted to hear. If best answer is chosen by voting, often the winner is someone who remembered to go back and vote for their own answer! (it's allowed)

Many questions are juvenile, incomplete, incoherent, misspelled, inappropriate, or something nobody could possibly know.

Q. Help me find my cell phone?

A. You left it at my house last night.

Q. If you fall down a flight of stairs, can you become paralyzed or lose your ability to walk?

A. Is this a theoretical question, or did you just drag yourself across the floor to check Yahoo! Answers before calling 911?

Just to mention That out out of interest of getting the best answer...I did.

Maybe because I just mention the philosophy and not exactly the definition of the term EMO.

check the answers, many people had a point though.

And after i condemn the ignorants, many people started to mention valuable points, either pro or con, but not only stupid answers as how at the begining of the tread.

Mike, you just inspired me to try to do the same, but unfortunately i dont have the guts to do so hahahahaha,......thinking something crazy..........next time i will go biz trip at a place i dont know anybody I will put on my t h boots and do the same, hopefully, .... in you pics, it looks that everybody from your back were staring so so bad, but with this discovering and courious look, not disqualifying at all, ....think is very good and positive.....looks so exciting at the escalator, wow, the person behing you must be wishing to be inside those boots, male or female.....is it possible that men that never experience putting a high heel shoe on can be inspired to become a heeler fan wearer just by spoting in public another guy in heels? could that be possible? to become one instantaneously, like love at a first sight? good job mike