morpho

I did a quick check of both thefreedictionary.com and wikipedia.org and streetheeling doesn't appear in either which leads to my point. I believe the pursuit of defining something like this is wasted energy. If a woman wears heels in public she is just living another day in her life but if a genetic man wears heels in public it needs the moniker "streetheeling". We are a group who seeks the same seamless acceptance to shop for, try on, buy, and WEAR high heel shoes without stigma,labels, or undue attention. To me the merit is not in assigning names to a something from which our group really doesn't want undue attention rather it lies in equality and freedom. If one chooses to wear 2" cowboy boots, 1.5" kitten heels, 5" wedges, or 7" thigh boots they should be able to do so (man or woman) without hyperbole or a lot of analysis. Fashion (and most people) are open-ended and ever-changing. You are accepted here---that's the only certification needed.

HappyinHeels

I start to agree with you....... labels are stupid, then categories or ranks has to be established? ok then the ones that likes to call the activity of walking in the street with anything that has heels is streetheeling or etc, therefore make a chart and indicate where is the street heeling range, and furthermore.

If you think it better it doesn't make sense as happyheels implied unless im missing his point.

For everybody, there are challenges and we are free to call them whatever we want, but not to generalize with other peoples achievements or normal use of shoes.

In another point, I had been thinking that women are much more developed than men, or better said evolved, since many years ago they shown interest on all this kinda things and shapes, while men still were using whatever garment just for cover themselves, ladies were tayloring and designing shapes, images, pasterns, etc, while men were only fighting for survival and getting stability to feed the family etc, that happened maybe 500 years ago, and now they ladies can even wear pants, men shirts etc, and men still keeping the same type, pants shirts and flat shoes, ..... I think that all shapes can be used by all people regardless of sex, is just the way the image has being implanted on our brain since we were children and how society has to be categorized, now if you wear a earng being a male is ok and fashion, 20 years ago you were a gay and drugadict etc, just because you as a man are not suppose to do that. now if I show in 5inch pointy stilettos boots and a miniskirt over fishnets to my office, i will be not even granted entry, it would be offensive, why? am i showing my parts? or am i actually implying a message to offend personally anyone? no.. so then is just conceptual issue.....here is where i come for the subject "streetheeling" we should not call it as such just consider it be normal, other wise it will turn as something wrong and not allowed with no reason.

For all of you that love to challenge the height of the new designs and new fashion of high heels, it doesn't matter how much experience you have and if you are a gal or a man, all of us can fall at any moment, respect the heel height and be careful, check this out, Maria Carey falls in a way i remember i did once at the street when going out trying a new pair of boots, of course for me was in a lonely street, Carey in front of thousands and now in internet.

http://new.music.yahoo.com/blogs/stopthepresses/295756/mariah-takes-a-tumble-assistants-rush-to-the-rescue/

Im thinking that it is sexy too when someone grabs the attention because of falling due to the high heels, i personally find it hot and sexy, immediately i take a look to her shoes, and legs of course. Here Maria is so pretty and hot, it is very delighting to see her falling down again and again (harmless), part of the show.

cheers

welcome, post some experiences if you wear them too, and if not just try them on you will see what is the real feeling.

welcome

me too i love all that, check my avatar, also i love boots, all hights in heel and in body, long legs.... the best, cheers

what up dude? show your heels let us know your taste ..... keep heeling, morpho

None, maybe only when i see a TV or CD, but never put atention on guys wearing mens clothes and cmbining it with a nice 5inch boot, I hope one day i can see one of you guys, I will ask directly are you member of hhplace?

I have street heeled at midnight. Or rather 2 AM. It was when I was in my mid to late 20s. I wore a pair of black open toe platforms with a 5" heel and a pair of sheer thigh-high hold-up stockings. I didn't hide the fact I was in heels and hose. In fact, I purposely walked in well-lit areas where I could be seen by anybody. You could hear the clickety-clop sound of my shoes with every step I took. And when the street lights shined on my exposed legs, you could see the glimmer of the nylon. If it were safer in my neighborhood nowadays, I would do it in my newer plats. Street heeling late at night is the best.

I have the same feeling when going out at night for some reason is so exciting and private moment.

one day i will try to wonder the cinema on a weekday,

fEW TIMEs I HEELED out and about AROUND OTHERS, for some reasons the direct comments (someone approching and saying to you direclty) were nice so far. But indirect comments, I felt out of place and maybe trying to understand the situation but not judging or making fun at. I had different experiences with comments around the world, even in China many years ago, on halloween in Hong Kong for some luck i was attending to a conference on that country and they are celebrating big time the halloween as in the US, every body dresses up etc, I felt by going ahead and buying my self a pair of high tigh 5inch boots as i didnt brought mine with me, i had to try them at the store, it was a sex store, and the lady was so nice and helpful and told me very beautiful!! and very excited to see me standing and being able to walk, even a guy that was browsing around in his late 50's he smiled and say something in chinese, maybe nice or something. i decided to buy them just because it was a nice moment and very understandable as Halloween night was in some hours that day. One negative comment was another Halloween night at the states in Texas, i decided to go dressed as a witch with all black gown and messy black wig etc, i went out from my hotel and decided to walk all the way to down town on my high heels, a truck approach and some teens shouted " freak" i just throw them a stone to their car and impacted with huge noise they stopped and reconsider to came back i started to shout at them and raising a finger etc, they left with the noisy tire sound. f**em! Those are all my high lights

I can bet anything that you will do an outing in public in heels with your gf soon, and you may regret saying "that you prob wont do that never" I am telling you man, you are walking fast, you will do your first out and about in the best way, with your GF wearing high heels as well, congrats in advance. you will post that in the near future i feel it.

some times is confusing what i want to express when in public, as i dont go out very often but did fully in femme for most of them, i still dont understand why is easier for me go with dress/ skirt, nylons pumps or knee stilleto 5inch high heels fully exposed, and other accesories up, such as top, wig, sunglasses, fully makeup etc, and even jewlry, since my taget is never to attract men, I feel that is a contradiction on me by doing that. In the other hand thinking going only with high heels under my man jeans etc, doesnt fullfill me and is not exciting for some reason, I feel is weird as funny as it sounds. I wear beard and mustache most of the time, but that doesnt make me express the dressing desire and fantasy for wearing high heels etc, maybe i can enjoy a complete package besides wearing high heels. On eday i went out fully dressed with a black dress for night and very classy look, like if i was to receive an oscar etc, i took the car to down town i drove for 40 minutes up and down in the lively streets where there are the cafes and restaurants and people walking around very crowded, noone noticed i was a man inside the car wearing everything as a girl, actually were some cars besides mine trying to grab my atention to talk to me they were thinking i was a real girl as from the windshield is difficult to tell the details, i felt i was having the courage to go out and walk for some minutes across the street etc, and i did, people were thinking i was a lady, i felt "safe" i didnt wanted them to make fun at me or something they didnt, i continue walking, then a couple identified me and the girl said what is that, and her husban said what? that means no one was really looking at me but girls who are putting atention to everydetail, men we are not really trying to see if there is aman or woman, and if there is nothing attractive then we just dont put much atention. After that stroll i went to a gay bar it was suposed to be a dragnite, it was posted so i decided to stop for a drink by my self and wait for the performance, there were many guys with their partners i felt very out of place and awkward as i am straigh and was alone fully in a dress and high heels etc. people started to try to id me or wanted to come to catch my atention, i felt very unconfroable, i stayed for one hour than i left, i felt there were too many guys wnated to talk to me, that is what i dont like to send the wrong message. if i were weraing my heels and in a mens attire then i will get much more guys over me for sure.

I used to do the midnight walks, but the city i was doing it is safe enought but there is another kind of threats when heeling at night, last time i heeled, i was wearing 100% fem clothes very sexy skirt, nylons etc, my shoes were black pumps 5inch stilleto heel and clearly vissible since my skirt was very short, over black nylons. so you can imagine the picture, i just wanted to walk but got warmed up and went for it dressed even with a wig, i said to my self, if somebody sees me they might better confuse me with a tall girls going out from the offcie as my attire was purely business suit, i though it was safe to walk up a nd down around the park that surround a very nice corporate office complex, during midnigh, i have to say i did it many time and never gotten a problem, what i did before is park the car, look around get out of the car, normally im already dressed up from home, and then walk around long hours, always near my car so if there is a car approaching or somebody coming from oposite direction i can make sure to get into my car quick, ok last time i was doing the heeling and went far i passed infron of a bank ATM and i think the camera spotted me, surely a guard examine me closely and saw i was a man in heels, while walking back to my car i felt something was wrong and decided to ignite my car and leave, i never linked the fact of my feeling to the fact i may be spoted by the camera of the atm machine, while i was going out from the parking lot, two patrols came in so fast and very violent, I though for one second shit i will be explaining my heeling dressed as a sexy executive with two cops, maybe they will put a remark on my record "cought in femme or CD in public, " hahaha, but nothing happen they went directly to the atm machine and from there they were calling in their radio, at that moment i was already in the highway i saw that meanwhile i was on the service line getting out, im sure they were called by the camera and check if everything was ok, surely as i was difficult to be id the guard freak out seeing me coming back and forth with no reason at midnight at that location, and completely crosseddressed, i think he wanted to give me hard time etc, he can go to hell, i left on time. while driving away i felt again that feeling that i need to change my direction since the police may be trying to go after my car and ask why i what i was doing there and in heels, i didnt took the highway, i exit next parking lot on a very crowded restaurant parking lot and parked my car turned off and observed, ..i was right the two patrols left very quick and on the direction i have most probably would be taking into the high way, i was really worried. I headed opposite direction and went into the down town area, got changed in my car and went to grab a beer into a pub to think about that experience, after one hour i went back home with no problem. I think heeling is very inocent but very weird if a man does it at dificult hours, it may be much safer in matter of privacy and safety to heel at a mall during the day even wearing a red dress and shinny pumps, than going at midnight anywere. take this experience as one of many that can happen and may put you in a difficult situation.

thanks for sharing, hope you can post your next outing soon

It looks difficult to stop wearing the heels even fo some 5 miutes is important to feel you do it just for the sake of it. yesterday i spent half of my day in my new shoes it was very good feeling

I have relocated since almost a year now, and this new location didnt help me much in wearing my heels, i even couldnt bring them with me, I counted the longest time in even not trying or feeling the sensation of standing over a high heel shoe, for 4 months, At the begining i was not into the need as i was very busy, then i started to feel the need such as if i am into a drug or something, that much that at every girl i spotted with heels i was feeling the need to watch and see how she walked and wanted even to hear the clicking they were making when walkin, i found my self into a very miserable situation, funny but true. I confirmed that wearing high heels is an adiction and will never go away. I started to buy some new nylons and feeling the sensation of it maybe it was enought for a week, decided not to buy any shoe as long as i cant handle my spare time, also no place to hide from my wife, so the need of buying a high heel shoe started to increase day by day, i decided to buy for my wife many pairs very sexy and very nice, it was not solving the problem she was the one wearing them not me, i didnt felt jealous, of course i felt i wanted to tried them alos with her and go together, of course couldnt comunicate that. Then the wearing of nylons became too boring and over time i felt the anxiety, i decided to stop the misery and look for a pair that i can be able to keep, walk and go with many outfits as possible, then i found it it was not difficult and i got it. I was trying my new pair over and over almost everyday and today im happy i did it. I dont know if i will be able to resist again a long time not wearing a high heel even for trying it. what about you any experiences?

the best thing to do now that i am thinking what i would do if i were living with parents, would be to buy a box or a safe or something that may get a lock or key that only you can open, that will show to anyone that you are hiding something no one should see, thats enought to say thats my privacy, call it heels, porno, witchery, hunting rifle, jewelry whatever, is your and everybody will understand, get your sexy thigh hight 5.5 high heels boots and store them there safely and without the risk of them to get damaged. store your dresses, and your wigs, and even purses if you got to get some, i am just into heels, nylons and ocasionally dresses, and for fun i go total femme, i have my chest box locked at my warehouse. is the best thing you can do. then if someone will get to open it, he/she will understand why it was locked and hidden, it would be shameful to him or her, not to you.

Good for you, it took time for me to take the decision but my first outing was directly with a hightigh 5inch heels stilletto boots, and i got the blast of the year, and one of the life. the first outing is 1 in a lifetime "ofcourse" but not speaking about the action but about the feeling. is and always be special, i still have pics about my first time and i recall the feelings i got that day. i can say almost everything i did that night and every 30 minutes what i was doing. fun and loads of fun. next time youll do your thing, do it at nite and take 3 tequila shots prior to your stroll. and go to a club.

In one of my trips to Asia, I was in Beijing China where you can see shops for haircut everywhere is like a mania to get the hair done everytime for chinese, and also their way of delivering the service with an extra masasge on your head, shoulders and arms are priceless. well the thing that made me enjoy more besides the massage is that every girl that performs the massage are well dressed with a pencil skirt and a tight blouse, but all of them are asked to wear 4inch high heel whatever shape, but the high is imperative so as there were more than 12 girls going around the shop, i got very delighted checking out the meaty legs the have with nylons and the nicest high heels clicking on the hard surface of the floor, i was caught by the girl that was doing the massage to me, and I smiled when i was checking her out her legs and the shoes, i told her nice shoes, she understood and smiled back, i wonder that here in the US we can get some sort of concept like that, but most likely we wont as girls in america are getting lazy and less motivated to wear high heels as before to work active jobs like hairdressers or similar. I just wanted to share the experience as the topic is heels and haircuts, in a way.

I go out and about very rarely in heels, but when i do I try to dress up all, my game (which i still dont understand, but is pure desire and emotions) is to look like a whore maybe, without being one of course, let me describe: I put on silky, shiny nylons on well tigh and of a good quality that prevent thorns, over these nylons i wear a fashion fishnet very sexy, this mixture is to feel tigh my legs and to have a smooth and sexy look, as my legs are hairy, sometimes i trim but never shave. Then i put on my shoes, either a 5inch black pump, closed in the toes, (i dont like open toe) or a 5inch spike heel and pointy black leather pair of boots depending on the weather. then it comes the good stuf, i dont like long dresses or any pants when wearing heels, i like as shorter the skirt is or the dress could be, so i use to wear either one but always very short, i try to put as much accesosories as possible which i prefer not to go in detail as this is not a TV site, but just to get an idea (fake boobs, padded underwear, long curly brown hair wig, full make up and heavy fake jewelry, and a nice purse), any way just a crossdresser not a full time TG when i dare to do all this and go out, (few times in my life ) i try to go focused on having a nice walk and nice experience, with a bitch attitude, meaning dont speak with anyone. because of nervousness and nothing else. When in my normal attire im a normal guy, with jeans and tshirt,like sports, travel, gather for beer, spemnding time with my family wife and kids, and nothing else.l

Well my case had been evolving at every phase in my life, when i was young maybe 15's i used to hide them inside a furniture and at my room, between all my shit no one went there, i was lucky that my parents trusted me and let my private spaces alone and even the maid bnot to come and sneak over it even if i left a spoiled banana there for days, no one touched anything, i was clever enough to hide them inside a furniture which was needed to move the whole thing out from the wall and open the back board and there it was how i could let my only pair out. then when i was at university, i got to hide them in a box full of papers and other personal things from my school, nobody went there and it was safe. then when i got married at first i even got a collection of more than 10 shoes and etc, i had a sport bag and have them under a lock in the trunk of my car, noone went there. then when my job changed to be mostly in an office i used great part of my cabinets at my office to hide them inside a sports bag, now i moved temporaly i locked in 4 trunks with many boots, shoes, etc, in a small storage room, where i am the only one who has a key, and the only pair i got to use from time to time at my new location is hidden in my office as there is no much space at home.

Sorry to say that all of you guys are incorrect on your guess... this is what happened, think about it.... There is no wify there is no husband cough or any disagreement. there is just one of us trying to action his pair of boots in order to get at least 10 bucks if the price increases, other wise he will pay a penny or two for the trial at the action, second, the heel wearer doesn't has the need to say im a guy that wear heels and here are my shoes which i used to feel sexy and cool (besides other intentions) of course no one will even take a look at them, i would feel disgust to buy women shoes used that a man worn and thorn, if were a girl even a big foot gal. There you go.... the guy heel wearer is trying to excuse his big shoe deformed and worn, which clearly looks a man worn it, in order to get another man to buy it, why? beacuase only another man will buy it and probably he has more than only three pairs, also maybe other stuff as well. so he spot a potential client and then sales all his collection if he is on a need of doing so, i personally got a situation where i had to trash part of my collection in a moving. If there is any disagreement between a wife and a husband , do you think the lady will make herself ridicule and her husband too with ebay? at some dollars? she will dispose the shoes to the basket period, and leave. nice drill...

It may be fun, but i prefer to walk on my heels ratehr to sit and wait for my hair to be cut. any way nice idea though

I would be totally frozen, if it happened to me, Similar feeling i got when one day i was heeling in a office comercial area, when it was after hours and nobody was there, i was trying my new outfit and new boots, after some seconds i went inside my car becasue i got the feeling that i needed to leave (sixth sense), two cops came thought the entrance of the parking lot in their patrols so quick as if an alarm was set, i dont know, i completely got frozen and decided to go out calmly in my car, i passed exaclty by their side and i left, dont forget i was completely in a cd mode, maybe i was crazy that day, but i was wearing like a hooker maybe....i think someone call the cops on me thinking i was a hooker, since then i cant go out. going out in heels need a prep for sure.

I know there is a thread about a similar discussion but that one the whole scene is at home, where people will definatelly know you or can point at the person or family that lives in that house exclusively,..... maybe you as well as me are a closed door high heeler, and looking for a taste of the outside world in search for some emotions when wearing your heels, well....here is a drill i had being wondering for the last two months..... When i go on a biz trip i always pack my best and highest heels, and etc, and when i have some time for relaxation during a break or after a business meetings, i closed my self in my room and start to wear my boots and heels, ... one day it happened that the reception sent me compliments on the house by offering me a plate of fruits, peanuts, chocolates and a free drink, the person who came with the offer was a cute lady that looked to me very friendly and open minded (of course not a hooker) since we chat for some minutes at my room about the area and the place to go for sightseeing, I could easily use my thigh high boots meanwhile i was having that chat with her, and maybe she would be giving me an opinion out of couriosity, maybe she would like it, etc, i really felt like calling her again and open that door completely booted up. I didnt got the guts to do that, maybe i regret since it was going to be with no risk since in that country nobody knows me neither cares about a high heeler in the room, maybe next time for sure, only if it is a girl who will knock the door. wont like to give a wrong message to the concierge guy. so would you dare?

What such a bad news , modifying the party with the afterTG party, what a pitty, i hope it was not becasue the stupid negative complains from just two anti tg people (if im wrong, well thats how it looks like, im not tg, but annoys too much to hear negative umproductive comments when those ones doesnt move a finger to make soemthing happen), any way a guy in heels is a guy in heels and is already special and very very valuable, therefore i feel that those comments sounded insulting to many people. Also we are not to be able to meet new friends or do something nice to enhance the fiendship, anyway it is once a year and some of us if going will put a good amount of money to invest in by attending, whereas others just drop a line into this great forum in order to demotivate great actions, sorry for all of the ones were up to go to the original meeting, and sorry for Dr shoe, i see she had put a lot of creativity and effort in order to do something nice and special. Also can say she wanted to gather her friends too, if i finally go to the meetup, i will go as TG full in femme even if i am not into that and is hard for me to go out in public with heels, just to demonstrate that there is nothing to do against TG and very brave and valuable people. Hope this reply wont be erased from the forum as my purpose is just to make an important point here to sound. I know and im convinced this forum is only for shoe wearing and anything to do with fashion etc, and my point is to clarify that this mission is not descriminating any group at any moment. Dr shoe if i can go i will pm you in order to let me know the agenda over that week if any. PM to me also the people that wish to go so maybe i can also coordinate accomodation with anyone, as im coming as well from overseas. cheers m