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  1. where i used to live 10 years ago snow was very rare, and one given day it happened overnight all the city was actually on a given holiday to keep the people safe from the roads etc, as ice was appearing faster, I was feeling the thrill to go out, i remember i wanted to go out during the day but my biggest concern was to HIDE FROM THE PEOPLE that were passing by in their cars etc, i selected a small shopping center which was closed due to the conditions of the ice, nor were one single car in the parking lot, I decided that that particular spot was perhaps the one to be my first outing in my life in heels. so i went back to my house to get my gear and got trapped with the dilemma in how i was going to be walking over there? with my casual mens attire? with my 5inch boots on, i surely was not going to be spotted easily, but i didnt felt that as the best thrill to the big big opportunity, (since little i have also that strong attraction to use hose and tights, and look my legs with both heels and hose), so i needed something much more compromising... i was actually feeling a little rush as i didnt wanted the snow to melt, hahahaha, so i did decide, i was going to put on a miniskirt and black patterned tights, a jacket with a big scarf around my neck and covering my moth and nose, I got my wife's sunglasses and a snow hat, i didn't own any wig by then so be it, i say to my self lets do this!!! ..., i was thinking that maybe i was not looking very passable but at least not obvious, the black leather pointed 5inch stilleto heel boots and the sexy tights were giving most of the femme look so i felt i was not going to grab much attention neither. Fully armed with guts and motivation, adrenaline and excitement.... i dressed up in 5 minutes, got into my car, getting out from my house made me feel a very strong feeling i still can remember...... no one was around to see me fully dressed up, i liked the sensation of the cold weather in my legs and the sensation of walking with heels thru the ice and wet surface, i got to say i felt my toes getting cold faster as the shoe sole was not that thick. Once i got to the selected site (empty shopping center) i looked around, put on the sunglasses on, covered my face with the thick scarf, and get out from the car......... getting out from the car was not really easy i didnt realize that the snow was going to be really thick and in other spots very slippery, i did walk 20 feet from my car with some difficulty i felt i was gonna slip and fall with the heels on and a tiny short miniskirt freezing my legs off, i was having fun but being careful was the main thing, and there you go the first car passing by slowly im sure they were thinking what in this world this (girl) was walking on those high heels out there? i looked at my own projection in the mirrored windows of the outlet and i couldn't tell the difference i saw my self totally passable as the jacket and the scarf were covering every male features, i felt more confident, the objective was achieved. I didnt feel nervous but was careful to make any quick movement that may show i was not used to walk on heels and grab the attention. I kept on walking maybe 300feet from my car more and then i found my self in the middle of a pad where everything was ice around and i could not move well even one step more, i tried to rely on the thin heels to attach as spikes into the surface and get a better traction but useless, it skid worst on the ice, i did needed to squat and try to get out of that icy spot little by little, (not a glamourous look for a girl in heels, hahaha, .....i think that was very funny if someone was watching me from any place near by, then i got on my feet again and kept walking, ....i remember i needed to go back to may car fast as there were two cars approaching inside the mall trying to see if there was any store open and were coming toward me, i had to go to another pad behind some bushes and trees while they passed, i was panicking, i remember once they passed by i literally ran to my car and get safe, i actually did it, and the short run of 50 feet was feeling really exciting i remember i had fun, and that kind of panic is what i think give us the thrill of doing it again and again.... Once in my car i took a deep breath and say to my self, i did it !!! hahaha, got my hat and the scarf of me and the ridiculous glasses from my face and drove around in heels as usual, and felt like if i passed a test or if i could prove something to my self, very nice feeling of achievement, silly but true.

  2. Riding the rollercoesters of disney all day long on my crothch 5inch thigh high boots, the dream is not to get tired and last, the emosion and erotic feeling to stay in me and continuosly feel it. the other dream is to gather 5 thin tall and beautiful fem models with me for walking around a mall and the street, and after that to make love to each one with my boots on. The shower thing i did it many times, with pumps, boots, etc, even i went into the pool of a friends house with a new pair of knee 5inch boots i just bought that day, it was an amazing feeling trying to swim wearing them on, and diving everytime, i love the feeling of landing with the heels into the water in a straight position. after the swiming i kept them on and enjoyed a 2 hour suntan, i have to admit the boots broke and got very damaged, cost me only 20 usd, and i could used them 3 more times in the shower afterwards, carful not to damage the floor. Riding the horse may be very exciting as well, what about playing some golf?

  3. I think is pricy, i have a similar pair but it has a thinner metal heel, and the pattern is a little different, it looks nice it is a ZARA brand, maybe you can look for that one over the net in ebay etc, and it may cost less than a Benjamin

  4. maybe you are right, using fetish to describe the justification of some people who wear heels just for fun, fashion, sexual identity etc, is not the correct term, actually it should be a term for everything, as for me i can describe it as : "An obsession of sensing the excitement over and over that the high heel provoke on my feet, and the consequence of that is a sexual arousal, eroticism, intense excitement and a narcissistic feeling of looking at my refection wearing heels, enjoying the look or looking for another dimension we want to reach"....again no exact meaning for the emotion-feeling of wearing heels. but for sure "fetish" is too vague--- too vulgar--- too simple--- too poor to describe therefore maybe even insulting. a man wearing heels is nothing but a mix of complex feelings, emotions, ideas and intentions.

  5. Hey buddy, ....all suggestions above are right, but i will be direct and to the poijnt for you to try to move quick from this mood, it can get worst if you keep digging into the wrong spot. Frist start to do something new, you never did in your life, go enroll on an activity, someone said dancing, is good idea, other may ask you to go to do some art painting sculpture etc, something you can eventually express your anxieties, emotions and feelings in a way that you will channelize that energy, it need to flow out from you, Second, if you wish dont look after your heel wearing as an exit as it looks it takes you to a loop in which you dont know how to think, axually by experience wearing the heels and hose etc, doesn't let us think straight, there are mixed emotions etc And last but not least try to look for a lady or a nice g/f in some other network, not necessary you will find the kind all high heel fans are looking for, those girls that can understand your connection to woman attire and shoes, are not many, i havent find one at all neither im looking for her as is looking for a dolphin in a lake. by the way dont drink much as that will make your feel eventually ok and then it will make you feel sad again, eat well and engage in other activities that can clear your mind, engaging in this context means committing for a time consuming activities for good. good luck

  6. so after reading more on this site. I decide to see how much my b/f is willing to wear high heels. So we rented a room and i packed my 4 inch black round toe pumps for him. (he didnt know that) so we went out for dinner and a movie. so i had on my pumps on and he was wearing regular shoes. in the theater i took off my heels and ask him for his shoes to wear because my feet hurt (they really didnt) so the movie ended and i got up and he ask for his shoes and i said no you have to go bare foot or my heels. so he gave me a look and put on my heels. so we walked out through the busy lobby and to the car. he pulled it off nice and i rewarded him later that night. So i guess i like my man in heels. also if he starts buying heels it will just add to my collection because we have the same size lol

    Hi Happyheelgirl,

    Lucky guy you giot there, if one day he gets bored of the heeling with you, give me a call, im next inline.

    About the topic i think, that most women fears also the society reaction rather the actual look or the fact that a shoe has a heel and a sexy look.

    I wonder how it would be when/if the fashion will start to show stileto pointy high heels, for men in recognized brands exclusively for men to start considering the new look and the new style, no matter is a man or lady shoeware, imagine that ermenegild zegna, hugo boss, etc or even tods, armani, etc starts to design 4inch thin high heel for men, all of a sudden and grow the variety little by little but easy available, marketing in all magazines and shopping malls, im sure it will be such a shock and big rections towards the brand but at the same time men will start trying them and particularly girls will ecourage their b/f husbands to try the look, meanwhile conservative men will condemn and be away from it as well, so in my hypothesis i think women would be the first ones to encourage the new trend more and more if it is open and available in any mall of the planet.

    My wife once asked me to wear her shoes to see the pain as i always say "it looks fantastic you should be always on heels", problem is that my feet is twice the size of hers, but if it was the same size, i have no idea what or how she will feel if i said yes. maybe good maybe bad, no one know what are they thinking really.

  7. Trevor, so your wife knows about your regular wearing of high heels and cd? or she only thinks it was a fantasy of yours for haloween and thats it? if the second then i must say you are right as you might work out another adventure and maybe you should do that somewhere else. If she knows your hobbie then i dont see why you dont feel you will do that again, after all is your joy and whenever you satisfy your wife's desires and wishes, maybe the next time is your second shot at las vegas, i suggest you to be completely in dressed up, wearing your best shoes, have some extra lower heel for in case, go to different casinos, take the first show of zumanity and close at a lounge or a club. i wish if i would be at the states at that time i can do that with felow heel fans, maybe the next annual meeting can be something exciting

  8. Thanks for replying is very nice to see what you think about this.

    Thanks for the post. I'm glad you enjoyed the experience. Trying to look like a woman just to wear heels and/or hose is a lot of work, as you found out, and having to fight off other men is an unwanted consequence of a well-done transformation. Next time consider just wearing heels with pants in male mode. You'll still have all the fun of wearing heels in public and you won't have a lot of unwanted baggage (literally and figuratively). My guess is that most people probably won't notice; those who do probably won't say anything. You may in fact get compliments from women who do notice. And teenage girls in groups will probably giggle.

    Steve

    Thanks Steve, i found your input very true, i analized my adventure all this week and found out that wearing heels can turn too complicated and it make us to do things such as what i did, the wearing of heels without showing a wrong message can make us do things that even having fun, we feel a little awkward afeter other circumstances appear. next outing i thing my meotion will be as a man in heels and see what is the difference but in the supermarket store so i will see the reaction of women, as this is what i want to attract, :wave:

    wow what a great experience. you were so lucky to have a professional make you up. i would have loved that. it sounds like you had everything planned like i did on my halloween outing. mine went as planned but yours turned into something totally different. congradulations on your night out. making your dress into a mini skirt had to add to the excitement while walking on heels. i know it did for me

    Trevor i know the planning of the special adventure such as this ones in haloween we got to have, is something you can say i will never have the chance to live it again, actually is true, becasue next year will be different always, It happen that i was only planed the logistics but the unthinkable such as meeting the pro in make up was pure luck, the short dress exposing my legs gave me perphaps the negative outcome by atracting tv lovers maybe, but the excitment of doing something unusual, i think it was better not to be the sexual object of that night, maybe i was going to enjoy much more the moment, since all eyes were toward to my legs the whole time i even could sit , im not use to cross my legs like a lady, i only kept standing with my beer on hand as i always do.

    sounds like a great night.....

    I agree though, even though I love wearing heels and female jeans and tops and want to add some feminine edge to my style, i don't think i'm wanting to do this to get male attention.... it's definitely about about me and how i feel when I'm dressed like this....

    And because of that...i am thinking to go out and about in supermarkets from now on.....

    Your sooo lucky to have had that experience. Congrats.

    I also had planned to dress up and go out with a few female friends. Unfortunatley, I twisted my ankle the week before and had no chance to wear heels. :-(((( so I didn't even bother going out.

    What a bad thing, im sure you can do that anytime even if it is not haloween, if they dont know you cd, or wear heels, then invent a costume party and hang out and then go out all as girls, im sure you will have a blast, i dream on having a girl night with only girls and they to arrange me and choose my shoe wear, and me theirs,........... nice

  9. Hi all, So this year i planned carefully my outing, i have to point out many factors in a summarized (but still long read) way to make this an easier and readable thread and not loose the point. Shanghai is very conservative, in the way the people are not used to see guys in heels or open to admit people dressed in drag in the open without staring or making it obvious that is rare. shanghai has an ample expat community and many freestyle people are looking for trying to have fun the way they do as in their own countries. Halloween is not a traditional holly day and is only celebrated in clubs that expat and tourists use to go. Police are aware of the happenings and disturbance in the streets, so as far i know if you appear to be something else even in haloween you may get into at least some questioning, you dont want that in china. AFter pointing out some facts, let me summarize my adventure, the main point of this thread is to try to know what in my case i consider public outing and if some of you guys have the same feeling of it. This year i needed to get the courage to do it and wear my high heels in public, whatever it takes, i said. I planned very carefull all details, routes, hotel, attire, handbag with alternative wear and shoes etc, just details. On the 29 i went out to a club which was celebrating a haloween night between all clubs in the city i felt this one in particular was gonna have much more attendance and haloweeny kind of people as also is a very well known gay club in shanghai, However me being straigh it doesnt matter, there are no rules in china is very friendly and the people that attends are foreigners mainly therefore many friendly people. I went in and all the theme was amazing, i loved it, by then i was not wearing my heels as i wasnt sure the environment was gonna be apt to do that and also i didnt get any alcohol to boost my motivation, soon after i got in i felt a little weird i was there by my self, a friend was suppose to be on her way, ok then i went to get some drinks, then my friend came and i joined some conversations but the environment was not the best for me to transform, although i was wearing a dress and all the drag attire under my rain coat, nobody had noticed by then, i didnt feel to make the move yet, it passed almost 2 hours and havnt seen any people even disguised, and then the first drag pass by, everybody loved it, everybody were looking his legs and the hose and the heels and commenting about the shoes etc, the guy was a performer. I have to say i believd everybody were on their way and dressed up accordingly, so i went for a spot to start the transformation. After some minute, i felt the courage to start the transformation process, i found a sofa with plenty of light, i sat down, open my suitcase (yes i was carrying it all the time with me, it contained only my heels, wig and make up, i started to make up my eyes and all the face, my heels came after,....then as a movie..... and sudenly "the dragqueen i saw before" which was behaving with all the crowd very arrogantly, appeared before me and smile to me like if she found something, i felt something special, i felt also strange as i am not gay, but it didnt had to be anything related to sex attraction or rejection, it was kind of fun and curiosity, he extended his hand with beautifully long nails and perfect style, and told me come with me, i felt shit now what i do?, i though i dont know this guy, my friend is upstairs and i am in the basement, well then i follow him.....he took me to a studio room where all makeup and all dresses and all thing for drag performers were available, i felt like in Disneyland, the feeling was strong and special again, i saw all that pallets of make up and special colors effects and a big assortment of accessories for anything. This guy which was very genuine, friendly and kind told me, (refering to my make up) put them away, no need....then he told me her name, and his name, and he told me he was the performer of the night, ....wow.....it was just him and me there at the dressing room, .....he started to comment on my outfit, things as ...look at you!!!!, nice legsss, ....and beautiful shoes, nice heels darling etc, it was so fast many complements to every detail i put in before on my outfit, he told me that i could handle my heels very well, "wow, you being doing this before arent you?", etc, some tips on how to walk etc, so much new info i got to learn on a short period of time........ After some time on personal intro, he said to me im gonna make you look fabulous and amazing, ...i said ...ok...(what else, after the drag Angel appear before me lets let him finish the miracle, hahaha) He started with my eyes, then my face, then my lips, then all effects as if i were a vamp, but a drag vamp, i look myself at the mirror after an hour of professional work, i felt i was gonna film a movie, hardly i could recognize my self, it was a nice work and i looked amazing, terrorizing beautiful......you would never know if you don't have the same experience with a professional such as i did. then he took my dress and said to me....do you mind? , at that time i didnt know what was he referring to, maybe to rearrange it or make a bend or something, he torn it all and rip it off making some effects and then tightening on some points etc, (he was a fashion designer) he completely destroyed (for good) the classy night dress into a sexy, fashionable mysterious minidress, i didnt mind at all, it was part of the fun i guess. He made the last torn and rip off the side of the dress rising the opening of the leg so my legs were fully exposed just before it is suitable to keep showing, it was perfect according to him, then he said......"there!! now you will show your nice legss," ...i didnt felt much excited at that moment, who said i wanted to show the legs? i felt weird, .....he kept commenting on my legs...more and more....i was very shy to go out, after he arranged my wig he said ..."ok you are set and pretty", ....my aim was to be unrecognizable drag, but he made an amazing work, noone can say it was me, but also he made me a very sexy drag vampire, but showing the legs, in heels and i was one the only drags 3 in the club by that time..... then we went out from the room as he needed to find his friends to start prep of the performance, i was terrorized if he wanted me to go up to stage, so i stayed away from it during every dance, he changed outfit 3 times, and i was always trying to do something else when i felt he wanted to call me, ok it never happened. One remark i have to say is that it was a very cool experience, i felt good, but there were moments of awkwardness such as when i was walking through the hall all men were saying "ohhh my god, ...wow how precious etc", thing that alll girls want to listen, and even is rare to listen all loud, all were focus on my legs and my heels,, common there were other girls but because i was taller and fully exposing the shiny hose and high heel all were looking at me instead of other girls, many men came in front of me to try to dance even, and others were telling me that i was superb and ask me for having a drink etc, while real girls were just standing there rotting in the dark as it was a gay club, ...i remember i said shit! in what i went into? i didnt wanted to be mean or arrogant, as i don't know how to reject guys i never had to in my life my skills were none and it made it difficult!!!. i feel now how girls feel when they get sticky guys at busy clubs. Said this summarized story, I have to say that wearing heels is not really being a CD, and and outing in heels doesn't necessary has to be linked to cd in public, therefore i realize that i enjoy the most if im alone and im not attracting men, heeling is for my self and i enjoy more not to try to be a sexual object for men......the following night i was suppose to attend again with heels and different outfit, i realized that i better go with my friends in a usual way and be me, giving a rest to the heels for this years Halloween extra nights. Please let me know if you can see what may happened to me and what is my actual aim in wearing heels from your own perspective. "Thanks N for the transformation i enjoyed the experience"

  10. Leg warmers over pantyhose, and using a ankle boot pointy and stilleto heel is the best look, you can either use a minishort or miniskirt but defiantelly need to show the overnee covered by the leg warmers, as if it is a tigh high extension from your shoeware but it isnt. the more imagination the best result, and leg warmers are better worn by thinner legs, if the legss re a little fat just pass other wise they will look as if you are wearing something else.

  11. Trevor, I read your story 3 times, check out later on my new thread as it is similar to yours but besides a story there is also an evaluation about me, im just still thinking how to write it for it not to be too long read and have much more participants to drop an opinion which i really need and value. so check it out later. About your story there are few things i see is really to value and is good you lived it. and never say never, you will see why... 1. you could do this with your wife, this is a big thing, and maybe you got the blast of the blast, and your wife something normal and maybe doing an effort, you are a lucky man. 2. you could walk on those heels the entire nights, tip my hat to you, you did it man!!! 3. You felt the excitement of doing this from start to end, and the beginning i know it was many days before the weekend as you were planning everything carefully as well as me, and thinking all details, as for how to go to the party, or which restroom to go, or if wearing the heels from the room or not, etc, is tuff i know, 4. you did it twice, thanks for sharing.....

  12. Hi Bubba , amen to that ...but dont you think is too direct and needed to be soften, i imagine a very depresive scenario..... ... i had for many years the conscience very blured i though that this activity wearing heels and hose with skirts closed doors, was a pervertion and was wrong and maybe something despicable if some family or friend would know, or even just me knowing i like and get saisfaction out of it. I though that maybe i needed to talk to someone, ....by then i was still living in the US and in the same building from my job of those years , there was a couselor that was specialized in this kind of behaviors on people, i was wondering to go ahead and open up, i stayed at my office for long hours thinking should i go or not, even one day i brought my 5inch classic pumps, hose and a miniskirt, i was thinking to go ahead and appear dressed up and have a walkin sesion, i chicken out, ..... at that time i didnt know about this website, and just like magic i started to read and read thru this threads and all the peoples points of view etc, i never had to go and ask for counseling my best therapy was here at hhplace, i got all my important questions and doubts which i though were shamful all cleared and even with valid foundations, i believe that the best couseling somebody can have is not with a guy that prepared to give you the human behavior and natural function on our brain, it is actually with the patients and people that live thru the behavior or need to use heels/cd in our case. At last all conclusions leads to the same thing, what you just said live with it and know how to even enjoy it, plan your activity moments and if it is secret because of many personal circumstances there is nothing wrong with that, everybody has privacy in this life right? so just be and let it be. heeling or the affection of wearing heels is a happy thing and is a exciting activity...purely selfish and erotic, ....heeler cant share the feeling but can talk about it, while non-heelers may stay on their undiscovered world happy as well.

  13. Hi (heels) everyone. I didn't vote on this issue. I feel this should be a Vote for women only. From the previous Gender Poll, we know there are at least 40 women ( who voted on that one) who could share thair openion with greater depth than a self serving male. Of which I am one. Mike

    Hi spikesmike, well sorry to tell you that you may be wrong, actually you are 100% wrong (nothing personal) constructively speaking if you were right then the question would be on girls section, on the other hand is an open question, if you know the answer thru any experience (direct or indirect) then fill in the blanks, i m sure you must have an opinion at least about the topic, we are (at least me) interested on knowing it, i love girls and i wish i can meet one that will like me wearing my heels as well as i do for them.

    cheers

  14. I started at 6, my moms highest heel was 4.5inch black pump which she couldnt wore as she felt it was too high and dangerous, she kep in the closet and the only wearer was me on secret, it wearoff and after 3 years my mom made a makeover over her closet she took them away for donation, i had to sneak out and steel them and keep them hidden, after that event i got my first pair oficially, i used them alsost everyday until 12 years old the heel broke and i was unable to repair them, i said good bye to them with a nice hot long shower keeping them on, sexy and exciting, after that i disposed them with honor. my first 5 inch heel was when i was 18 years old, i had to buy it personally im sure the cashier suspect they were for me, it was my first pair that i bought ever. My moms size always been the same as mine until 18, thats why i needed to buy mine.

  15. The reason is very simple, they took the chance to read our forun hhplace.org, and saw the real heelers, so all women including in tv, are trying to outbeat us, we are their motivation , and thats why they are trying to shake the same out of them while few years ago they were using conventional ugly shoes, with no style, lol. however as a matter in fact, the shoe manufacturing industry had developed and improved their styles based on comofort, engineering and of course esthetic, therefore many and more women including overweight ladies can feel comfortable in a 4inch classic thick pltaform pump, and we all men are much more happy, the rates of happyiness on men increased due to this trendy difference, good thread by the way, cheers

  16. Hi Booty lover, i have sent you a pm, i hope to meet you some day, Im relocated also near shanghai for the moment.

    Bubba in addition to what bootylover said which is true in all senses, you may take a real look on the heeling life on the streets, Chinese girls are the champions on wearing high heels perhaps on all the world aside from that fact that the are the shoe makers of the world and all prototype are being used within the domestic market, it worth to see that, you can see easily at 6-7am ladies going out in pajamas wearing a 4.5-5inch classic pump, or cheesy colored boots or anything with heel, although they are very small and light i guess they feel sexy, comfortable and elegant wearing heels rather than anything else.

    As a non chinese, i hardly can tell about Chinese male heelers as i never seen one regardless from tv and cd in the open, world is changing, this year i have seen that guys are wearing hose and tights under shorts, the ones we were hiding when kids under our pants, now here and many places around the world is being worn casual and normal.

    cheers

    Having visited China at least a dozen times over the years (First visit was in 1981), I've had the impression that Chinese people are very conservative especially since the "Mao" style disappeared, when it comes to clothing (except for the brighter colors). I have to say, however, that things have really change since then and the last time I was there (2 years ago) it was a completely different country.

    Please tell us about people's attitude toward men wearing high heels? Is there any sign of acceptance on the general public's part when you wear your heels openly in public? Or do you experience some negative reaction?

  17. thanks all for sharing, .....i personally instead of finding it accidentally/clumsy or unlucky, i have to label the moment as "hot and sexy" dont ask me why. taking out the injuries which i dont wish it for any one, i got the opportunity to help a chick to standing up after they fall down, two times in a mall, fortunately they were young and strong girls who didnt got hurted, but shown legs big big time, i felt like a child, :) In the other hand you are right bubba, those heels "assuming they are the new 1.5-2inch platform new style heels, are very dangerous, i hope no one will fall flat after trying those one without practicing on hard slippery surfaces before, try to stick a piece of rubber on the bottom of the sole for avoiding the accidents. I have to admit that once i fall flat with a 6inch-2inch platform high heel eliie boot, and had my ankle twisted badly i had to stay out of the heeling arena for some months. now with the cold weather coming be careful to all heelers!!! cheers

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