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Pam

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  1. My logic is: finding a good wife which is smart, intelligent, independent, attractive, driven, mentally stable etc. is pretty hard, and I have found one. But she happens not to like my heel habits. Finding a woman that accepts my heels is probably an achievable target, but one that is all of the above as well, is next to impossible.

    This is my case ... I have a great woman by my side with all the characteristics....happens that me wearing heels is not one of them. I have been in other relationships where heeling was out and fully accepted (even encouraged!), but we didn't click in many other ways. At the end I miss that freedom to heel, but I know if I had married this girl we would probably be divorced by now.

    It is not all about the shoes, important part nonetheless. For my case, I welcome all the opportunities to heel as long as it doesn't disrupt the natural equilibrium!

    just my 2c

    Pam

  2. My 2c... When I'm out of a relationship with any OGF, it is over for good despite of what my mom, dad, all other OGF's, might say/think. At the end it is just adding a whole layer of difficulties to the relationship! Pam

  3. My experience & opinion is that the first person that I need to ask "permission" is me. I need to evaluate the opportunity and timing to make sure ieverything is OK when I plan to wear the heelies. My case involves a wife that is not accepting, that means any heeling is done behind the scenes.

  4. Dr... My thoughts and prayers to you and the family... I concur with your thoughts 100%! Tolerance is only a start for a partner to accept the heels (or any other situation). It takes some reading between the lines, time, and being really open and sensitive to BOTH feelings about the issue being discussed. Best of luck, I am positive that things will resolve in the best of the manners Pam

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