Pam

All comments above are right on! I don't believe this is a problem of fashion, gender, or something like it... One often thinks the boss is the one that gets to make rules just for the heck. In this case, if something happens ... can mean a lot for both parties (Boss paying medical, work safety fines, etc) and employee (risk of not getting medical covered, losing job, not-an-easy-to-win lawsuit, etc). Our common sense is the best thing to rely upon when deciding when/where/how to heel ... like kneehighs said "there is a time and shoe for every occasion" anyway ... just my personal 2c

Hi to all, I'm looking forward to meeting you all. Things at work are shaping so I can be in UK @ that time! just wish me luck on trying to set everything up. Certainly is going to be a fun time, lots of heelers and alter egos together partying the night away!!! Keep u posted P

Hey KH ... all I can say is a big WOW! Looks like you had a great time ... great people watching and surrounded by lots of pretty girls in stilettos!! It is really great that you had a chance, thanks for sharing the pics! P

Great advice from everybody ... My $0.02 ... explore cautiously; go slow; never know what is at the other end; however .. enjoy it you might have found a pot of gold!

Congrats ... great shoes and even better GF! Hold on to both and hope you enjoy many hrs of fun wearing them. They are going to look great with a pair of 7 jeans! Pam

I share kneehighs thoughts ... and if she is a good conversationalist with a sense of humor, better. If she is wearing pointies and stilettos, best!

I don't go out as much as i'd like, not for fear, but for personal reasons. The first is that it is difficult to sneak out of my apartment, (SO does not know). The second is that I don't want to run into any clients/coleagues, and believe me ... has happen a few times!!! It is not fear of what people might say or think ... have been out a few times, and really enjoyed and had fun with it! My personal thought is that each has their own concerns and reasons to street heel or not. Act as you might feel more comfortable, challenge yourself when time is right. Just remember ... there is a lot of support in this website from people that share your passion.

WOW...that sounds like a great night!!! You're now sharing the rush of free-styling. It is all in our heads ... once you go out the first time, you realize that (a) it is not so hard, ( people don't really care (and if they do it's their problem), and © it's fun! Kudos to you ... Pam

Hi to All Two pharses I heard today @ the office ... "take one for the team" ... "is good for your career" ... that only means ... "you're the sucker doing this meaningless job!"

Hi Guys, I'm traveling that week so won;t be able to join. Have a drink for me! P

All comments are great and right-on advice! It is a difficult situation ... my 2c would be for you to think what are the consequences for each choice. Sometimes keeping a secret for the sake of a relationship is worth the pain. You will need to figure out a way to deal with it outside the house. On the other hand, if this is eating you alive, then maybe is worth taking it out on the open. P

Hi to all, Working hard to see you all there and click the night away! P

Hi, THere is a great chance for me to join. Work has been good lately, so no need to work for extra hrs! See you there P

the outfit w/ the tan boots is very well put together!

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I agree w/ Ian

I concur w/ Ian

congratulations ... rock those new heels!

Those are great tips!

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Gina, You look Fab!!! thanks for the pic Pam

Happy B-day! have lots of hours of fun in stilettos

Great clip!

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Hello to you!