Pam

Just visited the exhibition this weekend and here is my review... They have a bunch of mannequins dressed up in many different skirts from different times. There are a couple of models that show a guy wearing a mini with a nice white jacket, black tights and military boots; that is the most interesting thing to watch. No guy in heels was in the expo, or at the expo! however, a girl there made a comment that guys indeed look sey on a skirt! that was the highlight of the visit! Pam

Finally i am out of those comfy loafers!!!! i am on to the next level

when you have more than your wife!!! I think that's more than enough Pam

Although this is not a discussion topic I will like to wish everyone Happy Holidays!!! :drinking: heres to all! The very best for next year, hopefully it will be a year full of click, clicks! Pam

On Halloween I went to payless to buy some boots, but to my surprise all 12's were gone or with no heel. I also a nice pair of JLO's looking booties with a 3 inch heel and fitted just fine! Wore those on my first outing ever! Nine West has a nice variety of sizes 11 and 12 online, and you can always change them at the store. hope this tip helps Pam

my first time with high heels was at my aunt's house... she used a 3 inch pumps all the time, and I remember being very attracted to her shoes from the first time I was them. I was maybe 12-13 at that time. I went to her closet and try them right away...it was love at first try!

52%!!!

with an untapped source of sexual energy!!!

How about that, this weekend I am going to untap some of that energy ... :drinking:

My reply...forgot to logon!!!!

I wore same tights during last winter in NY, it makes a difference! Longjohns and the other options do not work as good, and are really uncomfortable!! this winter, same tights!

Same for NYC ... parade at the village is Fantastic! Guys are all in full drag, saw one dude in his late teen wearing the girlfriend's heels cause he lost a bet!

You know you are a high heeled addict, when you are a man and you know the femal-male shoe conversions/sizes from 3 different continents!

I will imagine that sharing heels can become a shared activity as long as the rules are clear from the start. Currently I share some clothes with my wife (non-controversial), but we have stated certain things we can/cannot do when we wear them. HH are special for both sides, and sharing can create a bond...

Exactly Pam! We've all gone through that first ultra-nervous debut stage and survived intact. We're all still here, still enjoying our street-heeling ten times as much. None of us have been molested, imprisoned, ostracised or anything else. We all get a sheer sense of relief that a) It went 100% OK, and that we can repeat it for evermore.

What could be better?

No much, is like riding the roller coaster for the first time! We certalinly care for what people might think, when in reality most people don't. Every journey begins with a first step, high-heeled step that is!

Nine West has thick trouser socks that hold up all day, I wear them everyday and they stay up.

They have reinforced toes, and last a long time...just make sure you handwash them

Pam

Congratulations! I wish you the best for both of you!

How about Salma Hayek and Jennifer Anniston?

ame: Pam Age: 30's Occupation: Financial Manager Sex: Male hair: Brown Eyes: Blue Location: USA - East Coast Height: 6'1 Weight: 72 kg Shoe Size: 12 USA Heel Pref.: STILETTO 5" Highest heel : 5 inch stilettos (no platform) Shoe Pref.: Pumps w/pointed toes Wear: Closet, only 1 outing Footcover: Stockings, nothing Favourite Cocktail: tequila, cosmopolitan, :drinking: anything to put you stupid!

When it comes to work or important events, it is key to take care of how you present yourself no matter how genius you are... Your brother is lucky to have a brand name that allows him to be more relaxed on his look Unfortunately I am stuck in corporate america, very traditional if I might add!! I am at a place where actual looks and politics are sometimes more important than knowledge and skill

thanks Heelfan! Feels very liberating! Fantastic experience...the best part is to realize that NOTHING HAPPENED...did something that felt great, and the world kept on turning to the right! pam

Appearances are important, but they can also sometimes limit the capacity to meet someone interesting... I had to interview a guy for a job ... came to the interview totally dressed down, since he was a creative IT guy, that was his excuse for his appearance. This dude has an impressive resume, and he was a very smart individual. I recommended him for a second round, but my boss totally shut him down because of the way he presented himself. His reasoning was that he was not appropriate to carry the company's image as an employee...Appearances matter!!! This is an odd case, but the bottom line is that there is a time and place for everything including appearances.

I learned that honesty is the best policy the hard way (see coping with wife) All the advice given in this forum converges in being honest with your partner. The best companion for honesty is time, after you outed your secret let some time pass. Things are viewed differently after the initial shock. Time allows you and your partner to organize thoughts and feelings. The last part of the puzzle will be information. The more you can inform your partner, the better. Information helps put things in perspective and balance since it becomes more familiar to both parties involved. Pam

Hello everyone, Have been w/o internet for a few days, but I am back .... Just wanted to share a small success story with you all. My plan was to go to a party dressed in a military costume and have my HH in my backpack along with a skirt (to increase the challenge). After the party my plan was to change and walk home using both skirt & heels. Well, I did it! it feels Soooo good!!! ( helped to gain confidence!!!) Thought of sharing with you all, thanks for your encouragement! Pam PS - This was posted on another thread, but makes much more sense here! Cheers

Hello everyone, Have been w/o internet for a few days, but I am back .... Just wanted to share a small success story with you all. My plan was to go to a party dressed in a military costume and have my HH in my backpack along with a skirt (to increase the challenge). After the party my plan was to change and walk home using both skirt & heels. Well, I did it! it feels Soooo good!!! ( :drinking: helped to gain confidence!!!) Thought of sharing with you all, thanks for your encouragement! Pam

Well, I am planning to go to the halloween parade in 4 inch stilettos ... don't know to wear jeans or a skirt...this will be my first time out!!! The plan is to go to the parade in heels and hang out for a while....wish me luck, my SO is out of the country so this will be kind of a personal challenge!!!!

It is a rather exaggerated term to a change that has been slowly happening to society since the 70's. But I think is very positive because it will certainly help remove a lot of "taboos" from our culture, especially regarding what they call "alternative" clothing or lifestyles. This should not be seen as an evolution , it is just a series of consequences of actions from people that do not fit in the custom stereotypes. However it is adding new freedom of choices with less prejudice!!! Maybe in a near future we will see men in high heels and skirts in the catwalk, as we have already starting to see (see vogue magazine add!) my 2 cents Pam

Gene, thanks for the correction! English is not my first language and it is always good to learn!!