Pam

'08 was a great year for me!!! ... managed to do a few, very fun, outings in London and New York City with some members of this forum. I toast to doing more heeling on this '09! P

Hi .. i think this picture was taken during one of the heelmeets in NYC ... interesting!

http://www.flickr.com/photos/9102129@N07/571857664/

I work in business and finance (and am an engineer by training) ... the more creative side is some marketing needed to build business. P

Not necessarily stilettos ... but good press for the cause!

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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1043568/Dont-Vertigo-Bono-gets-lift-high-heels.html

New York!

An interesting read ...

http://ezinearticles.com/?Men-Wearing-High-Heels---Fad,-Fashion-Or-History-Repeating-Itself?&id=1268398

I believe there is no magical formula. Im with bubba that being 100% and honest is the best way to go. But it is also the hardest most of the time. I believe there is no magical formula. I’m with bubba that being 100% and honest is the best way to go. But it is also the hardest most of the time. I've had the chance of being in LTR with girls open (and even encouraging) to the idea of the heels. But I've also been in relationships where a no-go is. And the subject of the heels has come up (when it comes) at different points and circumstances during the relationship. To me a key point is how strong the connection to that person is. It is very valid, at least in my humble opinion, to think about trading (or minimizing) the heeling for other things worth having. This trade means having to make a conscious decision on having fewer opportunities to wear heels. If you are meeting women have you thought about trying going places where you can wear heels? Comparing how pointy or how high are your shoes vs hers is a harmless way to initiate a conversation. See some of the posts of members that use this opening line with great success! My 0.02c

Thanks for posting our adventure ... It was a great outing and we had lots of fun!! All reactions to the shoes were pretty positive from all the girls we talked to. It was a great night in NYC ... looking forward to the next one very soon. P

KN, I'm sorry to hear the sad news. You and you're family will be in my prayers. Looking forward to seeing you back in NYC. P

I do believe that, in general, society is more open. However, I think confidence increases the perception of society's openness to new fashions in general. I've had the opportunity to be in get-togethers with some members of this site in social settings whom wear heels with a LOT of confidence. This has been the differentiating factor of how society reacts and accepts (or not) a man wearing heels. my 2c ...

i agree with all the responses that is hard to narrow it down to a couple of choices ... if I had to rank ... short skirt and pants with covered heel at the top, but very closely followed by the other choices.

Hello to all

I found a picture of Danila that you might find interesting ...

http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1308/1194465880_43801d4e90_o.jpg

Hi to all ... a very interesting article on fashion from Time ... enjoy!

apologies its not a link ... still learning ...

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www.time.com/time/2004/style/090604/androgyny/

Greeting to all ... KH you da man!!! I do owe you a big drink and a special thank you!! I'm there, taking the redeye flight tomorrow to London ... stilettos and all! See you all soon P

I'll be there ... tough part is to figure out the outfit!! (but also the most fun) P

Looks like the gods are going to help me again ... I might be able to get there after all ... I'm working on the schedule and if everything goes well, i should be buying my ticket very soon!!! Keep you posted ... P

Looks like planets are aligning for me to join this meet! I will confirm nice dinner directly with KH. But OK for the night activities. P

That is a cool outfit!! I think black tights would work well. KH ... those quotes from Channel are priceless! Hi to all ... i have been away for a while, but back again ... hope everybody is well.

See you all there! Just finalizing my arrangements and turns out that it was posisble to combine work & play!! P

I work for a company with very strict Eq Op Emp & anti-discrimination rules; but; there are "un-written" rules that are expected from people in management (or potential candidates). As an example ... our office dresscode, official policy, is biz casual. But you see most people wearing suits (M and F). When a jr analyst is about to be promoted, one of the soft things to consider is how the person takes care of the personal appearence (i.e. dress, hair, etc). Not so much the brand, style, or fashion, but that overall the image is clean and presentable. I would say ... if you're heart is into mgmt ... go fo it!!! But maybe you might have to leave the heels for outside the office. On the other hand, you are going to make plenty of money to buy lots of new shoes!!!! just my 2c ... P

My guess is that if he said those comments in an interview, chances are she knows. I'm not surprised as she appears to have a very easy-going personality. AHHH the wonderful word of E!

Tanya ... Welcome to this site. Make your self at home!!!

What a lucky guy!!! She is both astonishing and open-minded! just imagine a date with her, both wearing pumps, what a great sight!

Tanya, What a great set pof pics!!! Thanks for sharing. Looking fwd to reading more of your posts and pics! P

great pics ... moito obrigado!