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  1. Marriage and shoe fetish

    AJ i am new to this forum so I do not know you guy very well, but I will say that so far I have been impressed with the depth of knowledge that I was afforded. So, now I am offering to reciprocate. My wife and I dated for several years prior to being married and now we are approaching 20 years and still struggling with my fetish by the way. The good news is during the early years and even the 1st half of the marriage my wife like yours was very angers about the thought of me wearing high heels for my own pleasure. My wife eventually reviewed that she felt threatened by the idea that she may loose the man she loved . I assured her that it was a visual turn on not a life changing event she remaind unconvinced for years knowing my believing it would turn into a slippery slope. Well the fetish has gone in a few different directions but I am still all male and my wife has opened her mind and become to support me. So my point is, don't give up! If you would like I could share some experiences that brought us closer on the topic.
  2. Am i a crossdresser

    Hi guys, l have just recently joined and I have was struggling with the same question 6 months ago. Is it just a love affair with women's shoes ? (Fetish) Or, am I now a cross dresser because I wear ladies underwear daily and spend more time looking for that perfect women's sweater or pair of jeans ? I have chosen the later. The cross dressing style that I strive for Is being manly enough without drawing excessive attention . As long as the cloths are women's I get the same sense of satisfaction and fulfillment wearing them. Trying to incorporate is behavior into a marriage can be a challenge, my wife is very traditional but she is realizing quickly that there are more important things to take issue over in life. Yes, I am a cross dresser I find women's shoes and cloths appealing and satisfying. I have recently opened up to a few close friends that have been nothing but supportative. I realize that not everyone is going to be so understanding so as I expand my new style I need to be aware of who may be in my company and the value of or relationship. i hope this helps...
  3. The Beautiful Passion Of Black Pumps

    Well said !
  4. Marriage and shoe fetish

    Somebody gave me a shoe with a foot in it. Lol It looks like AJ's
  5. Marriage and shoe fetish

    I know it started at a very early age 5-6 perhaps.
  6. Marriage and shoe fetish

    Thigh boot guy, Well said ! RE: Life is a learning experience.
  7. Marriage and shoe fetish

    The love is present no question but she is not as open as I am, that is the problem. There are barriers for both of us to w overcome. It will require acceptance, interaction and determination to work out your the issues in order find that common ground. I just wish I knew what it was going to look like.
  8. Marriage and shoe fetish

    My wife went out for pizza last night and I had a good time. We talked a lot, she read our conversations and realized that there are a lot of other guys out there just like me. That helped. Just her talking about my fustrations in a positive way is relieving instead of the usual attacks and belittlement. She talked about setting some boundaries that I will have to work on, to maintain her trust.
  9. Marriage and shoe fetish

    This is correct but in my case I did not realize the seriousness of my desires until after I was married a few years.
  10. Marriage and shoe fetish

    No harm done, i understand that you feel lucky that your wife was understand and was willing to embrace it at a level that satisfied your needs. I hope I am as lucky.
  11. Marriage and shoe fetish

    No harm done, i understand that you feel lucky that your wife was understand and was willing to embrace it at a level that satisfied your needs. I hope I am as lucky.
  12. Marriage and shoe fetish

    You make a lot of sense it is easier to be your own person alone. i am committed to my wife as she is too me. I am looking for fresh approach that may have worked for other couples to present to her.