Shyheels

Brilliant! Mind you, what would be even more brilliant is if a guy came up to you and said the same thing!

This is quite an interesting book that somewhat fits the description in the thread title - along with a lot of history, culture and personal observation https://www.amazon.co.uk/High-Heel/dp/B07VCGJR2P/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2QZ4XHHHJ0NMA&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.-tICVooyZd-4BbXPcu6UrQ.XxBMCpCrWsr7S149MQoVFO34-_yNQaTRqlVM1aveHqE&dib_tag=se&keywords=High+heel+object+lessons&nsdOptOutParam=true&qid=1734012644&sprefix=high+heel+object+lessons%2Caps%2C223&sr=8-1

Yes there are a couple of steam driven narrowboats - museum pieces, really. They were never common even a hundred years ago as the space required for fuel took up valuable cargo space. I’ve never seen a petrol powered narrowboat. There are petrol powered craft on the canals - usually cruisers - but I’ve never seen a petrol powered narrowboat. The diesel engines in narrowboats are designed for marine use and have two alternators - one fir the starter and one to charge your domestic batteries for your lights and fridge etc. I’ve a 43hp engine made in Holland. It powers a 58-foot boat that weighs 18 tonnes so no speed demon! The curious sounding boats - think of the sound of the African Queen - are usually those running very old fashioned diesel engines - classic Lister engines and the like.

It’s a different form of movement - pitch, balance, stride length and will vary further with height. And real world walking conditions are vastly different than walking in a wooden floor at home which is where one practices. And not just guys - look on the how-to-walk-in-heels articles in fashion mags and they all advise learning at home. I’ve not had sufficient real world practice to feel comfortable in stilettos although 3.5 inch Chucky heel boots are fine for me. Towpaths these days are mainly for dog-walkers, joggers and cyclists although there are a few historic boats - for show - that are pulled by horses. Narrowboats these days are run in diesel engines although there are a few hybrid and electric ones out there (expensive!)

Nobody said a word as far as I can recall. There’s picture of me wearing those knee boots, quite happily. I guess I was about 12. I can’t think of a single comment that anybody made - and I’m sure I’d have noticed and remembered. They weren’t quite as cool as go-go boots but they certainly made me happy. I wish I had been a bit bolder and declared that this was my style, but I didn’t. Decades would pass before I’d dare out in a pair of feminine knee boots again

Hunter boots are great, when I used to travel to Antarctica regularly I wore them a lot - great for Zodiac landings but sturdy enough for moderate hiking as well. I did the last five miles of Shackleton’s hike across South Georgia Island in a pair of Hunter boots

We were very similar - white go-go boots got me. Loved them and really wished I could have and wear them. I’ve no sisters and my mother didn’t wear heels but she did have a pair of brown knee boots (low heels) that I liked. I broke a toe one winter doing something stupid and those boots fit my swollen foot, and so I wore knee boots all that winter - long after my toe heeled, Looking back I should have simply declared that I liked wearing them - I doubt my mother would have cared, I could have worn them the next winter too. That winter - or the few weeks left of it when I wore knee boots - nobody that I recall said a thing about my wearing women’s boots, I wish I had built off that!

That’s my same circular argument. I don’t wear stilettos much as I am not proficient enough, but I can’t get proficient enough without wearing them. In my case it is complicated by the fact that I am usually moored along a muddy towpath and not only would wearing stilettos be silly, it would just wreck them.

Like you, I do have stilettos that I wear while working, so yes, I suppose they’re technically work boots - my favourite being a pair of lovely black suede OTK boots with 4” heels by Jean Gaborit

My Scarpa mountaineering boots - purchased 1999 - were top of the line boots, and Scarpa is a very respected boot maker. I don’t know where they make them now, but mine were made in Italy of top quality leather and heavy Vibram soles. I have had other hiking boots, some from reasonably well known high street brands, that barely lasted a year. You really do get what you pay for in a lot of cases (but not all!)

Yes you do a very good job of putting things together. With my ensemble of boots, jeans and jumper there is little room for your style of creativity. I could never do the leather miniskirt - although I admit that the other day I noticed an ad for a leather midi pencil skirt, calf length, that did pique my interest, something I could at least imagine with my OTK black suede boots

Undoubtedly having some supportive and, better still a high heel aficionado who can offer useful tips, hints and critique as well as enthusiasm would be wonderful. And a bit of a unicorn, I’m afraid. My heels, the ones I wear regularly, tend to be modest ones - 3 to 3.5 inch chunky heels in ankle, knee and OTK boots. I’m not so concerned about my ability to walk well in them, at that height and chunky heels to boot, it’s not hard, but would welcome fashion advice about what to wear with my boots - what style/shade of jeans, or style/colour of jumper, coat or shirt, with which pair of boots. I’m never confident of being well put together - and there is virtually no fashion advice columns for men who aspire to wear tall feminine-style boots

I’ve never worn pumps. I think I’d be worried about the same things. At least with boots there’s no stepping out of them!

It’s quite a juggling act. Confidence comes with experience - but getting that experience requires an initial dose of confidence. Finding that is the hard part. And yes people will notice that you are in heels, or tall boots, or both, but not all will notice. A surprising percentage ent notice a thing. And if those who do notice few will have anything to say. Stilettos will obviously carry more connotations than chunky heels which can, to a degree, be ambiguous. It will also help if you are open enough to establish what is your natural style in heels and go with that. Positive feelings will build confidence. Don’t turn wearing heels into a numbers game - the higher and more precarious the better. Remember it is a fashion choice - so choose what you like and want without reference to anyone else.

Great topic! Although my interest in feminine boots stemmed from a liking of go-go boots, I’ve always been partial to boots over shoes and with the exception of my cycling or running shoes, I only ever wear boots - and gave done since adolescence, growing up in the mountains. I lived in hiking boots through university, where I studied geology and archaeology, and my choice of career has allowed me to continue in the same vein. I’ve no neckties but plenty of pairs of boots. My oldest pair, and still much in use, is a pair of Scarpa mountaineering boots, made of a very tough suede with heavy Vibram soles. Been to Antarctica many times - warm and sturdy and although now 25 years old are still going strong with plenty of use left in them. I still wear them occasionally on the towpath. I’ve a pair of De Walt steel capped work boots as sometimes I land assignments where safety footwear is mandatory.they are all right, not uncomfortable if worn with thick socks, and pass muster when I need to get access to industrial sites. I e several pair of knee-high biker or engineering boots from Jean Gaborit which I absolutely love. My present go-to boot is their Kansas patrol boot in heavy black leather which has seen much service over the past year (and looks it - I need to buff them up) I’ve a pair of their chocolate brown knee high Vezin engineering boots which I also love. They are the most comfortable boots I’ve ever owned and would wear them more except they are so hard to get off. Getting them on is easy - a bit if a push - but removing them is hard. While they are on they are wonderful comfortable. I had an assignment once where I was pretty much in my feet for 36 hours and wore these the entire time without the least discomfort. Since I often wear heels while writing or editing, I suppose I could call those work boots too, but I shall stick with these! ,

You’re definitely better off without them in the Middle East. Think of dark mediaeval prisons and the sorts of things that happen there and embrace the flat-heeled life. I have a heavy Barbour oilskin coat that I wear all the time in winter and like quite a bit - I’ve had it 25 years - but I don’t miss it in the summer. That’s just not the season for it. Ditto my Panama hats. I’ve some very fine weave Ines, but I don’t miss wearing them in the winter. To everything it’s season …

Five inch heels are very high for a workplace

Thigh boots came in with the mini-skirt. Roger Vivier introduced them in ‘64 and they were a hit. Think of the iconic shot of Brigid Bardot on the Harley. The go-go boot came in the following year, with sales given an added boost by Nancy Sinatras iconic These Boots Were Made For Walking. For those fond of boots the mid to late 60s were definitely not boring!

Interesting post. High heels certainly can be interesting devices in books or films for establishing a character - the worldly sophisticate, the arch villainess, the ambitious and empowered. The ingenue is never in stilettos or heels of any sort. I always thought it was interesting in The Devil Wears Prada how nice girl Andie is so scornful of the clackers, as she calls her stiletto wearing coworkers at the fashion magazine when she first starts her job. She mocks them to her friends but then, in fine morality okay style, is quickly seduced and becomes one if the clackers herself. This being hHollywood she sees the error of her ways, quits the fashion magazine job in favour of a job at a gritty newspaper on the other side of the tracks -real journalism - and as a final act of catharsis gives away all her high fashion clothes she scored at her old job. But not quite. In the final scene as she strides confidently through the city, having learned a valuable life lesson, she is still wearing her stiletto boots - one aspect of her time in the dark side nice girl Andie is not willing to give up. I’m a writer myself, albeit magazine writing. I’ve a few min fiction books to me credit but am about to take the plunge into fiction. I should explore more if the psychology of heels.

I’m coming up on my 11th anniversary. My trajectory is somewhat similar to yours. I loved the go-go boots worn by a very pretty red haired girl and wished I could have a pair just like them. But I so believed the so called rules that I honestly believed it was impossible for me to wear go go boots - as though these things were encoded in our DNA and couldn’t be changed. It was quite a Damascene moment when I realised many years later that I could wear feminine boots or heels if I wanted to

Happy anniversary and Happy Thanksgiving! Yes the site has certainly become much quieter in recent years but the people who are here and active are all worth knowing and I’m glad to be a member

What a lovely outcome though! And how nice that she approached you with the same comment about seeing another heel lover. It’s lovely. A pity she’s moving away, but what a nice memory

There are lots of destructive people around, unfortunately, people who feel threatened by any form of self expression by those around them. It’s a unfortunate fact of life. Ignore them and seek better company. That can be difficult but keep looking and keep open. Nice people are out there. In the meantime be as supportive as you can and cut the negative people out if your lives completely

Was it the entire sole or just the heel? I can see a heel coming off in a performance but not the entire air.

I agree. Not much interesting in todays music. It’s all pre-packaged and derivative. Nothing original, just created by committee with predictable results.