Stilettoscot

Thank you, Happyfeat!

Well, the next person will show us, in pics, how to colo"U"r coordinate a beautiful outfit, mixing colo"u"rs together that will certainly turn heads!

Fast Freddy has funded the groundbreaking of the new St Mildred's Home for the Mentally Bewildered and Bereft right here in Boston. I bet there will be plenty of "customers" there, too. Thanks Freddy!

Those would look real sharp with a nice pair of black slacks, and grey sweater, especially in the fall. Nice.

Probably the waist down, as it paints a more complete picture. Plus, more leg in heels = more enjoyment for me!

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Love black, which is all I own (not many) now. But, darker blues are OK on me too. Others, like Patent, can wear a lot of colors well. I am not in that league.

I also shave everything below my neck. Hate hair. Luckily, I wasn't very hairy to begin with. Epilator is next on my list.... Nair, stunk. Literally and figuratively. Waxing...too expensive.

Smokin'!! If they are a touch too small (here's hoping..LOL), you know where to send them!

26th sounds good to me!

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Welcome here, nlao!! New friends, like all 3 above who responded to you, have made me feel very welcome here! Glad you're here!

You didn't "earn" your divorce, trust me. I went through the very same thing. It's who you are, and if she couldn't accept it, then there's nothing YOU can/could do... Your story is a lot like many here, especially mine. I know you will like it here, but please, share your stories and pics with us all! Welcome!

You've come to the right place! Welcome, and have fun here!

Love...

In my 4 days in Brighton, I was impressed with the place. For a small city, it had some serious shops and kick-ass downtown area, filled with nightlife. Heels will be where you drive to them...100 miles to see what you love is nothing.

You told us to say one good thing about the shoes. The heel.

No. I'd go in the other room and pretend I wasn't there...

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If you have pretty feet, #1. If not, #2.

Can anyone explain what's so good about the mules?

They have a nice, round stiletto heel?

Welcome aboard, Damn! Don't worry about advice on walking in your heels, there are plenty of great members who can help. I was lucky to have been able to walk in very high heels from a young age, so never had to "work up" in heel height much. Have fun here!

I know I babbled on several occasions, during the week, that I had a fun day planned for this past Saturday. A couple of friends here have asked I share the day/night here. Still waiting for my friend's party pics. Here's how it all went: Started by going to my 12:30PM appointment at "Bam's" hair in Town, which I made last week. They do eyebrows and everything (since my friend and Cosmo expert Jay backed out). Arrive to find the place closed...permenantly! So, went over to an Asian place which does hair very well, but couldn't wait any more to do my eyebrows (already waited over an hour). So, late for shopping with sis. Since time was limited, and the mall was now out of the question, we settled for AJ Wright. She knew what I wanted, style-wise, so went for the pants first. Lots of people in the store, and my sister was more concerned about the looks I got in the ladies jeans section than I was. Tried on size 14-16...not big enough even though some of the pants were awsome! 3 pairs of size 18's were tried; high waist blues I wore out, lower cut with more flare blues (that stretch with gold inlay), and gray/black denim, straight cuts, fit well...(MAN, they feel nice!), and even with the looks from the dude giving out the fitting rooms tags, we were off to find shirts. Wanting something tighter, in a button down style shirt, I found I am now (thanks to my weight loss) somewhere between XL and XXL. XL, still to tight, and XXL fit comfortably, but not as tight as I wanted. Still, XXL would have to do. Picking out 2 that I like (black, and blue), my sis looked at the shirt I wore out and liked it, but said we'd have to buy shoes that matched. Hence the 15 minutes of trying on shoes (nice.. with all kinds of people around. I liked the looks, which ranged from "Oh my God!" looks to smiles of acknowledgement. My sister was more paranoid than me, as she thinks it bothered me. So, with shoes selected, and 3 outfits bought, it was time for a pedicure. Even though it was late, lots of people were there waiting and working on nails, feet, and hands. I was penciled right in... Sat at the chair, feet in the water bowl, and a pretty, and TALL (5'11") blonde sits next to me getting hers done. It's obvious she (Jen) is very open and liked to talk, and after 15 minutes, she knew all about me wearing heels, and my love for them. I think this really intrigued her, and she gave me her # to go shopping with next time I go! She (and several other amused and cute ladies) talked me into clear polish, with flower designs on both of my big toenails! Compliments on my feet abounded, and after the hour pedicure, I felt good and relaxed! Plus, Jen wants me to go shopping with her next weekend.. Went home, got ready, and met with 2 of my friends, and brought them over my lesbian friend's house, who was celebrating her 30th. She had her family and friends there, and my friends (who both were as tall as I while I wore my heels...ie 6'5") and I had a good time. Off to the club about 10. New club for me, and instantly was impressed with the DJ's choice of spinners. Techo, with the occasional reggea-tone and hip-hop, plus the crowd of accepting people (and drinks bought for me by strangers), made it a kick ass night. I just wish the shoes didn't hurt as much as they did (not super well made, but what do you expect at AJ Wright for $13? At least they looked good, to me!). Near the end of the night (about 2), a couple, who stood out due to their unique dancing (plus the fact he was short, thin, and not very good looking and she was tall, blonde, and gorgeous!), walked by me, and the girl was amazed and quite vocal about my choice in shoes and clothes (didn't speak English, but he did). For the next 15 minutes, they took pics of me, she danced with me, he bought me 2 drinks, and it turns out they were visiting from Sweden, and she LOVED my choice in clothes and shoes! Her shoes, it turned out, were quite tall, nice, and sexy themselves (black boots, maybe 4 1/2" square but thin heel)! My friends did not let this go by unnoticed. I felt very good!!! As we left, and walked down the street to the car, the only negative of the night happened. The crowd left all at once, and while we walked, a car filled with punk teenagers driving down the street, decided, in a cowardly way, to shout a derogatory gay slang out, I think, in my direction. I should have been upset, but the night was so good, it really didn't bother me. Of course with my friends there, and lots of like minded folks within short distance, the punks drove off fast. It was a good night regardless! Scott

Welcome, Chrissy! I have been most welcomed since I've been here. Enjoy, but don't feel like you HAVE to go up to 6" heels. 4-5" generally make women's feet and legs look the best, IMO!