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Trust me you'll NEVER persuade her--you'll just alienate her to the point of divorce. I know from experience.

Out of curiosity, how does one tuck all or nearly all of the pants' legs into boots so they don't bag out when you stand up? Maybe she has somebody do it for her while she's standing?

Perhaps you could teach a college PE class (open to both genders??) in graceful spike heel wearing...? You'd fill a need, surely, and even if only voluntary, you'd impress the administration with your instructional ability.

She doesn't need the shoes to look beautiful--just icing on the cake, IMHO.

If you can locate on the internet (most sites have been blocked by the RIAA, apparently) of "klitekpp241e.exe" or later version (ad-less, cracked version of KaZaA with the most used port blocked, and a few other anti-RIAA snooping features built-in), set it up on your computer, then look for "sspline v2.1" and install IT onto your computer, you can blow up jpeg pictures by as much as 2.5x without noticeable loss of image quality, in most cases. Or you can install a bootleg copy of PhotoShop onto your computer (same source) and pay sspline ~$60 US for an official version of their photoshop plugin (the version above works as a standalone photo image enhancer, or at least it did with me until my system acquired one or more unknown virii requiring me to reformat the HDD, and resulting loss of all *.exe programs I had acquired previously, including the aforementioned sspline v2.1!)

I don't care much for the shoes, but if I can only see the heels and maybe a 1/2" platform under a pair of figure hugging black pants, or if the girl/lady is wearing boots with similar heels ~3" or more high, I get all mushy inside. I am one other male here who finds them very sexy. 'Course, then I want to wear them as well, but I know it will do absolutely no good at all to ask what brand they are or where she got them--None of the truly sexy narrow block-heeled boots (as opposed to spiky heeled or fetish type heels) are EVER made any larger than US-11, most often 10.

It is so despairing that most of the time I just don't bother to look anymore--why torture oneself with what one cannot have?? It gives new, if twisted meaning to the words of the Rolling Stones/Animals song Paint it Black: "I have to turn my head until my darkness goes..."

Profound condolences, Laurie. My ex-wife used to say "two can live as cheaply as one (for half as long...)"; wanna move to Utah? Just kidding of course (OH the age difference, and you'll never date a guy who wears heels, but I promise mine will always be shorter, nah it'll never work)!! Anyway, good luck to you and May God Bless You and Keep You.

Having had 5 children, and having been divorced (and without sex) for nearly 5 years, I can tell you that the love of and from children, is worth more than all the sex in the world. If you can't commit to that (and many can't), you have reached a "dam" in the progress of your life towards what all humans ultimately seek--joy and fulfillment. You will never know it exists if your ultimate goal is to please only yourself, and never take the risk of living for another. (there's a reason the religious nuts call it "damnation", because it is!)

Reminds me of the company memo about "anyone who feels they need some more Special High Intensity Training, should feel free to talk to their supervisor about their need for more S.H.I.T...."

Sorry to be contrary, people, but I adore (if I may be permitted to use that word) laces, and that ankle strap with the laces really does it for me. As also the velvet (would prefer black suede leather). The heels are about 1" too high, though.

Out of curiosity, is anyone else here fascinated by exotic weapons, such as the Kris Knife, otherwise known as the blade of Kali, according to at least one web site?

No I don't get erotic feelings from them, lest someone here think of me as a PERVERT!

28%! I will have 2 more female loves.

I still think the punishment ought to fit the crime--it works for children, and it could be argued that adults who commit crimes against society are nothing moore than adult children. E.G. "an eye for an eye", etc. If a guy rapes and terrorizes a girl, put him in a place where he will be raped and terrorized by his fellow inmates, repeatedly! Humane treatment of human beings is only deserved by the human beings that treat others humanely. Any other policy is sheer lunacy, and will eventually bring about the downfall of civilization as we know it.

...Sorry my english is not perfect!

Better than my Italian, which I took in High School about 30 years ago!

Welcome.

I prefer heels such as you describe, but prefer boots to pumps, oxfords, etc., although I have worn similar shoes on occasion.

FLOGGER

There was a Hawaiian Japanese girl in the third grade that I had the hots for who nearly always wore black patent leather mary janes. I liked them too, and wanted some for my very own, but I knew at the time that IT WOULD BE VERY BAD if I mentioned such a desire to my parents! Later on in the 5th or 6th grade, I was enamored with a set of twins that often wore white "go-go boots", and I wanted a pair of them as well. When I got in 7th grade (~1965) every (well-dressed) guy was wearing high heeled ankle boots, so I finally was able to learn how it felt to wear them daily. Unfortunately the style didn't last more than a few years.

The death penalty IS/WAS a deterrent in those countries where it is/was either immediately enforced, or enforced by means of exacting the death penalty using the same means that the perpetrator used on his/her victim! As also in cases where the death penalty is specified for relatively "frivolous" offenses. Since there is (from what I heard. anyway) a death penalty in Singapore for spitting out gum on the sidewalk (or something similar), I imagine that this is not done very often! Likewise, El Salvadore used to specify the death penalty for drunk driving (don't know whether they still do or not). I imagine partygoers made plans for a sober designated driver. If the death penalty works for frivolous offenses, it is ludicrous to claim that it is not a deterrent to violent criminals.

86% female certainty! I don't necessarily prefer blue bedrooms--it's just that ANYTHING is preferable to white (YECCH).

Her written words include more than their fair share of agressive and confrontational rhetoric, and a seeming great lack of humility, tolerance, compassion - all qualities exemplified by Jesus Christ whom she is constantly parading in front of us to justify her 'standards and principles'.

Much as I would like to agree with Bubba with regard to Susan, I could not have said it better myself.

I used to drive an 18-wheeler for up to 10 hours straight (including 3-4 hours in Los Angelos bumper-to-bumper traffic at 15-20 miles per hour) in 4-1/4 inch mules with a 1 inch platform (e.g. 5-1/4" total), but then it was the only way to keep my gas pedal knee from aching unbearably, so that may not count.

The problem as I see it is that there is at least as much resistance in distaff circles to a guy knowing about high heels, or what the best nail polish or makeup to wear, or how best to make a soufle, or what the proper tension to use when sewing satin..... as there is in "manly" circles to a woman who knows how a car is supposed to be fixed (see for example the movie My Cousin Vinny). So I don't think it is all that far off topic.

www.payless.com has some they're selling up to size 11, Laurie.

Payless website lists (among others) the bottom pair, and a J-Lo clone, unfortunately only up to size 11 US. :x

I already said what I had to say under the moniker of "guest". More power to your writing hand Laurie--I can't wait to read the finished product.