e Posted June 16, 2007 Share Posted June 16, 2007 a husband can do to encourage his wife to wear heels? I'd especially like to hear from the ladies on this forum. Thanks. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jmc Posted June 17, 2007 Share Posted June 17, 2007 Not reall certain you can. . . If she wants to wear heels, she will. If she doesn't (for any of myriad reasons) she won't. All you can do is compliment her whenever she does -- it's called positive reinforcement. I believe this question illustrates the fundamental reason why there are so few women who frequent this site. We male members are so hot on heels and we make the women feel like we are going to gang up on them and force them into something they may not like. We have to realize that heels are not for everybody. Some choose to wear them and those individuals have our undying appreciation. But some chose not to wear heels and that is their chioce. If your wife chooses not to wear heels, that is her prerogative. If she chooses not to, there may be good reasons -- the structure of her feet may make heels painful for her, she may not have the confidence to wear them or maybe she just simply does not like them. Have a happy time! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dr. Shoe Posted June 17, 2007 Share Posted June 17, 2007 She knows you like them so you never know. However, you should not pressurise her nor force her into wearing them in any way and any attempt to do so would just drive her away. Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thedesigner Posted June 17, 2007 Share Posted June 17, 2007 well in my experience, nuthin! My ex woudnt at all and hated them - for her or me. Soulmate hates less than 4" and luvs me wearin them too! New partner? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
new_look Posted June 17, 2007 Share Posted June 17, 2007 careful women can be unlogical. my ex thought heels meant more to me than her if i asked her to wear em. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thedesigner Posted June 17, 2007 Share Posted June 17, 2007 same as my ex, which was true Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chris100575 Posted June 20, 2007 Share Posted June 20, 2007 It depends. if she wears heels sometimes and you'd like her to more often all you can do is compliment her when she wears them and hope that she wears them more often. If she doesn't wear them you might try suggesting pairs that you like when you're out shopping together. As others have said though, you can't push her into wearing them if she doesn't want to and if you try it won't be well received. Chris Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hoverfly Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Topic have been covered before, you can do a search for more details. Hello, my name is Hoverfly. I’m a high heel addict…. Weeeeeeeeeee! 👠1998 to 2022! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Allu(M) Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Buy allways best quality heels. The are expensive but comfortable. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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