Thighmax Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Hi, I am new here. I told my girlfriend about me wearing high heeled boots and she has seen me wearing them. She is not really into it and I have been trying to get her to like them. Do any of you have an idea of what I can do to get her into it? I would appreciate your help.
Bubba136 Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 Don't press her. Just be glad she doesn't have a problem with you wearing them. (the time you'll know if she really has a problem is when she disappears from your life.....) Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
crotchboots-m Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 i have very much the same situation with my wife. she knows that i wear and doesnt like it much. i dont press it,i accept the fact that its dont ask,dont tell.
asdf174 Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 agree with firefox. Overall just be happy you have a gf! It's all good. ~Arron.
Thighmax Posted August 11, 2005 Author Posted August 11, 2005 Thanks for your help guys. Sometimes I try to push it a little hard and she asks me not to do it. She does accept me wearing them around her. There are some things that I haven't told her, for example that I love wearing thigh highs. will try to take it slow, so that I don't scare her off.
asdf174 Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 It is cool that she accepts that you wear, I think thats a good idea to take it slow and not to push it. Don't want to scare her off. Women are to hard to come by. To hard to meet. It's all good. ~Arron.
canadianbeaver17 Posted August 11, 2005 Posted August 11, 2005 If she accepts it, that is a definate thumbs up. My gf likes the different styles on me. It's not like we are eager and excited when I wear them, but just a subtle "nice look" or whatever lets each other knows that you like the other person's style.
Dawn HH Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 Thighmax:-) Welcome to the Forum. Just give your GF some time and space so she can get her head around the subject and by all means...don't push it as she hasn't shut you out completely on this. Take it slow and easy. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
Firefox Posted August 12, 2005 Posted August 12, 2005 You can turn this on its head by looking it from her point of view. Say she was interested in something which bored you. What could she do to interest you in her flower arranging classes or whatever. If you just wear them around and don't comment too much yourself, she may grow to like them. who knows?
Thighmax Posted August 12, 2005 Author Posted August 12, 2005 I am trying to take it slow but sometimes it is hard, specially when I see her wearing boots herself. She is a heel wearer, I have bought boots for both of us. Slowly she is accepting the fact that I like to wear boots. Sometimes I press it a little to hard, I guess time will tell.
Steve B Posted August 13, 2005 Posted August 13, 2005 Remember, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink. In most cases, the harder you push, the more resistance you encounter. Black 5-inch stilettos - the only way to go!
Dawn HH Posted August 14, 2005 Posted August 14, 2005 Steve B:-) So true..so true! Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
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