Bubba136 Posted September 29, 2005 Posted September 29, 2005 she says that she's free to have tighter requirements for me than what the law says, pretty much in the same way that it's not illegal not to have a shower for 12 consequetive months. And, I guess, that's what an "opinion" is!!! Some people stink and don't think anything of it. And, others find it offensive to their noses. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
joenj Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 Well, I *_AM*_ Bi , and I have worn my Margo-St. John's Bay women's boots ( 2 1/4" heel ) to work, and to Greenwich Village ( NYC ) . Cheers! --- end --- /signed/ Joe in North-east New Jersey USA ///
Bubba136 Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 Hell, anything can be worn in Greenwich Village......or, nothing at all.....and no one would bat an eye. :rofl: Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
Magickman Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 It happenned tp me, too Last week, at the Brookside Bar and Grill, in quirky Marine-on-St. Croix, Minnesota, I had stopped in with my woman for a drink. One of the waitresses spotted my heels, and simply asked, "Are you gay?" I made the usual pro forma denial, but I don't think she believed me. Some folks cannot escape the stereotypical gender segregation of footwear. If she had been wearing paratrooper boots, would I have asked if she was a lesbian?
Bubba136 Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 If she had been wearing trousers/slacks/pants, you should have asked her anyway. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
Pam Posted September 30, 2005 Posted September 30, 2005 IMHO, When someone links the way of dressing with gender, they have some type of unsolved prejudice. At this time in age many, and I mean many, gender specific fashions are in the past. Some examples: earrings, tight clothing, use of all sorts of beauty products, etc. So in my mind I see "alternative" fashion moving towards a more genderless stage. But some people cannot just accept it! (sound more like a rambling than a thought! )
Pam Posted October 3, 2005 Posted October 3, 2005 WOW...some story! Hey we were in the same neighborhood! I can almost ensure that we crossed paths I had dinner at Passtisse! I agree, great high heel all around!!!
Dawn HH Posted October 3, 2005 Posted October 3, 2005 Pam:-) Were you wearing black pointy-toed stilettos also? Small world, Isn't it? Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
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