morpho

I did some outings wearing them, i never though i was gonna do it, but i actually already went to the streets and found my self in the middle of people wearing them , plus a full woman attire, i went out from a makeover photo shut, and i think i was pasable some how, me and my friend went out to clubing and dine out, it was very liberating,and we were the center of the atention when people found out we were guys, we wre not trying to hide or fool anyone, just we were having fun all dressed and wearing our heels here and there, people found out we were normal straight guys in a diferent look, and wanted to know the why were doing it, i still dont know why, i just love the feeling of the heels period, pushing me to turn all my look into a girl without trying to be or feel as one, the only purpose is the wearing of heel out and about, and dont look weird.

Hi, i feel good and happy everytime another guy accomplish that goal!!!, Congrats, i am sure next time you will go further and will enter into more public places, there is no limit , everytime you will ask more challenge more and more. For my self i am challenging me and gathering some guts to go out the next week to the main street in this city i am living in Shanghai, Is a different story i will post what is it like, i dont want to divert your story now. Let us know when you will go out again and what will you accomplish, cheers

I've not seen an immediately obvious message about this, but...what about 'crack of dawn' early mornings for the shy heeler?

I know busy places are recommended by members who've tried and tested them, and they know what they are talking about through successful experience. But if anyone is still shy and wants to build up to that, or simply wants to practice the shoes on more challenging surfaces than the living room carpet - is it the case that very early in the morning is better than 'after dark'? Basically no chance of encountering people who are drunk, and the only people you are going to meet are the paper boy and dog walkers...what could go wrong?

I must say that i did this one too, actually i think is one of the best ways to start gaining some confidence, (i will talk about Dr, Shoe suggestion in a bit)

When I was starting to go out in public, yes i did the late night vampire outings at very lonely places, and is very exiting the first times, later when you know you can do it any night you start to feel a little frustrated as someone said there, you are still in the same stage of heeling at home and alone, then i felt i needed to go to another level, putting more challenge, so i went ahead and woke up very early, around 530 am and go out in heels, nothing different with if it is midnight, so i concluded that a popular place early in the morning may also be different rather than a popular place at night, so i picked up a small sex shop, i dont know why i linked this to try to wear my shoes there, maybe because is kinky? i have no idea, but i felt doing it, the cashier and the employees saw me as i was showing fully the stilettos 4.5 inch and i did these visits 5 times repeatedly, in different outing, the last one i push to much the envelope and i went with a mini skirt exposing legs in hose and my black pumps clicking all over the place, i have to admit that i didnt enjoyed it much as one of the customers was following me all over the place, maybe he though i do some magic for perverts hahaha, in any case i think that all depends how you wear and what are you wearing, rather than where are you heeling.

So my suggestion is to plan your outing well and precise to the last detail so you can at least know what to expect and be prepared, another suggestion is to always be safe and dress according to the place you are about to visit, if you like to go fully infemme is a different story, i cannot talk about that here as it is out of topic.

As for the suggestion of Dr Shoe of going directly to crowded places at first, of course is a way to reach the objective, but the tread is asking for the process on transition for shy guys maybe, if you are not shy just go ahead and wear your crotch boots under your jeans and go to the airport, I m sure no one in the first time can actually do that without being drunk or bet some money, some guts is required to do that kind of things.

I already went to some clubs and bars in heels and heeled around and no one noticed, but for me to do that i needed to build the confidence and explore my senses when out and about in heels even in lonely places first.

hi there, nice story scrappy, i have a question is there anyone that has filmed an outing with a hidden camera in your chest, shoulder anyplace with the purpose to see the reactions of people whila walking around? I have seen many videos of outing but most of them are pre-selecting the spot and the time and taking many shots, therefore the reality is not 100% unless you just attach a camera to you where no one can see and walk around in heels or whatever, im very keen to see the result of the experiment. anyone?

I love your story trevor, i think is very authentic and of course doable, i will use it as a go by, lets see if something good happens, but i must admit, it totally depends on the type of personality of our wives, so for you it give it a boost as your wife is big fan of the heels etc, Also it depends on the booze and the occasion, so i will see if it will happen one day, as you say one step at the time so i wont show wrong signs. Out of having only fun is the reason.... thanks again for your story.

the other day watching ng, i was thinking how it would be to throw your self on a glider in your 5inch stilleto crotch boots and a leather catsuit!! just for incase this is not fetish. is exhilarating!!!

thanks all for your ideas and opinions, some posts are really interesting while others are a little out from what i was expecting, no offense crotch boot-m , we are actually taking baby steps here, and we hope to reach your level one day, why not you tell us if it ever been in the past an experience similar to this and how you dealed with it. The point i am trying to analyze here is to touch the wife or gf from the side of the challenge to wear heels together and how to do it smoothly and natural, and what would be the cons if they will start to know you are into heels and do not approve. very simple On another thing, i would like to jump on the shark experiences, what do you think she will say if you come home with two pair of black classic pumps 4inch heigh for you two. do you think she will take it in a bad way after she already challenged? I am kind of preparing a moment where i will come with these two pairs and tell to mine, hey you lets see who walks better a guy or a girl? i would love to see you on thses ones more often, so i bought mine to support you... something like that. in fact the response by jwhite44 is actually help full you are righ what if she decides for me in order to analize my intentions, women are women, they will always keep playing these little games, i gave it a though and i think is better to come up with the proposal after declining an open challenge that may or may not serious on that moment, and maybe just testing.

I like the purple tights and the black boots, i think you should try to wear a tigh dress instead,

Hi All,

Now I know these aren't 'High' heels, but for those who really want to go out in heels but want a good easy place to start. . . .

http://www.atomretro.com/product_info.cfm?product_id=5081&d=MADCAP-ENGLAND-CUBAN-CHELSEA-BOOTS-BEATLE-BOOTS

They are a good 'break from the norm' which goes with near all of the usual 'man wear', and unlike nearly all mens stuff looks more like a sports car instead of wearing a pair of vans on your feet!

Much the same as YSL 'Johnny' boots that you can't buy anymore, you'll never have to wear flats again if you're dressed smart!!

BTW i'm not selling these and don't own any either.

What do you all reckon?

I do like the shoe but i dont think i can start with this one as i already wear something similar without thinking they can look similar to high heels, sorry i think you are kind of confusing fashion for men to a regular high heel shoe designed for women, i hope one day it will be equal.

I got missed a similar opportunity and could get over it for 1 year, still have a little regret, the issue is not that there are plenty of occasions to wear the high heels , for some of you guys is easy as you are doing it quite regularly and had already moved on to a higher level, as for some of us that still too shy and too rookie on going out, is hard, it requires lots of balls to make the decision before actually doing it, the action of doing it is something else. In my case last year i was invited to a fetish ball party, and even in the invitation was told to dress kinky or weird or sexy etc, i went with a huge outfit of a vampire, even managed to put on blue contact lenses, i have no idea what happened to me, i was already there parking my car, all dressed up, wearing make up wig etc, completely unrecognizable, and at the last minute i chicken out as never before, i was having the 5high heel knee stiletto boots already on my feet, and i saw people in the street in a casual attire i though maybe i will be the only freak at that party, f..k so i had to at least changed my shoes for some regular mens shoes, and put the boot on a back pack, so i will see how is the party first then i will put on the shoes once i will be there, well the party was huge and so cool, there were many performances and many people dressed up in many customs, i felt like i was ok wearing as i was wearing, at that moment i felt there was no need to wear high heels, the party stayed on i felt kind of tired and left early, the next day i regretted many things one that i left early and without wearing my heels, two that i lost an ipod that was on that bag back with the uselss pair of boots that i never worn, and third that i went to that party alone, i should have at least a friend to go with, but since i decided to go dressed up and in heels maybe i felt shy and keep it private. This lesson helped me to think of what i like and want to do without regret anymore, i decided to have fun and make it a blast any opportunity i will plan to go out, all plans have to be well designed and have to be followed 100% after i decide to do it, the results are the expected ones, for example my last haloween, i perfected a plan to go as a female zombie wearing tights and a 5.5 inch stilletos showing my legs fully as in the avatar, i was expecting to be shy and chicken out in the moment of stepping outside, but i didnt i went out and no one recognized me, even more because maybe my posture or my walking moves there were girls that were asking me tons of questions of how can i managed the high heel etc, and one of them "very cute by the way" was attracted to me, hahahaha, i can say i had a nice night, of course i forgot to say that there were gay men also attracted to me as well, and a TV give a touch up of make up in order to look much more scary and unrecognizable, that was a blast i have to say, so the suggestion for next outing if you dont want to chicken out and regret, plan the night to the minimal detail, and have everything previewed.

thanks to all, I think all of you have a point, and i agree that the most important thing is to have decided a response when it will happen, period, this is similar to all things in life, if i rush it or i force it it wont go well 100%, so even if the process could be complicated or not the best thing is to have the game set for the moment when she challenge to play. the shoes given in the link are cool, maybe the best for give a start, i remember i did some alteration to a my casual man ankle boot and increased the high of the heel to 2 inches it almost looked like that one, but with a wide heel and a man shoe shape, maybe a look for special orthopedic shoe, anyway she did like it as i look taller, i have no idea how she will react if i come home with a ladies pair of shoes (regardless the high of the heel or the look if is too neutral or too feminine) maybe she will laugh or she will hate it and start to guess about my cd values, haha I am still debating whether i come with a pair by my self or i ask her to choose a pair for me when i see a clearance of my size. Other is to tell her is a kinky thing i read, to put on red 5inch high heel pumps,

I had seen many entries on very similar cases on members of this and other forums, telling an experience in where they were asked and/or challenged (sarcastically) to wear high heels in order to see how it feels the pain and the level of difficulty that theoretically we men normally ignore. My wife in some occasions, when she complained about the pain derived from wearing high heels, replied to me that i should know that it is indeed a challenge, "you should wear once to see how it feels" and in all the cases i was prey of the fear or shyness in order to follow up the sarcastic comment/challenge. As I read more and more people here, had similar experiences, my question here is how can we play the reverse psychology in order to get our selves on a winner situation where our wife /gf etc, can approve at least once to wear heels with them? I know it will be useless if this is done once as a challenge to defeat, but how then I can turn it into an activity we may do together repeatedly? any advise? thanks

no 4, good luck!!!

great boots!!!!!!!!!!

bootme babe, those boots in your avatar are the best!!where did you got them? thats a fantasy me to get one pair of those, in order not to detour the topic

I had another though, if a woman doesnt make an effort for her legs to show well or her overall outfit doesnt match it may just kill the look and the sexy idea of what is considered atractive woman, whereas if a man, even with a nice designer suit and incredible leather stilleto boots, he will look even much more kinky and better for women, as well, masculine look not at all but that is not on disusion.

I look forward to have the guts on fully exposed my legs in a tiny mini skirt using crotch boots in black with a heel 5inch high, as many girls here are using thigh high boots, and is a trendy thing, then i will go further away with a crotch boot, very kinky, lets see if i will have the enough amount of motivation in order to achieve the goal and post the experience.

hi im looking to get a new pair of thigh high boots and also wanted to post the number 3001 but i couldnt

Im gonna switch for high tight boots as it is looking sexy and trendy nowdays, alittle over the knee is fine, but even the slutty ones are ok only if the heel is not above 6inch high, i see more than 10 girls everyday at the street passing by with all kinds of styles of H TH boots here in shanghai, and i am in the 7heaven when i see them passing by.

LOL .. guranteed way to have the green keeper chase after you with an out of work 'Big Bertha' - though a nice pair of 4' heels to prize giving afterwards would be fun. Give those old toffs something else to complain about

YOu are 100% right those folks are buggers all the time, imagine without cart and trying to lift at every step your heel incrusted on the grass, plus remember you may be considering on carrying on your shoulder the bag of clubs, that would be fun, and a good exercise.

...another silly idea (call me crazy)...

to play in a waterpark using your high heel best boots all the time, riding slides, wave pool, having a snack, making the long line with your tube and climbing all those stairs to reach the highest slide, that most be fun, although you may injure someone or may damage some property pinching even a tube, , i most be wearing a 5inch high stilleto tight boots, nice fantasy.

Im wondering to see if there is in the market a corset that the same material is used for boots, so they can match perfectly if i were to wear the corset fully exposed? In the boots to get the same effect of fastening into the leg as a corset does but in the leg, that would be supper sexy, having the matching set, and be tigh legs and body, maybe arms too.

The next time she make this comment, be prepared with an answer that indicates your willingness to "try" to wear heels. Something like, OK, I'll d that except we have to buy a pair that I can wear since your shoes are too small.

Then set a time and date to go shopping and purchase a pair in your size.

Hi Bubba, yes i know i should be more witty, but its not as easy as that, i will actually one day will tell her that on the store when i will see a pair that i would like to buy and it is available my size, to see what will happen, im sure she will not be happy to go further on the challenge. but lets see, i will write a new thread whenever it happens.

Morpho, in # 185 below, hit on the only way, IMO, that men in heels will come into acceptance. A conservatively designed heel by a current buzz "red carpet" designer, and introduced by them at the Emmys, Oscars, etc., by edgy male fashion leaders, not just the out-in-the-ozone music stars. Then promote in designer-name stores in more cosmopolitan towns...Hollywood, SanFran., Caan, Rome, Paris, Tokyo, Abu Dhabi; places where a goodly number of youngish, fashion conscious men with nine-figure bank accounts (amazing the personal confidence that must bring) are not uncommon. All it would take is one or two of the current movie magazine heart-throb couples to show up in matching heels. Say, Miley Cyrus & BF. That would get the ball rolling; unlike the unsuccessful effort 15+ years ago to popularize shoulder bag "man purses". Actually a great idea that did OK for a while, in Italy I think, but never got any traction here. Pitty. I wanted one. Women aren't the only ones who have to carry a regular bunch of stuff around.

UpBY5

Hu Upby5,

It gets more complicated every time that most designers keep on developing women styles rather than men's, i have worked on many prototypes for men, and still not finding the moment to think on a serious production for the todays fashion, I live in China since some years now and every time i see the new designs it is really a circus to see all hundreds of proto's all over and in all shopping centers etc, but all styles are only for girls, while for guys is just boring ugly conventional shoes, with minimum change on designs, the serious productions will come one year after to the western world in many diferent commercial and designer brands.

i liked when last year the pointy shoes on men were well accepted, but this year it is considered as old fashion and many men are going back to the conservative style. to introduced to pointy tip was a hell it took easy 5 years of prototyping and it only lasted maybe 5 years, now maybe is not very trendy.

If we dont make an aggressive move on a serious and trusted brand for a beginning of high heel in men, talking about thin heels and more sophisticated shapes, we will be kept in an endless loop of not seeing anything for us while for women everything is possible, and you (all of us will have to be kept on wearing women shoes with no much confidence or no confidence at all, or as of in my case closed doors, is that fair?

the other day i saw soccer shoes with heels for ladies here in china???!!! common, it included the spikes and all the soccer shoe original feature to play soccer, but with a nice thin 4.5heel, !!!????? ugly piece of garbage, but sill is a prototype, and many girls are buying it domestic market, while for men nothing really nothing interesting.

my imagination and creativity makes me feel frustrated on that we cannot make an aggressive jump to high heels once and for all, talking about mens fashion.

On the man bag, here in china most guys have their fake LV and other girly common brands we all know in the western world, they use even bags with rhinestones and designs that you cannot even think to use it in America, Uk or any other place. funny a but true, i have a friend that is a normal straight Chinese guy from time to time we go together to have some beers and he always brings his coach bag to the pub, it make me laugh because where i come from that's too much, this guy doesn't give a sht, he thinks it is ok as most guys have one, ...... i feel that in some places the need of a tool as a shoulder bag is recommended and is stupid thinking that only women may use it.

As in Asia we are using the mass transit system in a dairy basis as the efficiency is incredible, we need to carry many thing on us, im sick on having my coat pockets full with wallet, 2 phones, coins etc, a back pack make the look very sportif not very formal, and a suitcase is too heavy to keep carrying it out here and there, we all need the 2 hands free, so a shoulder bag is always a resource, the Asian are developing this trend incredibly fast, since many years ago....this is something totally not related with high heels. Even if you have a car for everyday, going out you still need to walk and go around, is now a life style. man bags are very sophisticated now days and most of the time look like any women purses.

Cheers

this weekend i was thinking on one nice fantasy, if any one of you know Vancouver's capilano bridge, it is a very long hanging bridge in the woods of that beautiful city, i think that crossing the capilano bridge running in 5inch stilleto heels may be a freaking experience. fantasizing in France maybe, visiting the museum "Le Louvre" in Paris, It will be an heroic act if you got to complete all the halls of the museum in a couple of weeks wearing the same heels everyday.

Why stop at 5 beautiful models? I hope you have shares in Viagra or an inflatables company.

I have to put a limit, other wise the bill at luch or at dinner will be too expensive,hahahaha

Belive me ... if that dream gets real, i will be more than satisfied after the alk that whatever number of girls is actually meaningless, i would be maybe ok if 2 stays overnight and i send the other three home, i may be too tired from the long walk for all of them.

Tetonheeler: common man!!!dont rain on Mr x parade!!! he got them already and is very happy heeling, and by the way most of the shoes are Chinese origin, European shoes are only the brand and most of them are manufactured in china. (of course there are some exceptions) Further more 200lb is not that heavy, seen ladies weighing more than 300lbs on spike high heel no problems on the shoe materials. I also though they were pricey but what the heck, Mr X wanted them so bad, i also made some purchases using my feelings as well and never regret.