Pam

Hopefully this time when heels become more accepted is coming ... There has been a number of adds, TV shows, articles regarding men crossing gender boundaries ... and more helped with the high attention given to the concept of "Metrosexuality" I think momentum is just starting!!! Pam

Hello again Heelfan those words are salomonic!!! I have learned alot about myself and relations these past days, and surely it is on the lines of what you mentioned. Relationships are tricky ... but at some point everyone has a "special thing" that needs to be accomodated and negotiated with the SO. It is VERY conforting that there are many others that share "special things" in common, specially when the special thing is either a high pointed boot or a cool strappy sandal!!! Pam

Hi again, First, THANKS a lot for your advice ... it has been helpful. It also made me feel a lot of support Last night (after the shock) we had a long talk, and like scotty predicted, the usual questions came up...long story short, she told me she had fears (which is very understandable) but she is at least more calmed now. I mentioned most of the advice you guys gave and it really made a big difference. I think now time is likely to help!!! But i'll keep you posted ... you will be hearing more from me thanks you all again!

Hello to all, I am new to this forum that I have been following very close and think its a great to learn and share. I need advice ... my girlfriend found a bunch of HH sites on my computer and she freaked out. My reaction was to tell her that everything was OK, and I was going to stop doing everything related to HH and other dressing issues. We all know that this can't stop as it is part of our nature ... i just need some advice on how to handle the situation ... should I wait until she calms? Please advice