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we all have our own devining rod that leads us to what makes us happy. trust your instincts...if they arent what most follow,so what. just take it for what it is...you.

i am sort of confused by the categories...i dont try to pass as fem at all(shaved head,goatee,etc) i wear my boots with full fetish leather usually. i guess the boots and my opera to shoulder length gloves could be consider fem..but not the rest. i suppose i defy categorization...lol...i love it.

if you need an out,tell them you were really drunk at the time...

the 3 inch rule is rite on as far as i am concerned...from painful past experience. now that is one so called expert that knows what he is talking about,unlike the usual dipsticks and there expert testimony...

las vegas is a good place to spy heels and boots...just got back from there...saw lots of boots,even some thigh highs. wife said they were probably hookers. even she is infected by the sterotype bug...maybe they where...who cares?

there was a time in the past when i would have done it...and i would haved bahhhhhhed my way in the mainstream. not now...its a part of me and its fun. so why give it up? and dont most us want to be a cut above the usual mob? or maybe a cut below...depending on who is making the judgement. like the clown across the street...he was my good buddy until he saw me one day in my boots and leather. now he wont even look at me. does it bother me? hell no...i am glad i flushed out the little rat...now i know his real colors. so all you lurkers remember that the ones that will reject you arent worth the trouble anyways. your real friends will remain that way regardless of you wearing heels or whatever.

i own a motorcycle myself(2000 honda ace tourer 1100). however,riding one of these is serious business. i wouldnot want to compromise my safety by wearing heels while piloting these behemoth. as the black gal said in "gone with the wind"...just taint fittin...

gay,straight,metro...i am so sick of the labels...i like this one the best..human. its like we have to be sorted out and organized like fruit on the sorting line. one day they may be able to genetically grow humans in a test tube to make us all "perfect". and i am glad i wont be here to see it. i wonder who the prototype will be?....lol...alfred e. neumann or george bush...

the golden years indeed...so called becuz you cant get to the can fast enuff...

exactly....like the old pete seeger song goes...a time and place for everything...later redone by the byrds,of course.

do what you are comfortable with. dont let anyone talk you into anything you cant deal with later. better to safe than sorry on this sort of thing...you CANNOT put the genie back in the bottle once it gets out. allegories aside...do it in private until you are pretty sure about yourself. good luck.

i wouldnt wear mine to work even if i could get away with it...i spend 8 hours on my dogs without a break sometimes. i will save my heeling for my off hours...

as they said back in the day,let your freak flag fly. or would you rather grow up to be a pig...lol. you should have pity on all those imaginationless cookiecutter cretins that form the bulk of the mob...they should be so lucky to have freaky tendencies and be less like matrix style robots

the range of heel heights in my boot collection runs from 2 and 1/2 inches to 5 inches. the best compromise for me is anywhere between 3 and 4 inches. anything over is great looking but kill my feet. anything under the 2 and 1/2 and i might as well a pair of running shoes.

if you need to keep it a secret,then stay home and parade in front of the mirror. if you dont care who sees you,then do it wherever. you dont need a secret plan or outfit...bah,humbug

newest common assumption: high heels on men=gay and criminally insane. or as red of the 70s show would say: "dumbass"

gay people are mostly like the rest of us...pretty non-descript. now there are some that are so obviously feminine that is like a neon sign screaming it outloud. and then there are those really macho types that fool everyone. my question is this...where did everyone get this assumption about heels on men=gay? did they learn it or is inbred like our desire to wear the damn things.

omg,who long did it take you to type all this?

i started wearing my moms boots at about age 10,but they only had 2 and 1/2 inch heels on them,at least no more than 3 inches. didnt get much over that until i was 30 or so when i started to collect boots seriously. i guess you start when you are ready...cant go back in time,etc.

ive said this before but i looks like i will have to say it again. you CANNOT control what other people think about men in heels,or anything else for that matter. either accept the good with bad or dont do it.

The Only Perception Here That Really Matters In This Case Is The Wearers. The Others Cant Be Controlled....so Let Them Think And Believe What They Want To. Thats What Freedom Is About Anyway...

Lol..i Am Bald Too,and Shave Off The Rest Of It. So That Leaves Out The Hairdresser Deal,although I Do Wear My Boots And Leather To The Dentist.

exactly...why ask why.

if you dont want anyone to see them,just stay home and wear them

how about this as an excuse for wearing heels: i have them and i want to...