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  1. Was out ealier in the sun, with my Aldo handbag ,skinny jeans and the ted bakers sandals in the pic. Just before i arrived home i was caught by one of my female neghbours and been showing my toes public for the last few days. Cant wait to get them done professionally and a manicure too. I was ,"caught" by one of the security guys on my estate in skirt , fishnet tights and flats 2 days ago in the evening lol, after a brief outing to the shops which was a first in a skirt. I have carefully tried to avoid my neighbours and other people on my estate for the last 2 month I've been wearing female footwear, but im caring less and less now. But still a little carefull though. My outings are mostly daytime now, I'm hooked and enjoying pushing the boundaries more than ever. For me its about the general experience and I'm now more patient about heels before they are a regular part of my outings.
  2. I've had the top for years, then came across the skirt and heels on Ebay at low cost, so was a no brainer when i imagined the whole outfit. Gonna be be intresting wearing that out, even without the heels lol Will wear more conservative colours for my first skirt in public though, the last one is a bit too much for a first time, lol
  3. Future public outfits, skirts and hose i ordered finally arrived then i had some fun.
  4. Might be worse than great depression they say. Been aware about this for a while now, now thinking how i can plan ahead. Im a student so my hands are tied a bit, although im still employed . Only this year i realised fiat currencies are not real money, lol. Gold is too expensive and harder to get now, so going to reserch crypto in general.
  5. I will now be closing this topic, to start a new one soon for my heeling adventures. Made my first full outing in thin block heels last night, in 4 inch boots no platform. As soon as i left the house it felt strange walking on the concretee and not as easy as i expected in blook heels. Saw a car parked with lights on and another group of guys talking around my block and almost chickened out. But persevered. When i arived near Tesco store 10 mins later(to buy a few things), I nearly chickened out, i turned back twice to go home, but went in at third attempt. Again no anxiety really or intense butterflies, when coming across a dozen people, including the security woman who gave a strange knowing smile, i think. The woman who served me and other other till person would have noticed as i was walking away plus no one else was waiting to be serve after me. I had a few wobles tbh, from start to finish, but i decided to persevere initially just to avoid the regret and beeting my self up from not doing. Outing was 30mins id say (with sitting down briefly and standing) and my feet were hurting at least half that time on the way home. I will be using the treadmill to practise with 5-6 inch stilleto with and with no platform and wedges, just to get some mileage. The open toe mule sandals shown bellow at 3.5 inch with a shorter and thicker block heel. So will likley only wear these for my outings in heels , and but flats most other times, until i improve, to regularly wear higher of thinner ones. So another 3-4 weeks perhaps, until i try the 4 inches out again. Before then im planning pedicure with the mule sandals bellow and women's flat sandals. At this point its more about improving my skill and competence of heeling outside, not the fear or negative emotions as much (which i still have). I feel my plan omto wear flats first is paying off as intended, and ive been wearing more daring and feminine pairs.So heels on display was not an issue, initially it was the noise, but ultimately ability and pain were the major and only issues really in the end.
  6. Im staying in mostly to do my Uni work. Part of me wants to get noticed when i get on the bus or out about in public, but still working towards being comfortable in public and still self conscious. I went to tesco, in my pink flats, but this time it was the big store and in daylight(morning), i was a little nervous but the intence feelings from my early days are generally gone. Daytime outing in flats now and now im off work the rest of the month, so i only intend to wear women's shoes. I know people here say you should wear heels and dress how you want for you, and i agree. But when ive noticed people notice or look, the attention was neccesary in telling my subconscious mind there is nothing to fear and im being granted permission. Thus, I can and will continue to push the boundaries a little with each outing. On Monday i plan to do some heeling and skinny jeans in the evening, then daylight very soon. At this rate i will be in skirts sooner than i expected, im trying to take my time but, this is very addictive, and ive seen members say their confidence grew rapidly. So at this point i feel its neccesary to reflect on why im doing this tbh, for my own sanity.
  7. Yes i have been venturing outside in ballet flats for 8 out of the 12 days since my debut. I were a 3M 6200 half face respirator instead of a mask in public, which partially disguises or covers my face, but most people notice im a guy anyway and i dont hide it, haha. Ive noticed people look down, double takes and stares from people.For example Including when i got on the bus with several black or african people. But i suppose the respirator does attract some looks though. I have worn several other pairs not shown in the original pics. Today i wore a bright pink pair of Ted Baker flats to Tesco, nothing much happened really and no heart pounding just calmness mostly. These expiriences motivate me to master and wear my heels/wedges in public along with the accessories you mentioned hopefully soon and dress how i want in public. I dont hide my flats, and wont be hiding the heels either. Im planning debuting my 3.5 inch block heels within the next week, when i visit the supermarket at some point. The shoes are open toe mules, so considering doing a pedicure for the outing, with skinny jeans. I have a treadmill at home which doesnt get used much, so will using it to practice my heeling for the longer term. So 4 inches in public is my target within the next month or so.
  8. Thanks. Currently living in Tottenham near the new stadium. Tbh I'm finding the hardest part is leaving the house and bumping into one of my neighbours during the day. But once in public I'm calm. Night, late evening or early morning is somewhat easy when going and coming from work. I now intend to wear womens shoes (starting with ballet flats and sandals) more and more often until it becomes my regular footwear (Apart from when working or when with friends/family). I'm not ready for skirts yet maybe in late summer or the fall, before that womens jeans with preaty sandals (Ted Baker London) with painted toes for the summer and openly wearing low to medium heels is the next goal. So I guess the adrenaline and heart pounding will continue for a while, after my initial success. Although I'm straight, I was thinking Soho as it will be more accepting and Camden area initially, but since the city is in lockdown these wont really be an option for sometime, so just sticking to my local area and when going/coming from work as they are the only feasible/safe options. What are some your recommendations in terms of places and how long have you been wearing skirts and heels in public?
  9. This might be a long post, so bare with me. It's more than a year since my failed attempt at public heeling. I'm also a big fan of ballet flats and since Sunday night I've done 5 outings( one going to work and one on the way back home) using the 3 different pairs across 3 days. Until my outing today, the previous 4 have been an emotional rollercoaster to varying degrees. I dont know what came over me on sunday night before preparing for work, but I put my flats on and put my trainers in my work bag. I wore the flats on the bus to work, which was mostly empty. Were I was positioned however, they were visible to anyone who got on the bus, although hardly anyone noticed. This has been the case on the other journeys, and when walking in public. However I've noticed an increasing number of people noticing to some degree including double takes at my feet. At some pont during my journeys i started wanting to be noticed, lol. I remember a blonde girl who came to sit near me slightly facing my direction in the morning one time were my shoes were already obvious. I remember a security guy at residential area look at my face then down at my feet just before I reached home as he got out of his car. These moments felt significant, as if I was given permission to do what I was doing,and I have cared less and less since. Up until this point my head was rushing , I was high on adrenaline and dopamine, haha. Today I wore my most daring shoes yet, a red pair of ted baker flats, which on full display as with the previous 2 pairs. I need to purchase some groceries so I wore them to the local supermarket which was fairly busy. For some reason I had a sence of calm much better than previous days, but I was still a bit nervous as I made no effort to disguise I'm a guy. I wear a half face respirator, but i think strangers can still tell I'm a guy, as has been acknowledged a few times. I do own just many heels as flats though, including ballet heels and 6 inch pleasers, platforms, wedges e t.c. but need to practice for public, and only wear at home. I can't work from home during the pandemic i work nights so there are hardly any people are around unlike the daytime, plus I wear PPE everytime I leave the house now. That said I'm taking time off from next week as the Covid19 situation worsens here in London and UK. So outings will be for when I need to go to buy something. Uni has been cancelled so that opportunity has gone too. I wont be posting about my outings in flats since this is a heels site, but if choose to continue with this path in generally, flats are my starting point, and I want to start wearing my 3.5 inch block heels at some point. In summary my goal Is to wear heels (and womens shoes in general) in public on a regular basis,skirts, leggings .and painted toes, e.t.c.But presenting as a guy, not fully crossdressing. However I intend to keep wearing guys clothes and shoes too, I just want fashion freedom If anything.Although the excitement I felt the past few days makes me want to only want wear womens shoes almost all the time. I'm still going through inner conflict with this behaviour and thinking of stopping sometimes, none else knows if this. I don't know if I can stop now, and get rid of the desired. I come from an African background and this behaviour would not be tolerated. I'm screwed, This is a can of worms that shouldn't have been opened. But sometimes I really want to stop. But feels too good and exciting. I now understand what the public heelers here talk about regarding the early stages and how it gets easier exponentially. I cant wait to get out again tomorrow night when I go to work. But I must say the daylight outings are much more fun and liked it how the shoes were on display for anyone to see, but was still nervous. NO MORE WALKING AT NIGHT TIME IN DARK PARKS. But health is the priority right now, so I will have limited outings or almost none, for a while to come as the case for everyone. Apologies for the long post but I had to get this of my chest, and I'm back down to earth now. I will post some pics later. Stay safe.
  10. Only been out once in London (central) in heels back in January briefly and posted my experience here . I'm from Tottenham but wouldn't dare wear them there. I've been quite busy since then, so its been hard to make time to build on the little momentum i initially had. But not a day goes by i don't think about wearing heels and flats in public. hopping to get out this summer at night just to ease into it again, now I've finished uni.
  11. Ive read a few comments on this site from others about observing others while heeling in public. Is it about enjoying the attention and wanting to be noticed or people not making big deal or noticing much that makes it fun?
  12. Stumbled on this site just over a year ago and been a member for a while.I'm inspired by some of the members here past and present from reading their stories,seeing their pics and public outfits.My shoe collection keeps growing and becoming a little addicted now. I have been wanting to go public or at least get outdoors for sometime now, and wishing wont make that happen But I eventually got outdoors in heels. For the past few days I've been planning on my first outing on Friday night in central London. After meeting up with my friend i had a choice to either go home or face my fear and wear my heels which i brought with me. I stayed out and went to one of the major public parks which was pretty much empty. After 20 - 30 mins of being stuck in my head i got my Kurt Geiger booties out of my bag,got changed and started walking. And soon realised how much harder it is to walk with heels outdoors than at home.After walking around the park for several minutes I changed into my platform-less Simi stilletos which where easier to walk in. I walked around the park for 20 mins stopping a few times to sit down. Eventually I got near the road which was a little busy and without hesitation I started walking on the footpath next to the road. My heels where fully exposed (so where my booties earlier) as i was walking next to the road, and both my face and heels were visible to cars driving in the opposite direction. It felt good but I was nervous. After several minutes I got back into the park through another entrance. Nearly bumbed into a few people during my time there who could have noticed my footwear even at night, but Im sure some heard the sound. A few times part of me also wanted someone to notice me as a guy in heels, haha. Overall it wasn't a dramatic expirience compared to the early stories of others but for me it was about taking the initial step of getting outdoors and eventually making it a habbit. Since Im going to be heeling at night for now (when its darker and less busy in general), i dont mind my heels being exposed. A few times before i reached the road I wanted to call it a night as my legs were tiring but I'm glad I kept pushing my comfort zone and walking a little further with my heels exposed knowing i could potentially bump into someone at somepoint. Cant wait until Sunday night. Wont be wasting much time in the park this time, but only to get changed. I want to walk next to the road,residential areas and streets for longer, slowly pushing my comfort zone each time I go out. I will post some pics of my collection soon.
  13. Heeler from London, and available to meet up too
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