Stilettoscot

-tipped.

Could be! I am sure the cobbler who changed the tips on a couple my heels didn't mind the extra business..

Huge congrats, Patent! It is always for the best not to have to hide it. I know it didn't go well when I told my wife, but it was probably HOW I told her that hurt. Basically, I had supressed it while we dated, and about 9 months after we married, we were sitting in our living room. She never wore heels, but had a decent pair of sling-backs that, with a little stretching, I could put on. I had taken a dose of Ambien to sleep, but made the mistake of having a couple glasses of wine, too. In my altered state, I went in, put on her heels, and stumble out to tell her. A little more tact...maybe she would have understood?? No, she's very close-minded...but. The troubling part was a month + back when I had to tell everyone in my life (parents, one sister who didn't know yet, friends...even in-laws [Haitian] who still were close). Relief feels better than wishing you could. Just don't do it hopped up on Ambien and wine!

Very young. Since I could remember. I am sure having 2 sisters only didn't help. Or maybe it did.... Early teens was when I realised what heels and tight pants did for women. My sister's friend, Tracy, always wore hot things (80's...spandex, pumps, big hair, etc), and stayed over the house a lot. I was in love... Of course it didn't hurt that she wore same size shoes as I did back then.

NE Massachusetts.

There was a thread, somewhere here, that mentioned the release of endorphins in your body (caused, in his case, by wearing heels) resulted in weight loss for him. I was just insanely curious about this, as since I "re-started" heeling again 2+ months back, I've lost 27lbs, and hopefully will be dropping another 15. I know I LIKE the thrill and excitement of wearing heels (especially outside), but I had no idea it helped lose weight... This true?

Pics when you get them on, please.. They come in different colors?

The first time I wore heels and walked were a pair of a sister's friends while she and my sister were at the beach. They were 5" (size 8, which I was then) stiletto pumps. I was about 12 or so, and could walk easy enough in them then. 5" are easy for me, though most of my stilettos are now 4+". 6" for a while, but my highest I own now are 5.5".

A little late, but I love the original heels! I'd love to wear them with faded blue jeans... As for the rest of the thread, well, it reminds me of why this place is so cool!!

Nice wedges. Now, this style heel I may consider besides stilettos... As for me, I always shave before I wear my shoes, but that's only me. I just hate hair. It does "clash" with the feminine shoe, but if he's more comfortable without shaving, then it's fine. I doubt a lot of people are gonna stare close enough at the hair. I'd just admire the shoes if I saw him out...

The last 2 posts were great, and I do appreciate the tips! Wait for a couple weeks, and I'll get something together, following a lot of what I learned here, into something that looks good (and feels good!). The only "thing" is my love for stiletto heels. It may take a lot of work, but I want to show that I can make them work for a bigger guy. Saying this, I will take a look, while shopping, at other styles. But, I love stilettos too much... Thanks!!

Great post/thread, and a nice start for when I go shop for some pants for myself. It'd interesting to see how the cut/styles go with my larger frame, but will surely post here when I am successful in purchasing. Thank you.

I only wore it out last night to a friend's house, but through a bust apt complex, so was a victory for me. The "casualness" is only due to my lack of tighter, more stylish pants and shirts. But, I was comfortable, if not stylish. It was all about the shoes. Soon I want to add style, too..LOL Thanks.

Nicely done. It's good to know I'm not the only one with "butterflies" when going out.. Next time I go out, I want to build the nerve to go shopping in mine. It'd be nice to shop for well fitting, tighter jeans. At least if I am wearing my heels into the store, the sales lady (who I know I'll have to ask women's pants advice to) will accept me asking? I can really get excited thinking about walking through a store like you did. Hopefully, I can add my own success story!

Name: Scott Age: 33 Gender: Male Location: Near Boston, MA Occupation: Landscaper Height: 6' Weight: 225 Shoe size: US W9.5 - 10. What's your favourite heel style: Stilettos What's your favourite shoe style: My all time favorite is a nice low-vamp pump. Do you wear your heels outside: Yes, starting to more and more. What is: (a) Your favourite heel height: 5 - 6". ( Your highest heel height: 7 1/4" How often do you wear: (a) Your favourite heel height: All my newer shoes are. ( Your highest heel height: At least once a day for at least 30 minutes. Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes: Some bare feet, mostly stockings. Anything else you wish to add: This site rocks!

Most of the time, yes. But always thigh-highs and sometimes with garters. I never wear stockings and heels without shaving my legs well. I wish my skin wasn't so sensative to Nair, but alas... A pair of pumps I have, I can't wear stockings (because the back of the show keeps slipping off my heel as I walk), which is too bad, too. They're hot.

gwl1...well put! It's amazing how early this "gene" can manifest itself....as early as I can remember. BTW, not weird at all.

Richie, As far as the beige outfit, the sling-backs are dark brown, which go (I think) a little easier with the outfit. Black, although I've been told (amoung other things) can go with anything, seemed a bit out of place with this outfit, hence buying the brown sling-backs at Macy's. My everyday look? Well, when working (too hot to today in 100f heat); landscaping, picture an absolute mess. Out? Well, Some regular looser fitting collared shirts and baggy pants for comfort. Always due to my frame, and lack of style. More or less, what you saw in the pic minus the heels, plus big, God awful workboots/sneakers. On occasion, slacks instead, and nicer shirts. But boring. Which is why the need for advice. Look looking to achieve? Well, something sleeker, more trendy, worthy of going out without looking like I lost a bet. Like I have some sort of style sense, so when a beautiful lady notices my shoes, she'll notice me, too. Something I can go to the club in...etc. I don't know, really. I appreciate both responses!! Look forward to getting some nice, women's pants that "should" fit a bit better, and look better for sure.

Since it is rather appearant I am not very fashion oriented, and not wanting to look a fool when I go out on the town in my heels, I was hoping you more savvy folks here could help me out. In the process of getting more "style" clothes for myself and have some questions... 1. I WANT to get nice pairs of straight/boot cut tight jeans (especially black) to wear my shoes with. I know they'd look better. Problem is, with my "breeder hips" and fat ass (for a guy), I have not been able to find any men's jeans like this to fit me, hence the far too baggy ones. Should I buy women's jeans? If so, how do I go about finding the right size? Any other pants recommendations? 2. What kind of shirt would you recommend for someone with my build to wear with said jeans/slacks and stilettos? I would like to wear a nice button down, collared silk job, but will it make me look like a stuffed pepper? 3. Any other heels you recommend besides blocky ones for me (I currently buy/wear stilettos)? I have seen wedges that I liked, but rarely thick heels... 4. Beige collared shirt, beige trousers, "nude" stockings, dark brown sling-backs?? Work? 5. I heard the term "stylist" bandied about. Where do you find yours? I'd rather the advice of people who don't just want to tell me what I want to hear... Thanks in advance!

Kaboose.

Any tips for me, then? I need em bad. Thanks.

Good point. I hadn't really thought of it that way. I figured I wasn't really into block heels much (although wedges...not bad), or lower/more discreet ones. I do like reading the stories of others going out with theirs and having no problems. I would be willing to bet it would be like that here, too...and hoping to have more of my own to share. So far, I would "guess" society, at least here, has been more tolerant. Would they be more tolerant to a larger framed guy in stilettos is the question? For a bigger guy, I do have dainty feet. And, to me, the blockier heels do nothing to "slim" my appearance (but then I am not exactly Mr Style..).

I always said I'd never get married again....but, for you, definately! WOW!! Stunning is right!

I drive further for a day's fishing, I'd certainly drive to the Big Apple for this! Thanks!

Richie, Well, I'm not sure if my body type is "suitable" by most people's standards, but I can run in 4+" stilettos with no problems, so I can wear them well. Plus, I love the look and walk with them, so I guess, for me, they do fit my body type. As for wearing them out, I'm kept them in or worn them discreetly at night for too long! Over the last couple months, I have built the confidence (thanks to some friends and my sister) to go out more, and am glad I have. Last night, I walked to a friend's busy apt complex for a poker game at about 10PM. Saw quite a few people, but pushed on... Big "step" for me.