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Oh for my feet to be a size smaller.

I think this is the biggest wish of the whole male community!

Oh God, I LOVE those shoes! Where'd you get them?

How old are you, wedgemao? Were they parents-in-law of your girlfriend or wife? You clearly have a partner, does she know about your heeling and approve? Or not? Yes, the buffalos are great for stealth heeling. I'll try it sometime in the future when the time is right.

In my opinion, gallux, you should have talked about your heels with your wife before you got married. I'm not trying to bring your marriage down, but if you decide to tell her now, it might cause trouble or even break the relationship you two have. It'd be a pity. If you do decide to tell her, choose the right moment and be honest.

I'm getting my work colleagues used to seeing me in a kilt, then I'll just wear a pencil skirt on dress down Fridays

Seems like a good idea. Are they used to seeing you in heels too?

I'm thinking, now that I'm able to TALK about heels with my parents, I must get them used to the idea and the sight of me in heels.

My plan is to wait for a moment when my sister's not at home, and when dinner's ready, I'd just go and eat, with my wedge sneakers on and see if they'd notice anything. They'd probably notice my increased height, and when they ask I'll just show them and ask what they think about the shoes.

What do you think? A good idea or not? If I'm not taking any action, nothing will change.

I like the loud sound when I'm heeling alone, but on future outings in real heels I'll keep my heels quit to avoid attention. My wedge sneakers are very silent, just like regular sneakers.

I want to be happy, make music, wear heels and not give about the opinions of people that don't understand what they're talking about.

I add this picture of John Lennon, true words of a true legend.

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(one more post and I have 100 posts, time for celebration!)

I'm not taking the risk of wearing the wedge sneakers to scool. i've got 2 months left, than I'm going to university, where I'll be somewhat more free. I'll finally be freed of the immature douchebags in my school, who'd for sure make A LOT of fun of me if they'd spot me in heels. In university, or High School, I'm not sure about my choice yet, students do more crazy stuff, so I'll have less trouble with showing the "weird" me. I'm probably going to study music production, which has a lot of alternative students. GREAT.

I went out again today. Down below I posted a pic of my "outfit". It's what I wore the whole day (without the wedge sneakers of course), comfortable clothes for school, I didn't pay any attention on the fashion side, but I guess the outfit isn't ugly either. What I'd like to know of you guys: If you'd see me walking around the streets without knowing it's me, and you would by coincidence take a clear look of my shoes. Would you notice? I think I walk quite naturally, I concentrate and watch my walk, but it's of course never the same as walking with flats. Still, I haven't gone out in bright daylight. The problem is that I'm never home alone for long times in daylight. Only when it's already dark, like now. I have crossed about 5 people in my 3 "outings" so far, but I'd like to go into some crowded places like a shop or library and see if people notice. I'll do that if I get the chance!

Keep on smiling, ash! You look so much better with a smile on your face!

I have only been outside in heels twice, and those times were both on purpose. I put on my wedge sneakers when it got dark and walked around a few streets. Never longer than 15 minutes, my feet don't seem to be able to handle it (yet).

What do you guys think of this pic? Ronnie James Dio! m/

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I actually really like the look of those boots. They're not that high, maybe 2 inches, but they seem fun to wear.

When has that event happened? If something like that would happen in my area, I would definitely go, but I think it's more likely to happen in Los Angeles than in my boring and conservative Belgium. We haven't got these BIG cities where you can do anything.

That first pair, the sketchers, are nice. The heels very well conceiled IMO.

Shafted, I don't know if I'm into boots or not. I've never worn boots, neither heeled or flat, neither male or female, with the exception of some wellies when I was a kid. I don't know if I'd like boots. I'll try some when fall starts, but with the recent spring weather and the upcoming summer I have no plans to buying boots now.

I have already been thinking of boots as an option for outdoor heeling, as they don't attract that much attention and I think they're not that hard to walk in. I might try boots like these

http://www.sarenza.nl/i-love-shoes-clarita-s332-p0000044000

HEELS2U, I mostly talk to my mother, because she mentions them more and I think she cares more about than my father. I know she tells my father everything I tell her, so that's good.

You could try what I've done to my wedge sneakers. I stuffed a lot of folded toilet paper sheets in the back of the shoes and put an extra sole on top of it. You should be able to raise it with an inch. Try it out!

During talks about heels with my mother, I have mentioned that there are places on the internet, fora, where people like me are. She said that of course, for whatever weird thing, there's place on the internet! She told me a lot of times that she was worried about my future, what would happen if I'd get a girlfriend, a wife... I said that I had seen lots of examples showing that the combination of heels and a wife are possible, but I didn't go into detail. I don't think she knows about THIS site, but I might tell her to show the community, show that it's not such a problem. She might see my posts and see that heels are really important for me.

I know and I'm aware of it, and I'm trying to purchrase better, more appropriate clothes. I went shopping for pants with my dad last week, came back with 2 nice pairs of pants for everyday wearing. Not really skinny, but not baggy too. Around middle width. I have very wide legs, with lots of body mass, so most pants naturally feel tight for me. But these are allright, and even look good. One of them is of a recent trend, I don't know about America, but in Belgium it's kind of popular. Pants of cloth in various colours. Not new, but got popular the last year. I bought a pair in blue, so not really showy, but it looks good.

They look a bit like these, but less baggy. My calves are big too, so they fill up the pants nicely.

http://images6.jeansonline.com/jack-jones-trouser-bolton-edward-12056145-mid-blue.jpg

I'm not going out of the house in pumps, I only go out in wedge sneakers that look very masculine. I think they actually go well with masculine pants. It will take me more time and practice to acquire the skill and courage to go out in obvious heels. I will do it once, but not right now.

What's the pair of stiletto's in the back doing on a tennis court? Great boots indeed.

The handbag was never meant that seriously, neither by me or my parents, I think. I often carry a backpack, and this does the job perfectly for me! I don't dress in a feminine way at all! Baggy jeans, pullovers. It's what I find comfortable. A handbag wouldn't really fit well. Plus, I don't like the feeling of weight on one arm and not on both. It makes me feel like I'm out of balance, it makes me feel uncomfortable. That's why a backpack is perfect for me. I'll definitely keep up the dialogue. Thanks for the good response!

I had another open talk about it yesterday. Those talks usually start when my parents make a joke about my heeling. This time, I lost my bike keys, and my mom said tha tmen should have handbags, to not lose stuff. She said it would go well with my shoes. When I talk, I am as open as possible and talk about it like it is a hobby, nothing bad or negative, just a bit strange. My parens warned me to keep the heels well hidden, becaus they don't want my sister to find out about it. I asked, why not? It wouldn't be that bad? They insisted that I'd wait some more time before telling her, because they say it's not a normal thing, it's at the limit, and they think she'd not be able to handle it. I do think she would be ready for it, but I respect my parent's opinion, and I don't want to ruin the chance of acceptance by going too far, too fast.

Women can meet in heels every day, with all of their friends. We have to search for equal souls in this world!

Isn't Christian Louboutin already rich enough? You can clearly see those shoes aren't louboutins, the sole is only partially red and the heel is too low to be a real louboutin. I agree with Van Haren.

It all started as a high heel fetish, and I know that I wanted to know what wearing them was like. Since at my home, there aren't any heels in my size, I bought a pair for myself, and I just really liked it. It hasn't got anything to do with female feelings, I don't see heels as reserved for women only. So I liked it and went on with it. I own 3 pairs now, but more will come!