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Oops, I didn't expect that.

I wanted to know what it was like to wear heels. I'd had a high heel fetish for years and wanted to know if it was a fun thing to do, since ladies seemed to really enjoy wearing heels. After buying my first pair and trying it on, I loved the feeling of the heels so much that I don't ever want to quit wearing them at least once in a while. If I could wear them more, I would.

I wasn't around back then, but if someone could show me the original post, I'd be glad to see the article.

A sad fact: The page administrator that posted the picture gave it this description: "I'd kick my son in his underdeveloped nut sack if he ever tried some phaggot shit like this."

A lot of people gave the picture negative or ignorant comments.

It's so damn easy to call a little boy gay when you're sitting behind your computer, knowing that nobody that sees your comment will ever see you in real life, and your comment has no negative consequences to you except for maybe someone calling you a bad name, but you're safe in your real anonymity...

I give my greatest respect to the parents of this boy.

If I one day have children myself, I would raise them the same way, with a free mind, able to think for themselves what is really worth it without the influence of society telling them what to think.

My children will know that their father loves heels. I wouldn't encourage my son to wear heels, but I wouldn't discourage him either.

This isn't exactly about heels, but I found this picture about a little boy in girl's shoes who still hasn't adapted the rules of our society. It shows about how the gender limitation on clothing is really something adults created for nothing, except to silently disappear in the crowd...

https://www.facebook.com/photo.php?fbid=654852514529725&set=a.513600311988280.129094.513548001993511&type=1&theater

In my language, dutch, there's a proverb about this, that says when translated to English: "The truth comes out of a child's mouth".

What do you think about this?

In my honest opinion, if I'd see you walking on the street in real life, I'd probably laugh. But I have great respect for people that aren't like the 'norm' how most people are. I'm not too, but in another way. I don't know if I'll ever walk around the street with an outfit like yours...

I'm not really used to the look of a short and high boots, but this picture I found looks great.

http://www.denimology.com/2009/11/-Heidi_Montag_kettle-black-louis-vuitton-boots-jt-440.jpg

But please, keep up with what you're doing. It seems like you enjoy doing it, and I enjoy reading how it went!

I have heard on many places that designer high heels, especially Louboutins, are not really comfortable. He admitted in an interview that comfort is not important to him, he designs shoes to look good, not to feel good.

Are these the boots you're talking about?

http://img.diytrade.com/cdimg/986365/31225512/0/1354180753/Christian_louboutin_BOURGE_black_leather_knee_high_tall_Platform_Boots_Red_Sole.jpg

They look high indeed. I think walking in them would be allright, maybe with some practice, but you might not be able to wear them for a long time...

I found this video, maybe you've seen it already, maybe not, in the video you can see a woman walking and standing in them, it might help you.

What do you do at your job, Shafted? Do you actively work with other people?

Did you ever try an insta-date? You can meet a girl for the first time and within minutes literally be doing a date over dinner, wine, drinks. If next time you go to the vintage shop and get the girls number, text her literally while you are physically present with her. If you are standing in front of her, text something like, "Who's that guy with the movie star looks standing right in front of you?" (that always gets a laugh)

That's something I might actually try doing one time... It could work!

Another question, HighHeelLover86, do you have a wife or a partner? If you do, you might try to involve her in your 'evolution', she'd like it and might be able to help you out. If you are single, which is possible, a positive change of look might get you some ladies...

Any possible pictures of the shoes (or outfit)? When is the last time something new, a special event happened when heeling in public? It seems like it's just an ordinary business for you now.

If you're not willing to change your masculin look, I'd advice you go look for a pair of masulin-looking wedge sneakers. They exist, I own a pair and even if people might spot them and see that they're heeled, they will still fit in the outfit. The male stereotype is rooted deeply in our society, and is the logical result of testosterone and the hunt for women. Evolution made most women love "manly" men, that's why a female thing as heels might not seem to fit with our "normal" behavior. If you are willing to change your appearance, and buy some more stylish clothes, do it! It's all up to you if you decide to go on with comfort and your masculin look or for heels in public with a more stylish way of dressing.

His heels are higher than the girl's heels!

This pic makes me think of a Belgian act of that time, ''Nicole en Hugo'', 2 Belgian singers who completely failed when participating at the Eurovision Song Festival...

Them: Then and now

http://sites.zonien.be/chris_vandenabeele/jaren/fotos/nic-hugo.jpg

http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_XZ0GJO5OkIU/SKhDh4ITlcI/AAAAAAAAD64/5c9hDxQ-1bI/s400/nicole+hugo.bmp

Their outfit is still famous in Belgium today... Including Hugo's shoes.

Indeed nice shoes. How much did they cost?

I'm not really a fan of those extreme fashion outfits, you won't see me looking at catwalks, but he wears the heels nicely!

Surprised in a positive or negative way?

Hi,

Well i got them from a german store which also has an online shop... you probably could order them there.. they have it in different colors, depending on the size you need.

How were they called? I don't know how to search for that kind of shoes, as I can't put a name on them. They're not pumps, not ankle boots... What are they?

And how is the relation between your mother and your heels now, jetheelsfan? Any progress, or nothing but dead silence about the subject?

cgwm, those shoes look nice! I've been looking for a similar pair but I can't seem to find any in Belgian online stores...

There's a big chance I'll end up working in the alternative music industry, that seems like a more tolerating environnement to me! Good.

Looks good to me!

I'm not entirely sure what causes a high heel fetish. I have one myself, but it evolved in a very different way than yours. I'll try to explain it here, maybe it can help you and others to form a better opinion on hh fetish. From as early as I can remember, I had a very strange interest in heels. I actually had real negative feelings about them. I don't know why, but when I saw a woman in heels, including my mom (she didn't and still doesn't wear heels very often), I immediately thought about it as a bad thing, a sign that it was a bad person. Nevertheless, I took a lot of glances at heeled shoes. I still do. I remember how it continued this way until the age of around 13, when I slowly started thinking about heels in a more positive way, and by the age of 14 I completely enjoyed the idea and the look of women in high heels and loved looking at them, both in real life and on pictures, television... By that time, puberty and the first teenage ways of behavior came, and turned this interest into a strong fetish that is still in me now. 17 and a half years old, half a year ago, I decided that I wanted to have at least tried on heels once before I'd die. After some time of thinking about a way to do this, trying on heels in a shoe store was no option for me, I decided to buy a pair via internet and have it ordered to me. I got my first heels 4 months ago, and more pairs followed! I love the way heels feel, it's fun to wear them and walk in them, and of course the fetish still is present! So I think you could say that there's been a "hate-love" relation between me and high heels. I don't know how it started, but it did start anyway. My mother isn't really dominant and my father isn't absent at all. My mom rarely wore and wears heels, and never higher than 3 inches. Kind of boring for me at this time... I think that it might be meant to be, whether a guy develops at least an interest in high heels. Just like some women love heels and some don't, the men that do like heels don't get to wear them most of the times, but can still like seeing them. Further actions that might link high heels to sexual actions may cause a fetish, but I don't think anything like that has happened to me or you. I actually do not at all mind having this fetish. I'm sure you think about it this way too. It's nice, and we can enjoy heels whenever we see them! I have always found it good to be different, it keeps me from getting bored and disappearing in the common and boring normality of our society. What do you think about my story, cjveritas?

You seem to be really crazy about Nozomi, but I see why That outfit and the shoes look great!

Great boots. I really should buy some boots this fall, to wear outside!

Why would you not be able to upload pics to the gallery? And can't you just add the pictures to this topic?