heelslave Posted December 8, 2007 Posted December 8, 2007 Hello to all ( esp in the UK) I dont go for wearing them myself but high heels of all varieties have a hypnotic effect on me. I have never been able to pin-point why but If I am out and I see a lady I want to chat up ( Saturday night, not tesco's!) i will look at her shoes first and if they meet with my approval, then ker-ching!
iloveboots Posted December 8, 2007 Posted December 8, 2007 Hello and welcome Heelslave.....enjoy, you are in the right spot! cathy & david "Dress For Your Own Pleasure"
Dr. Shoe Posted December 8, 2007 Posted December 8, 2007 I'm the same when it comes to ladies in heels... she could be a total moose but if she's wearing a knockout pair of heels then I'm hers! I am a wearer as well though... Graduate footwear designer able to advise and assist on modification and shoe making projects.
Bubba136 Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 I am much the same way. I generally place women in two catagories. One, is her over physical appearance. The other is "is she wearing nice shoes?" And, go from there. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
Bubba136 Posted December 9, 2007 Posted December 9, 2007 Who's being shallow? To pin your attention given a femal on just one aspect isn't shallow? Of course, marshmallo feather heads aren't as "thought provoking" as well read, intelligent people....doesn't matter what gender they happen to be. But common man, I can't believe anyone closes their eyes and talks to the first person they bump into just so they can evaluate their brain power to evaluate their attractiveness before looking at them. I believe most men establish a "order of priority" for first seeing (meeting) evaluations. Sight being, perhaps, the initial attention getter (hmm, you might put hearing as a close second). I don't close my eyse and go up to a person just to find out what's in their head. Of course I'm not being serious, but, hey -- common man -- shallow? Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public.
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