Unsolicited Compliments

[Magickman]

Time after time, when I am out in public, women, usually young ones, stop me to offer compliments about my high heel boots. Normally, I just say "Thank you," and go on with my business. Now, I am rethinking this. Are these merely women who like attractive heeled footwear, or are they wanting to use me sexually?

[crotchboots-m]

i would say go for it. ive had sex with 4 different women in the past 10 years while wearing my boots in public. or,shall i say,ive had sex as a result of my wearing them in public....strike up a conversation,see where it goes...

[iloveboots]

My experience has been likewise, lots of really positive comments from women. I have also had many conversations with women who have offered opinions including a few fashion designers. The common thread I have heard from these Lady's is, "it is really cool to see a man express a sense for fashion that is outside the norm; is risky; is provocative; is more than just jeans and sneakers; is on the leading edge; shows confidence in himself; etc. What we wear or a freestyle of fashion that we choose to express says a lot about who we are, it shows a confidence that many women enjoy. That is why i always project a fashion sense that says "dress for your own pleasure" because when you do it will show the real you and that is what women are truly looking for. david

[Magickman]

Tonight, at the gas station, the young Asian girl at the cash register looked at me, and said, " I love your nails. They are so cool."

[JeffB]

My experience has been likewise, lots of really positive comments from women. I have also had many conversations with women who have offered opinions including a few fashion designers. The common thread I have heard from these Lady's is, "it is really cool to see a man express a sense for fashion that is outside the norm; is risky; is provocative; is more than just jeans and sneakers; is on the leading edge; shows confidence in himself; etc. What we wear or a freestyle of fashion that we choose to express says a lot about who we are, it shows a confidence that many women enjoy. That is why i always project a fashion sense that says "dress for your own pleasure" because when you do it will show the real you and that is what women are truly looking for.

david

I agree fully with what you said. I also think what we do shows that we're not afraid to break away from convention, from what society calls "normal" and express our own special sense of style, that we refuse to be like the rest of the sheep. So what if it's risky and provocative, it's what we love, what we enjoy, and that's more than good enough for me!