thighbootlvr Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 So my I mentioned my fetish for womens boots to my wife about year ago. Then it came up again recently when I stilll want to be able to wear boots and I want some of my own. I have shown her pictures of boots that we can wear together in the house and bedroom. She has been a little more open minded, but ready for it yet. BUT, she has allowed to indulge in other fetish and that is wearing thong panties which I own 4 pairs; 2 she gave me to wear. We have not got the boot wearing yet. Still working on. I hint at it every so often. So I sent her a picture of a pair boots at Target that I liked. Then we were at Target and I showed them to her and she said that she did not like them. I said that I did not mean them for her but for me. She said that she would not like them on me, but her response was calm and controlled. She did not seem upset. Its sounds like she is willing to at least give it a chance. What do you think? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crotchboots-m Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 dont push too hard too fast....women are famous for changing their minds without warning or apparent provocation....i speak from experience...having been married for 22 yrs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vector Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 Go slow. Let her lead. Also, be warned, she may never be as accepting a you'd like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dr1819 Posted June 4, 2006 Share Posted June 4, 2006 Yeah, and the "calm and controlled" bit usually means she's aware of your desires, and though while not willing to outright quash them, she's unapproving at this time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted June 16, 2006 Share Posted June 16, 2006 Good advice from all. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyguy Posted June 16, 2006 Share Posted June 16, 2006 Then we were at Target and I showed them to her and she said that she did not like them. I said that I did not mean them for her but for me. She said that she would not like them on me, but her response was calm and controlled. She did not seem upset. Its sounds like she is willing to at least give it a chance. What do you think? I think the fact you were out in public may mean she didn't want to cause a scene, so deliberately controlled herself. She may have been upset, but realised she would only draw more attention to herself if she did show it there and then. I have been wrong before though, and these are just my own opinions as someone who doesn't know anything about your SO, only you would know for sure what to think. He was so narrow minded he could see through a keyhole with both eyes. Brown's Law: If the shoe fits, it's ugly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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