Fog

It's what might expect young boys to do in their mother's/sister's/aunt's cupboards. I must admit I did it with my ex-wife's shoes. We'd only been together a short time, when I discovered I could get into hers. She banned me from wearing them, my legs looked better than hers. That combined with the fairly strict born-again christianity we both espoused made it a complete no-no. I must say life's much, much better now! I've got a wonderful woman - who loves me dressing up, and I've thrown of the rules and regulations that prevented that little bit of dressing up fun.

I was thinking of posting on the thread to bring it to the top, but it sort of had gone off topic to a discussion about chili restaurants and recipies, not that there's anything wrong with that. Some of these old threads are a useful source of people's experiences and are well worth a look.

Welsh Whisky has been around for a while - it's the sort of thing that makes the local news on telly when they've got a quiet day. I've never tried it, I suppose I should. Has anyone tried Australian single malt. I saw some in a supermarket in Agen (France) just before Christmas. I didn't buy it, it was €43, which seemed expensive when you could get aberlour for €20.

I think it's harmless fun rummaging through a girl's closet, looking for heels to try on! It's not like he's going through her personal information, purse looking for money, or jewelry. It's just shoes/boots. It's no big deal, and like was said in this topic, creates such a high heart rate. It's exhillerating!

Like i said before, I'd love to be a telephone repairman, cable guy, butler, or even a person in charge of a lost-and-found at a hotel. I don't care, ANYWHERE where i have access to a woman's shoes/boots and purse. I would never take any money from her purse, or credit cards, or anything! I just have a purse fetish, a very big one.

But don't you think that's abusive? It's one thing to keep it as a fantasy, another to consider doing it. Perhaps it's easier for me to say, anything in my partners wardrobe is available for me, as long as I don't stretch it.

Well this is the dilemma. I hate censorship, but this site is special and it's not like one of the thousands of porn orientated sites on the web. I for one want to keep it that way. It is a shame when anyone leaves, Sexyplatforms did add a bit of colour - and the rest has already been said. Now here's a thought about the way we use words. Adult on the internet is synonomous with porn. That's a shame. You get warnings, this site contains Adult Content; what they mean is this site contains Porn. Separating out the two is probably easier said than done.

There was a long running thread on this topic and also the good times which ran to 218 replies.

http://www.hhplace.org/discuss/guys/1508-worst_best_reactions_guys_public_heel_wearing.html?highlight=best+worst+reactions#post30170

I posted my experiences there - including one stupid incident in Croydon.

http://www.hhplace.org/discuss/guys/1508-worst_best_reactions_guys_public_heel_wearing-12.html?highlight=croydon#post66829

Reflecting on this story. It say's a lot more about him than me. He asked me three questions.

Are you gay?

Are you a drag queen?

Are you wearing a thong?

I answered no to all of them, one of them was a lie!

Since then I've got a lot bolder. I bought the boots in my avatar in Croydon and decided I couldn't spend £50 on them if I wasn't prepared to walk out of the shop wearing them. So I did with no problems. Virtually nobody noticed - I noticed a few men looking at me with complete envy. They wished they could do it.

I've never bought from Leatherworks. These were from one of the shops on the High Street. It looked as if they were selling off all their thigh high boots. I didn't expect to get leather for what I had to spend - I was shopping for a pair of pvc stretch boots - preferably with a silver heel.

This is a question I've pondered often when reading posts here. I read the post, look at the avatar and wonder is that a picture of the poster.

So is your avatar really you?

Why did you choose that picture?

and

If your avatar is an image of someone else, why?

BTW mine is me - it's a bit of an odd photo, but I just like that veiw of the heel. Shame about the chair leg.

I've been meaning to change my avatar for a while. I've got rid of the chair leg now. Put my very favourite boots in its place.

Hiya,

Funny enough, I work in Faith in Kingston. Wimbledon is our neighbour store and I love them there!! Lovely people!

Havent had any guys trying on heels in my store. only myself, behind the scenes!!

X

Hi Richard, I might just have to go shopping in Kingston! I don't get to Wimbledon so often since I moved to Sussex, but go to the Oxford Street and Brighton branches quite often.

By the way WELCOME to the forum. Working in Faith sounds like a dream job.

Well it is a bit scary that there are people out there (and on this forum) who fantasize about getting jobs where they can rifle through women's stuff. I personalised it a bit and thought how violatad my partner would feel by some stranger looking through her things and trying them on. NB, going through her things and trying them on is my privaledge and mine alone. It would take a very little man to get into her size 5 uk shoes though.

I have a fantasy of being a telephone repairman, or a cable guy, and having access to a woman's bedroom. Then i'd make a b-line to her closet, hoping i'd strike it rich! Since i also have a purse fetish, i'd be in purse and shoe heaven!

You'd better not come to my house! AND don't even think of trying on Mrs. F's shoes if you don't mind. As he rushes back to the Guns thread! I'm going to keep a close eye on any repair men from now on.

Yes they're a very nice pair of boots. Where did you get them? They look remarkably similar to a pair I've got, which I bought in Camden for £50. I thought it was quite a bargain - for Camden anyway.

I've been out up to Oxford Street and the Kings Road in them and not had too much bother. I walked past our Director of Marketing in Westminster LUL Station - probably a bit near the office! So there should be no problem as long as you can walk in them and you've got enough neck. I prefer a slightly lower heel though. I'm not as flexible as I was when I was young.

I shouldn't worry about lack of comments. It's nice to get them, but if you don't it doesn't matter that much. I must admit, I've had the same sort of worries when I've posted pictures of myself and then there's been total silence - for weeks!

Now the challenge for you is to believe it! Hey - why don't you book a flight and come to the heel meet. Ok - don't do it if you can't get the time or if it's going to really, really make you poor. But it will be a great weekend, and you'll get to meet some of the other people on the site.

Get rid of her, she using you and she knows you are whiped.

Absolutely! You've got nothing to gain there. It's easy for us to say.

A few years ago when I was single and hadn't got the confidence that I have now I quipped to my work colleagues "perhaps I'll get lucky tonight". A fifty year old man who was dating a succession of twenty-five year olds took me to task and said. Don't ever say that, Don't say you're going to get lucky! The truth is someone might get lucky with you.

You've got to believe that. ASDF How are we going to shake that into your head.

Dump her!

I don't know. If someone introduced me as an intelligent Welsh man - as if that was a wonder in itself I don't think it would go down too well. But if you can't see what all the fuss is about you can't see it.

I didn't notice this had come back to the top a couple of times. My pet hate is cars creeping up behind you and then turning left across your path (that's right for you guys in the states). They just expect you to stop dead, which you can't do if you're doing around 20. I've tried to explain to a couple of them that they just wouldn't overtake a car and when half way through the manouvre then cut across it.

I've also tried and failed to put pictures into the gallery. I put it down to my luddite incompetence.

Who knows - I have logged on as myself a couple of times at work. My boss gets a list of all web sites we look at. In the summer he said he didn't look at it, and added, what do I care if you check the cricket score from time to time, I know you all work hard. I have heard some heel jokes - but it could be co-incidence, so I've ignored them. I do know that my employer is liberal enough not to bat an eyelid. I might get a bit of piss taking, but I think that would be the end of it. Actually I don't think I've said anything too out of the way in my defence of the health service for anyone to get upset about.

I. I dont believe much about the street heeling stories that are posted here. Oh sure they wear womens shoes with a 1" heel under jeans that cover them but what about the real high heels that click like hell on the side walks and the hard floors. Who really wears em on the streets?.,,,larry.

Hi Larry, you don't have to believe anything you read, and if you haven't met any of the guys posting here, why should you. The chance of seeing a guy wearing heels is very slim. I've seen three guys in the last six months or so. One was a totally androgynous young guy - and the other two are described above.

Regarding PC language, I agree with you Puffer - but who know's my boss might be reading this! You can't be too careful you know.

As a matter of interest rather than rebuke, Fog, as you are clearly referring to a male, why do you then refer to him as 'them' and 'they'? Personally, I find the use of plural pronouns (rather than 'him' etc - or even 'her'!) to refer to a singular person rather irritating , although I fully understand that some people do so to avoid being regarded as 'sexist' or 'non-PC. But, in this case, it was an unnecessary precaution - force of habit, perhaps?

I'm not sure what to say, there certainly wasn't any intent, either to be PC - or to take the piss out of PC terminology. Obviously in work I have to watch my language. I can't talk about somwhere being "manned" when it's "staffed", probably a lot of this does rub off. So, sorry to offend.

There is a lot of PC nonsense floating around. I once heard a presentation about correct use of language - all the stuff about not referring to groups of people, eg indians, or using the definite article for groups like "the disabled" only to be greatly amused by the words "The Irish" on one of the slides. The Irish are an E&I target group, but obviously one that the presenter wasn't really interested in. It was great fun to stick up my hand and point it out.

I'd better stop now - we're way off topic.

Funnily enough - I saw a guy wearing 2" cuban heels today on Victoria Street. They were chelsea boots - I was beginning to think that's one heeled guy a week! (Even if it's only the past two weeks.)

Jonnieheels - your so right. I've got a tiny little telly - with only the four free channels on it. I watch it about once a month. I was sick last week and watched programmes about hapless people trying to sell junk in their garden and so on. And then big brother, watching a load of people sit in a house bitching at each other. I don't know how people find time to watch it. I hate it on as background - and I suppose that stemmed from my time as an ambulance man, where the telly would be on constantly in the station when we weren't out on a job. I'm lucky in that Mrs F feels exactly the same as me about it. I didn't have a telly for about a year, I left mine at a friend's house so I wouldn't have to pay the license. Now that was a job persuading the TV License people that I didn't have one. They eventually left me alone - after about six months of me inviting them to search my house.

I used to be a UK12 but now I'm a 14 so she had my smaller 12s that she's taken in etc.

That's the way of all flesh I'm afraid - It's surprising how sizes vary, in some shops I'm a 12 others I'm a 14.

Happy Feat, great story, you obviously presented a confident image - so different from the macho shitheads that AB&C usually meet.

Hi Arron, It's hard, breaking up. And, it's somthing that will happen again, and again. But it gets easier. I stayed with my wife for 21 years until she left me. That took about nine months to get over, until I realised that I was better off on my own. She started divorce proceedings when I told her that I'd rather be on my own for the rest of my life than be with her. That was the honest truth, because I'd realied life was better on my own. From what you've said, you're better off without her. Things may look bleak at the moment, but you're on a journey. Look at where you've come from and take heart. Everyone's said it and it's true, there are plenty more fish in the sea. You seem a very decent guy. Don't undersell yourself. Next time - and it will take some confidence, you make the first move. If things get dodgy, you do the saying goodbye. That's what I should have done in my marriage, but I was too scared of being on my own. It took me until I was forty to learn that there was nothing wrong with me - and that if I lost one woman there were plenty more. I - like lots of the guys here are rooting for you. F