Cl0setheels

I've bought a new pair today. I've only got a webpic at the moment but i'll take some 'for real' pics soon. They are very comfy! And the heel feels higher than they look.

Second thread about this article?

http://www.hhplace.org/guys/16110-men_sex_up_high_heels.html

Good development though! The media giving attention to the topic is great!

@Wolf Great heels! I have a pair like those in red.

Also a lot of Louboutin's in the series

Enjoyed the day with my two best friends at a mall in the neighbouring county.

Day started off at breakfast where the waitress wanted to know where I got my shoes of course an odd glance once in awhile, nothing to pay much heed too.

At the mall ended up looking at some Iron Fist Heels in Hot Topic, found a sweet pair called "Zombies" too bad they were out of 10's the day went pretty well went without hitch no one really cared, except for one moron that decided to call me a fag as I walked by him.

Kinda funny coming from someone that really dressed like a bum during the dark ages and carrying a VS bag

What a shame! I really love those ironfist heels! They are perfect i'm trying to find a pair aswell. The purple/silver ones.

The heel of the Delight is a little 'thicker' at the top and thats what i like better, the overall shape is more round. As for the clear part, it is quite stiff. I have a pair fully clear and the do need quite some time before the clear top becomes flexible. Temperature is also a big influence.

Well I managed to get a bit of free time for myself today, totally unexpected, so went down to my favourite "shop" in the village here, and got the Red Shoes I had on order. I just did not believe the shade of RED they are. I promised you that I would post when I got them. Here they are from www.niccishoes.com They ship anywhere. Have all of their stock on ebay, or their own site.

Here they are.

Great heels!

The Delight is my fav series. I like the shape of the heel better than with the Kiss series. I've got four pair of Pleaser Delight and love them. They are great in my opinion!

pictures of just shoes or pictures of just shoes on feet.

This doesn't make a lot of sense to me though, since there are loads of pics like that on the forums. Or are you talking about just the galleries?

Hoi Slides 'n Heels I've got quite some shoes of Van Haren and have no problems with them being uncomfortable. But that differs per person ofcourse. Great to see that there are joining more dutch members here!

Welcome on the forum. You've crossed a "dangerous" () line, once you start to shop, you have 40 pairs of heels before you know it At least, thats how it went for me. Good to see more dutch members joining here. :-) And shops like schoenenreus carry up to 42 in womens shoes so you could have a look there. I've got three great pairs there. And some shoes of Van Haren are a little larger than the 41 they are rated.

2,3,4 and 5 are great! I especially love pair 2!

I'm spamming in here but i got another pair, it's sort of a cross post but i do think they belong here. Just got a pair of ankle booties of the same sneaker pumps from Sacha i already had! Just love them!

Pics here:

http://www.hhplace.org/231321-post2107.html

And yesterday i received another pair (A) They are the same as the pumps i'm wearing in my avatar, but it's the ankle boot version of them.

Great collection! I especially like the 2nd and 4d pair of the second row. :-) And the white platforms ofcourse!

You've got some valid points there. But i think they 'why' is very complicated and is different for everyone. I think this thread has potential and i hope it's not going to evolve into a fight so i'll answer seriously. Why do we want to be accepted by society? Well, I guess everyone wants to comfortable with what they do. And for some people this comes natural and they just go their way. Others have to feel accepted and understood. They need this to feel normal. And (here comes the judging the mass ) in a way society can be very harsh in things that are different. Allthough you are right that this is pre-judgemental. I don't say this is true for everyone and as this is a complex question, it's what i think and not the absolute truth. It is how i see things and how i experience things myself. It probably also has to do with insecurity, allthough i can only speak for myself. I am an insecure person and my love for heels is part of what made it worse. I've had some form of 'therapy' (not cause of my heels thing, and i won't bother you with the details) and we talked about a lot but even then i couldn't get to bringing up my love for high heels. I think i was (and somehow still are) ashamed of it. I came very close to it a lot of times but never said it out loud. Why? Because it makes me feel different from others and it's not as society expects from men. This help didn't change the things that i thought where 'wrong' with me, but made me realise them, accept them or help me find a way to deal with them. This made me more honest about myself to myself which resulted in more acceptance of my high heels thing. Things changed a lot more when a female friend of mine kept picking my mind until she knew my secret. And she said to me she was dissapointed..... dissapointed because it wasn't something more shocking. She's different and that makes her great. We talked about it a lot and that really helped me. A short while before i told her about my love vor high heels she told me she had bought some red pumps. When she showed me a picture it where the exact same pumps i ordered that same day. We had quite a laugh about this afterwards and she said i could wear them together with her when we would meet if i would wear them proud. They now are reffered to as "our DM's" (they are made by Docter Martens). After she knew i also let two other female friends into my secret. And they all reacted positive. One even lets me wear heels at ther house and goes shopping with me. The others wouldn't mind either probably but it never came to it. Finding sites like this was also very helpful. Knowing there are more people like me. The last year has changed a lot and i went from being very secret about it and no-one knowing about it to having the guts to shop for heels by myself. I am currently at the point that i'd like to 'come out'. I am taking more risks, don't hide my shoes as well as i did before when my parents or friends visit. But to answer your 'why the approval': For me it is to feel more self conscious about wearing heels. Not having to feel different or weird or insecure. Just being myself and feeling comfortable while wearing what i love. And for the bigger part, if not all, i have to make that happen myself.

It's very subtle! It looks good! The heels also look good on you!

Great heels! And thanks for sharing!

Can't wait to see more members their collections!

I've got plans of going to the UK, but won't be anytime soon i'm afraid. Love to go on vacation there. London must be pretty dangerous for ppl like us. Lots of great shoestores i guess.

I'm fresh out of school and working for five months now so i don't have the cash flow to do so i'm afraid And especially if i keep buying heels at the rate i'm doing at the moment.

Is this chatroom still being used? And sorry for the kick in a very old topic. Would be nice to finally find an active chatroom.

Indeed, i'm pretty bummed out about it. They are perfect length-wise and the width is perfect as wel, but the angle of the top of my foot (from toes to ankle) is to steep so i can't close the zipper.

Welcome here. Great store! I wouldn't be done with trying 20 pairs if i see the amount of shoes in the store

Very recognizable. About a year ago it was all a big secret and only a handful of ppl online knew i'd like to wear heels. In my case it has progressed exactly like it did with you. I've got three female friends who know, and one of them lets me wear heels at her house. :-) The other two probably would let me aswell, but it never came up. :-) The shopping part i also recognize. Allthough i also tried shoes on in a store with a fitting room. Allthough i did get busted by the sales ladies. The where very friendly so that gave me more confidence and i didn't mind they noticed. All the more reason to come back to their store. :-) It's very good you don't feel strange about it anymore! :-)