HappyinHeels

The thought occurred to me of a new definition for the word chasm. That would be the difference between the retail price of the garments displayed and the cost of their manufacture in the country of origin.I would bet the models struggle to live on the wage they're paid whilst the designer is bathing in money. Same old song! HinH

Yes, I find both of those above to be true as they relate to the millenial generation. Very aware of tech and social stuff but also naive as to how the world tends to actually work as opposed to the what they may have heard inside the university bubble. This generation is undoubtedly the most open-minded as it relates to things like men in heels though. HinH

I wouldn't wonder too much Jeff as these runway models live in an exclusive bubble far away from the unwashed masses having to shop at Kmart or other budget stores. We'll never run into them, know how much their clothes cost, or have a conversation with them. The images of heels on men are the only interesting thing here. HinH

Whilst I don't recall suffering any pain after wearing heels I admit there are some heels of mine which don't feel quite as cumfy at home as they did in the store. These are the ones I'll wear when trying this taping method. I'm always up for learning different techniques. Thanks for posting this information which I'm sure will greatly help some of our members. HinH

Doing enjoyable things and being supportive of one another in the process. Now that's a recipe we can all savour.  Well done hh_pe! HinH

Try not to dwell too much on the idea of being "caught" which infers you were in the act of a crime or some immoral activity. Neither of those was the case! Glad to hear it turned out well. HinH

Whilst I was not aware of the political leanings of the Mail, Telegraph, and Times I nevertheless am aware of the focus of surveys of journalism students at such places as Columbia University in NYC. When asked as to their principal reason for pursuing journalism a plurality of respondents said it was to change the world. It would seem activism infused with emotion is more important than investigating and fact-checking and source vetting. This certainly is the case with that pernicious social media engine. It is undeniable the left-of-centre slant in corporate journalism these days. When I look at the fantastic spread of gay parades around the world I wonder how it happened until I realise the media got behind an international agenda to push. Equality is important but equality in journalistic expression is also important especially when one says they are doing a "public service". HinH

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hiddenheels,

You've received some good advice here but that's the purpose of a site like this one. I think each of us has gone through some sort of mental process to figure it out until many of us realised we weren't doing anything wrong and just decided to "get on with it" as many would say in the U.K. Get on with enjoying your life and not limiting yourself by artificial restraints. I bought my first heels in 1978 in a Kresge store going out of business and have been buying heels nearly exclusively in-person at store like Macys, Nordstrom Rack, Bakers (when it was around) , Aldo, and Charlotte Russe since 2009 and have never had a bad reaction. Over time I started wearing heels into these same stores and got better service than ever. The visual of a man in heels sends a message that the world needs to reckon with you on your terms. This is the essence of enjoying life while you have the health, imagination, and money to do it. What fuels your ability to walk out that door and demand to be counted is confidence. Experience is gathered over a period of time by living and doing. Knowledge is gathered by living, doing, and learning and confidence is fusing all of this together to achieve your goals. It's an equation really; Experience=Knowledge, Knowledge = Confidence, and Confidence = Success. Success cannot be achieved without any of these prior ingredients. You have the desire and the creativity but just need to light the torch and ignite your confidence. Human beings with abundant confidence are virtual blast furnaces of energy and optimism and they invariably inspire others to do the same. I have met some of our members so I know it's true. I hope this is helpful for you. You're in the right place my friend. HappyinHeels

I'll carry a handbag if I need to which tends to match my wedges, boots, or pumps that I'm wearing that day. HinH

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mlroseplant,

During my government career I was told a "SME" was a Subject Matter Expert but I always used this acronym as Simple Midwestern Engineering. I find so many situations can be figured out by simply collaborating with others around you. I'll look forward to some basement photos of your quartet. HinH

Heelster,

Have a safe trip around Michigan. If you are close to it perhaps pay a visit to Janet's Closet in Wyandotte, MI on Fort Street. You may find something interesting/sexy there. Wear heels right into the shop. I've been three times now. It's an idea. HinH

Her name is Galina Koutereva. I learned Russian a long time ago in California as I was a linguist in a past life. She basically doesn't feel the cold like most people and just dresses the way she wants. If one think about it so many people don't necessarily dress the way they want irrespective of temperature rather they parrot what they see around them. Most people who live where it snows regularly or even occasionally may well feel a chill in short sleeves at 50F/10C but not ALL of them. I have walked barefoot in the snow many times but this may be due to some First Nations blood, ties to Canada, or just my individual chemistry. Closing in on 60 years of age I have no more sensibility to cold now than I had in my 20's. I think that may be this woman's case. Paradoxically I tolerate very high temperatures as well. I did some painting earlier this year at my wife's family home in Mexicali as the temperature reached 115F/45C in the shade wearing only a moistened bandana in addition to regular pants and a tee shirt. Galina's resistance to the cold may well be a news story but it is just normal for her. That's my view. HappyinHeels

I admire Cali's spirit of asking someone to do, as one Milwaukee area radio personality puts it, "commit a flagrant act of journalism" but also realise what Shyheels states such an article about straight men in heels would probably not fit the current narrative. Journalism in its current form has devolved into so much group think heavily slanted toward left-wing liberal thinking and skewed against straight, white, conservative men in so many countries. Women, blacks, Hispanics, Asians, and others are highlighted in their biased articles to the exclusion of some actually interesting stories. I wonder how many journalists would actually make it if they had to work in a truly independent world free of editorial staff wearing the same rose-colored glasses. As Chorlini puts it what we have here is the same tired journalism advancing lgbt issues or man in heels = gay. How nice and myopic. Years ago one could actually learn things by being exposed to different points of view but this is a rarity now in the age of group think and corporate journalism. It's more important than ever to seek out different outlets to get a more balanced view. Ultimately it is up to us to individually do our own thing and get out into the world in heels. Dare them to cover us. Life happily first and if they cover us it's fine. If not it's their loss. Quit watching and start living with active participation and that'll make a difference. HappyinHeels  

H O L Y

mlroseplant,

After looking at the photo of you and your son playing I thought you could either cross your ankles as your son did OR make the chair slightly higher so your legs aren't apart. Either of these should change your posture to your satisfaction. HinH

I think this is where invoking some history is in order. Some 500 years ago high heels were conceived by men for use by men. It wasn't until much later that women starting using them along with men until men discontinued wearing them except for about 8 years in the 1970's. Since it is most likely the most ignorant to shoot off their mouth then some ready education is usually the best method at quelling the static. There is something disarming about a ready-to-go  and informed response especially if the perpetrator has no clue about it. Those who continue to give static may ultimately be dealt with in other ways. Remember your son already said, in my presence, that he sees how much joy it gives you so he has already thought about it. He's very observant and quite articulate. Two qualities which should serve him very well in life. HappyinHeels

Cali,

Great story Cali! I have a pair of JS sandals with a chunkier heel which make a distinct sound on pavement as the bottoms are wood. They are featured in my album. I never tire reading your experiences. Keep striding and writing my friend HappyinHeels

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No Cali I didn't even look at it. I figured the whole thing as tongue-in-cheek variety of fun. I remember some years ago I had a bunch of people over and some wanted to see my can collection in the basement. Got some questions from some when my certificates, letters, awards, and medals were noticed partially under a sheet on another wall by two file cabinets. "Why hidden away down here?" I said why not they were only there so my family could see them. Never was one for personal recognition and yet I enjoyed bestowing honours upon those I supervised or otherwise associated with over the years. Like one friend says, "you have a licence plate saying "Salutes Veterans" even though you are one. Sure I say I already know that and that is enough. My word is my currency and my deeds are my awards. It has worked well for me so far.  HappyinHeels

Cali,

That offer is classic!

SF,

Does my Orange County friend need a certificate to make the day go better?? Does this make you a "touchy + heely" guy??? I think the ultimate "certificate" of heel love would be a tattoo of your favourite style on an arm or leg. Now that would leave no doubt where you stand.....on your heels. HappyinHeels

I R A N

Ah yes, I do know this kid. My view is if his current interest in heels comes anywhere close to that of general mechanics then the kid will become as fond of them as you. Small engines under repair in the garage and heels under the clothes in the closet. He is gifted in mechanics and I think this interest in heels may be curiosity at a very impressionable age as a result of seeing how much joy it gives you. It may pass or not but I doubt it will go away completely. Remember he's seen at least two dudes in heels now so there's a certain legitimacy to him. That's my take. I hope that helps. HinH 

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