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Hello from one saffer to another .. though i was the only one in SA who had a thing for heels

Hi, Fellow Saffer heeler but not resident so wondering if i can still join the group.

Thats good to hear - now we just need to get men in heels a little more main stream so we can venture out without being 'bliksemed'. Think girls would be a lot more accepting but its still tough - cultural thing. I believe there are some gr8 clubs that cater to us but have never been, have you?

Yep - a small challenge but something we can aspire to

Hi, noticed that youre also a member of South African Heelers group so thought id drop you a line and say hi

Hi From one saffer to another .. albeit from the mud island. There is a group called South African heelers if youre interested

"It is so funny, moffies are too conservative and heelers are to scarred." :-D LOL I know exactly what you mean! Reason I asked is I have a mate who reckons theres a couple clubs in JHB and DBN that cater to us (and the gay community - probably more so) and that hes never seen / had any hassles! Thats said he is a screaming queen who doesnt quite fit into any mould! Anyway, like you I'm simply too much of a bangbroek to even contemplate it and now that Im married and knowing her attitude doubt i could contemplate it. Youre v lucky to have an understanding SO - who knows maybe mine will come around when she gets her head aroundthe fact that I'm not going over to the other side and never will. She's not really into HH's herself so that probaly explains a lot but i can live in hope. Take it easy

Our experinces sound so simialr its scary .. me feeling guilty and her not really understanding - even though she says she does. Managed to at least get her to understand that I will not go over to the other side just because i like heels and I am not trying to steal her feminity etc but we dont talk about it. She certainly doesnt it recommend them to me :-( Look forward to the day whre we can have fun with it like you and your SO - a heel off would be great .... she would lose!! Living in the UK at the moment - although I occassionaly get home on business -, still have a house in Centurion which is rented out. We are thinking about heading home in the next couple of years and will probably head to the coast. Both getting tired of the constant wet - feeting are starting to grow webs

Just thought that I'd drop you a line and say what a cracking pic you use for your avatar!

Hi, just though i'd drop you a line and say hi. We may be in the minority but as SA heelers, we should chat occassionally. There is a group of us that you can join - you'll find the link in my profile. Its a bit slow b ut feel free to to add and spice it up

Hey, just thought I'd drop you line and find out how youre doing - been very quiet of late

Guildwars?! A game I am assuming. Is in an online game or playstation type. Not big into games - never seem to get the time to even try and when I do, theres invfariably a list of other shit that needs doing. Do like Golf thoughbut .. once again dont get much time to. Also find the green keepers dont like heels on the greens :-) LOL.

Hi Little Gem - just a quick line to say that your husbands fotos are great. he's very lucky to have such as understanding wife who supports his him. Then again I think he already knows that :-) Speaking for myself - my wife still hasnt come around to the idea and thinks that it will somehow reflect on my sexuality - oh well, we can but live in hope

Hi - Just read you comment in the 'wearing heels secret' discussion and thought that I'd drop by and say Hi to a fellow Saffa. Like you, i dread the day my wife actually goes looking for something .. already had to stop using tool box but now she hucking me to get rid of the extra suitcases we have! No way love, we MAY need those one day is my standard reply at the moment but have to find another hiding spot soon. :-)

Hey Peeptoeheel, saw message on the board - whats up?

Hey legzG - whats up. Noticed that you'd been very quiet the last couple of months and was wondering how you are doing? Drop us a line when you have a chance

HI Spiker, Been meaning to ask you were you got the heels that you posted a pic of in the mens legs vs womans legs thread - they are fantastic. Thanks PS

Thanks Spiker - found them on amazon for $50

Hey TL, hope that all is well and life is being good to you. Left you a link on the group page for ballet heels

HI Trev - notice that you are a fellow Saffer. Just want to congratulate you on your adventure which ir ead about on the boards earlier. Fantastic to hear of someone getting out and about proudly. Why dont you join the South Heelers group where you'll find a whole lot more of us - you arent alone

Hi, just popping by to invite you to South African heelers group

Just seen that you joined the group - welcome. I can assure you you wont be an outcast here.

Hey Jay Jay - always good to see another saffer join the group. Why not pop on over and join the group SA Heelers.

Hey Jay Jay, got your messages. Dont worry, we'll get you into this pretty quick. To join the group, click on groups and search for SA Heelers - you'll then see a link to join, click that and then wait. If I remember correctly your application has to be approved by they are pretty quick. Rocky was also my first time out in heels - except it was to a company do - scared the hell out of my colleagues

Thanks - took me ages to find it. Only a couple more posts then you can post your own