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  1. Out Friday after work for dinner drinks and shopping. Nothing but compliments !!!

    Michael Kohrs dress and boots

    Blanc Noir jacket

    Wolford bodysuit  

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    1. MackyHeels

      MackyHeels

      Bold Belk?layer=comp&src=1803007_MF78WND5ZV_Afeminine outfit with knee high stiletto boots.

       

      Bodysuit acts much like corset making everything sucked in biggest problem for woman and males wearing such body fitting outfits. 

      Do tell some comments you heard being spoken directly indirectly.

      Have to asks no pantyhose for the legs? 

      Great job much better man than me.

       

       

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  2. Cinch it dress from my favourite brand lululemon. Came out in March of 2018

    Thought to add some pictures. Very comfortable Pima cotton dress.  Crinkle with draw string seen in picture to tighten along the hem and entire one side. 

     

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    1. MackyHeels

      MackyHeels

      The dress can be worn short or like my first picture shows with a longer length. 

      Added link to the dress. It came with black, black cherry, gray colours. 

      https://www.lulufanatics.com/item/37728/lululemon-cinch-it-dress-black-cherry

      As for the heels wish they are smaller. Can’t walk in them properly or my foot falls out. Need to get some black Napa leather ones with 5 inch stiletto like you see me wearing. 

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  3. Latest mall experience shopping for new booties and few odds and ends.

    Decided to wear my camel suede booties to the mall outfitted with my suede brown moto jacket and paige verdugo blue wash skinny jeans. Felt good with my outfit casual but fun with the heel booties. Decided to go uptown to a large mall to buy some matching booties heels from Vince Camuto from Nordstroms yet still had to return few items at another boutique store nearby. 

    As i got off the underground parking lot elevator onto the mall main level seen lot of eyes were directed upon me or should i say my outfit. people passing through as i began to get my bearing in which direction i should walk in. Soon i found a interactive digital map of the mall and locations of the stores. There was asian family with little kids blocking the map while many others were looking upon the location there are on the map. As i was letting the asian family through lot of people began to crowd around. Heard a female voice standing next to my ear or little to my right behind me. She voiced out, "that's Gross!" then softer male voice mumbling incoherently something to the effect to her " check out his boots", the same female voice responded " I Know!" with slight dred. I sort of knew they were talking about me, but i didn't bother turning my head seeing who it might be. Thought to myself no laughter, or giggles that's always good sign, my outfit appears fashionable yet the narrow minded attitude i overheard isn't someone i care to even recognize or care about.

    Although the negative comment i overheard nagged me for quite awhile trying to fight off those thoughts. As i found few shops i bought some workout clothes without any avail by the Sales ladies or happy smiling  eager, enthusiastic, cashier although bit jittery. Although did notice some customers walking out of the store look me over one person started to comment but the other lady she was with began to sush them from saying anything and move them onward. As i went to H&M standing in line i read a message about equality seeing it was Women's day earlier in the week. Sign read something to the effect we will never be in equal footing until we all have same rights around the world. Ironic message seems woman got to look at themselves in the mirror first before they want to change the stigmas of inequality amongst themselves. Yet they don't seem to have the stomach to accept a fellow like myself wanting to dress femininely observing some females reactions onto me. 

    When i finally got to Nordstroms in there ladies vast large footwear section  i could hardly find the brand of booties i was looking for. Wasn't very busy for Sunday late afternoon seen many SA looking upon me but nobody, i mean nobody, wanted to help me. I passed by few SA they began to look the other way, as  i approached  picking up different shoes. them acting busy adjusting placement of  heels on the display picking up scrap piece of paper etc..  I sort of felt discriminated from the SA seeing i was assuradly looking for something but lost to find it.

    Then i decided backtrack the entire shoe section and ask one of the young Sales ladies. Felt as i was using this as way to hit on some sales girls feeling awkward approaching her maybe she was thinking the same thing. Again she acted polite with phony smile but i could tell she didn't admire my outfit certainly the booties i was wearing. She told me the brand of booties are no longer in stock being Spring collection is on display now... Duh! i thought to myself.  She suggested trying another department store yet Nordstroms website sells them, so i was bit confused and went on my way no thanks to her. Felt as i was being pushed out the store not wanting my business. Yet many SA just stood from afar observing like a lone security guard was so erie and judgemental for the likes of me. Felt about trying on another brand bootie from Stuart Weitzman display but the stares at  every SA and the gal talking to me left in hurry. Doubted i would get any help again let alone finding my size telling me they have no sizes i be wanting, yet there website has them go figure... 

    So began to stroll along the mall with no real stares from people suppose the males were noticing me the most compared to the ladies. Guess lot of males noticed how lean and toned my legs looked in the skinny jeans. Lot of females appeared to ignore me or what i was wearing be it angry, jealous, disgusted i don't know, but ignored would suffice with a word describing there reactions of me.

    For fun i stumbled into Stuart Weitzman shop and nobody was in it. So browsed the different shoes and the Asian young SA smiled asked if i needed any help. I told her about the pure bootie if they have it in stock. She seemed confused or lacked knowledge of the styles she had in the store, until i pointed it out on top shelf. She then asked what size do you wear. At last one SA that doesn't assume i'm buying feminine clothes, shoes for someone other than myself. That brought me a big sigh and relief but the way i was outfitted anyone could of guessed right. When she went in the back to look for the size 11 i said i needed, she came back  if you believe this in a 9.5. I chuckled to her but again thanked her for trying left without bothering to try them on. At least she acted nice but little confused towards her shoes styles she is selling. She tried to help asking she can find them online having them delivered yet i know the SW website is sold out. 

    Later i passed Jimmy Choo store was always intrigued to try on some stilettos Anouks but researching the sizing availability i doubt they have them in 11 or 11.5 US. Plus my booties were beginning to squeeze my foot doubt it would appear cool to un-sock my  foot and find red marks on my feet from all the walking i was doing in the mall for couple hours at least. Always next time although i say that everytime walking passed Jimmy Choo don't know what it is fear of trying on stiletto heel or falling awkwardly even i know i never would buy them for retail. 

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    The pictures don't fully capture the outfit i'm wearing in the best pose or light i would prefer.  The wash of the jeans looks a lot better then shown. Wearing tight Theory navy top. Showing off my Gucci belt buckle with my unbuttoned G-star plaid denim shirt used to conceal necessities for modesty sake both rear and front maybe not so much up front leaving my shirt undone. 

     

    1. MackyHeels

      MackyHeels

      Thank you for the compliment yet not many ladies would agree with you overhaering That's gross comment. Yes, they are Paige Verdugo skinny jeans painted on for sure. Maybe little to tight then most woman would wear but the stretch is amazing along my entire leg and wash on the thigh superb.

       

      Not that they didn't want to help. As it was more of vibe i was picking up on. Let me put it another way, SA weren't aggressive welcoming me to a buying experience, saying hello with a polite smile. Most SA noticed me initially some stared stunned wide eyed, others turned away mostly females acting busy. ( As if they couldn't stare upon a male in legging and heels not having stomach or admiration as female in the same outfit) 

      Could be Nordstroms staff is directed not to be pushy with customers letting them browse around left unattended. Yet whenever i'm in Sax 5th Ave they tend to immediately acknowledge me although i was never dressed the part or shopping in the ladies shoe section. Other department stores female SA sometimes wait for male associate to help me with shoe sizing etc.. Do notice after the deliver me the shoe size box  they leave me unattended observing from afar with them doing nothing. Commenting no less about their opinions to associates of me wearing woman heels, boots etc.. Sometimes i look there way picking up the gist of the conversation although never overhearing anything but facial reactions undeniably not happy seeing a male wear ladies shoes. Picking up some SA ladies standing virtually hiding behind a cashier desk already staffed with another employee manning for checkouts seeing her from a far as i fit into some shoes i can read there lips slightly saying, that's awful, freak, gross, that's disgusting i about wanted to throw up seeing him, other SA beside them laugh, chuckle or agree slowly subtly nodding looking over towards me. Once finishing trying them on i dislike the fit i leave the boots or shoes without any SA asking if i choose to purchase them or not. Then i leave without any feedback or goodbye them waiting for me to leave from afar.

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  4. Thank you for the nice comments about my picture gallery. Don't hear positive encouragement on the fShion front...

    Thought to purchase the sweater with sewn white hem but don't believe many people at work would appreciate me wearing one. Obviously it's made for females and many already give me grief wearing feminine fashions. Can't wear my booties and when I did wear a tunic to work many woman had their suspicions or familiarity to the item being for their gender. Only receive smirks from females and comments that I have issues because what I wear often keeping their distance. 

    1. MackyHeels

      MackyHeels

      Thanks again but level of confidence is always about what's your motivation wearing the particular clothes. Often i use dissonance as a motivator to wear certain things. Obviously we all love attention from others being positive. You need to understand not everyone loves what we wear no matter who or what's your gender, their always haters in the world.

      To help your confidence is to figure out why some people wear particular clothes at any given time. If you blend in the trend or style then your confidence will soar. For example don't dress up in heel stilettos when shopping or running errands on a busy Saturday at the mall. Often i see majority of females wear knee high flat boots with black leggings or tight jeans. Yet you can copy the style and go unnoticed blending in while sporting exactly what she is wearing.

      While at this time, many women prefer wearing flat riding boots which to me looks very odd. The style is masculine in nature, wearing knee high riding boots as females. Observing closely i find they fundamentally look like oxford or brogue shoes often with sagging ankles with leather zip uppers similar to a baseball catcher's shin guards. Woman have to realize they look silly in these boots.  Trends and increase number of females wearing them becomes a staple item or a must style to own and wear.

      So our eyes get accustomed seeing every female with means wearing all kinds of brands of knee high boots thus brainwashing or conditioning our beliefs they are worn only for girls not for men. Yet the style was made for motorcyclist and horseback  equestrian riders so to keep a heel not slipping in the pegs or stirrups. Even police officers wear leather riding boots on horseback and German Gestapo wore them in WW II.

      So when i give into the increasing trend  of knee high boots myself, trying to find the perfect pair. Woman will begin to sneer or giggle  seeing a male wearing them, only because they believe it's their own style.  Only way to overcome this prejudice is to go over the top wearing stiletto heel knee high boots. This brings more attention and feminizes the look to what women should be wearing rather than flat heel boots, which resembles a masculine vintage style. Woman then will recognize applauding, saying yes to themselves, stiletto heel knee high boots look fantastic then these flat boots they all are wearing.

      Often it's amusing observing different brand of knee high boots worn by woman. Most boots i come across wanting to purchase have a 15 inch circumference opening fitting tight on many woman calves or knees. Seeing how increasingly big woman appear it shows that on lean legs like myself the style doesn't work out too well.  Unless you i forgo the knee high phenomenon and go directly to thigh high boots with heels. Then it becomes expensive.

       

      Take a look at link of Zach Efron just wearing woman jeans. Wonder what the reactions from females are? Are they judgemental? Again the style is incomplete and looks silly and odd, easily could be mocked and laughed upon.  Reason behind him wearing that is another celeb Harry Styles wore some male 

      Where are the serious booties or stiletto heels that dress up the pants as the model of the online shopping site link. Then he would look more natural and fashionable as a woman seriously would be. This is what us males heelers struggle everyday with outfits that look unfinished or hesitate to make the next evolution to complete the outfit. Only because we or he wants to look masculine yet wearing unmistakably women's coated shiny pants that are worn to loose not tight enough as they should appear. 

       

       

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  5. Thank you for the nice comments about my picture gallery. Don't hear positive encouragement on the fShion front...

    Thought to purchase the sweater with sewn white hem but don't believe many people at work would appreciate me wearing one. Obviously it's made for females and many already give me grief wearing feminine fashions. Can't wear my booties and when I did wear a tunic to work many woman had their suspicions or familiarity to the item being for their gender. Only receive smirks from females and comments that I have issues because what I wear often keeping their distance. 

    1. MackyHeels

      MackyHeels

      Thank you Don, for your kind comments and honest opinions. 

      Regards to the word jealousy reactions with negativity and haters  comes part of the process wearing anti-gender clothing i sort of agree.

      In many cases if someone despises my clothes thinking it's plain wrong for a male to wear because of their own learnt behavior.  Do believe they are not jealous but find it odd to see a male wearing something seen for a female to be worn.   Thus their smirks finding it amusing because of their high sense of fashion awareness and observation towards everyone surrounding them. 

      One good reason (not the only one) why i continue wearing female fashions is the few hypocrites speaking  negativity towards me while getting idea, wearing exactly the same clothes. Often it makes me laugh louder, amusing myself overhearing woman crying upon my lack of taste shaking their head. While planning in secret to buy exactly the same article of clothing as me, wearing it days later in my face as though i didn't realize what they are up too while their female friends are oblivious complimenting them about it.

      Or the best is being disrespected or shown by others that i'm a joke in public wearing certain clothes. Yet whenever i'm alone one on one with females out from their peers that can observe they can't help looking upon my clothes closely. Often showing desires of the fabric or texture and color and style.

      About your comment about my desire wearing women's attire and looking good. Most times i feel incomplete wearing the clothes because the style needs to be 100% feminized to work. Often i wear this or that but completes it with masculine touch which makes it lose it's style not looking right.

      Like many here concur can't wear leggings or jeggings with masculine shoes often it doesn't dress up the style. You got to wear either a high heel pump, bootie heel or knee high boots. Sometimes this is our brains getting accustomed to see certain items accessorized with certain trends and style to work. 

      Often i'm so frustrated wanting to wear this or that but because of circumstance can't do it. Be it can't find a size or just unacceptable manner of clothes to wear be it the venue or location such as the workplace. At the same time frustrated envious seeing it worn on some woman knowing i can look much better in it.  

         

       

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  6. Hi I was wondering if we could be friends I love your taste in shoes!!!!!

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