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well, I havn't posted in a while. here are some new pics of me. only one has heels. but heels aren't all that im about. im always trying to up my style. I finally got an awesome camera, so my new pictures are going to be really clear for now on. ive been using the crappy blackberry camera for so long, that with the new camera, I can actually see the vibrant color of my hair. so exciting to see what I really look like in pictures. this is how I go out and present myself for now on. its so great to finally be myself. sorry that more pics don't have heels in them, but I hope you like my current look.

Ashley.

Thanks for the advice Jeffb. Everything is new territory for me. I realise that a customer is a customer. There is no law that says we can't dress the way we like. You're right, I don't need to justify how I look. I'm just being myself.

If I had an office job, then it would be heels 24/7. I can't physically wear flat of any sort, they hurt my feet. But they would be all-day comfortable heels like 4-5" heel with a tiny bit of platform.

Sometimes we go too far the way we are dressed. I was out to dinner, and I said to the waitress: I guess you never see me dressed like this before? I had hair ext. Past halfway down my back, kneehigh stiletto boots and more makeup that a celeb would wear on the red carpet(think of victoria beckham dressed like a ho going to your favorite family restaurant. The waitress said: to each their own. You look just fine, honey. I don't know why I said anything in the first place, just like you. Now I realize that I can dress anyway I want, as long as I got clothes on. There are laws that protect us. No descrimination. Sorry for hijacking your thread. I always look forward to reading your outings.

Hey jeff, how would a skirt look over leggings? I've always wanted to try it, but wasn't sure if I could pull it off.

Its great you wear what you like. It just makes life more enjoyable. The leggings, long sweater, kneehigh boots thing is my favorite look. Ii would like to see you in a few outfits like that.

We don't have it because we don't have a fetish for heels, they are just fun to wear and to look at. I wear 4"+ heels every day at least 5 hours. Its just comfortable. I can't physically walk in flats, they just hurt too much. If I have it, I don't want to be cured!

Shafted was right! Very masculine men can't pull this off. Maybe I'll post a pic of me draped over a bike. My legs and ass are just as hot as hers!

I would buy them if I had money to burn, or not feeling guilty buying them. What would you rather have, one pair of beautiful, high fashion boots, or a whole bunch of cheap ones that you end up throwing away?

I went to a shoe store last year looking for heels. She brought out a pair of kneehigh boots with 5" heels. She said: $5, wear them for haloween! Is said: I don't need halloween to strut in killer heels. She almost passed out. Just for the record, a look a lot different than I did last year. I should have bought them. What is $5? A bus fare?

What does everybody prefer? Are thigh boots too much for everyday wear. I love otk boots, just as long as the boot shafts aren't crazy huge for my skinny legs. The cold weather is coming soon, and I want to up my style.

Thanks for putting that on the table that their shoes are quite odd. I never totally realised it. But I have had some trouble deciding what goes with certain outfits. I know you don't like platforms. Or jackstands like you say. I've tried heels without plats many times, and they just don't do it for me. There is no wow factor. I love the platforms, maybe because they look a little sultry, but not the crazy louboutin really high plats, they are just too chunky. But a 1.5" plat is okay for me. And I'm most comfortable in 4.5" heels, they are everyday wear for me. I respect everybodys opinions on outfits,I'm always trying to re-invent myself. My next 40 years in life will be different than my first 40 years, and its exciting.

Everybody seems to hate the munsters. I know they're really chunky. I don't have any thigh boots, but I have a bunch of kneehigh boots. Thanks for the suggestion ilk. Iill try the thighboots sometime.

You should try the pencil eye-liner first, if your hands aren't too steady. Anyway, send us a pic on how you look with the liner. We love our make-up!

Happynheels, thanks for the compliment. That was probably the nicest thing anyone said to me. She is probably 50 plus. She is probably no taller than 5 foot, so no wonder she wears heels. I see her at church every sunday. I usually wear skinny flare jeans, 5" heels, womens coats, heavy black eye makeup and hair extensions. It might sound extreme, but women fought have fought hard to be able to wear whatever they want to. I'm was not bodn female, but you are right, I'm lucky to not have facial hair, and have a body like a skinny model. Some day I will transition from m to f. I know I'm not supossed to talk about that on this site, but I love who I have become. I'm glad that others like my presentation.

Hey jeff, I know what you mean about the bunch of women in skirts and heels. I was in the fashion mecca of toronto at bay and bloor streets. There were a ton of women around me in heels. The sound was intoxicating. Are your jaunts more frequent lately? Looking good! Ashley

Jeff, you look quite natural in the skirt. If someone wants to wear a skirt as a guy, this would be it. Good for you for going out in bare legs too! A couldn't do that. There has to be some king of hosiery. Quite a contrast from your last jaunt. Btw, thanks for the link on the dress you wore. I'm going to look for one like that. Hopefully a size 0 isn't too hard to find. I think I have to eat more! I would love to see what you could put together once you get up to jaunt #300.

Nice shoes, I love the color. I'd wear them. They make your feet look really small. Sexy!

Thanks tbg! I'm supossed to wear glasses all the time, maybe I'll just wear more eye-makeup with them. Btw, the trumpet heels with the big buckles are fluevog munsters. The same ones Madonna wore in truth or dare. So I still have I biit of rock-chick look, but I'm trying to dress more classy.

Thanks jeffb! You are right, I need a decent camera. I felt I was looking good, so I took a few pics. I was out for the evening with my hair clipped in and make-up on, so when I got home, I put on the hose and heels, but will go out in a dress very soon. There iis a dress I want to buy from rudsak that is formfitted with long sleeves, a turtleneck, leather sleeves and leather trim at the bottom, and is a little longer than a miini-dress. I want to wear it with lace hose and high-heel boots. That's my thing, I've always felt very special wearing boots they have free make-up applications at shoppers drug mart(in canada). They have an amazing cosmetics section and all they request is that you buy one of their products. I can always use some blush or lipstick. I would love to go the cat-eye look that amy winehouse had(rest her soul). Ill post some pics asap. Thanks for others showing me I can wear more feminine things, and look good in them.

Thanks jim for posting these for me. I wish my camera was better. I love the stockings and pumps look so much. Ill be posting more looks like this in the future for sure! Thanks shafted for the nice compliment.

Happy birthday tbg! Tbg, thanks for the advice of parting my hair in the middle. I love the look. Keep posting your outings. Its really inspiring. I wish I posted my outings more, but it would be a daily thing.

Make-iup is addictive, isn't it? I love the look of very defined eyes. You're giving me ideas on lipstick. I even want to try lip-liner. I would kill for angelina jolie lips. Its great you're able to go out and wear whatever you like. I'm the same way, except I don't strive for a male appearance. I guess that defeats the purpose "for the guys" forum. But these little things make us unique. I'd be interested to know how many pairs of heels you have. It seems you have a lot to choose from. I have around 50 pairs of shoes and boots, and mostly in the 4-5" heel range. Its always fun reading about your outings. Ashley.

Hey jeff, I love the dress. And you look great wearing it! I would wear it for sure. What brand is it? I especially love the bottom part of it, and the hose. Ii would have loved to see a pic without the over-blouse. But it was a very classy outfit. So happy for you!

What is age anyway? I'm 40, but dress like a twenty-something woman. If you look good in it, then why not! Jeff, love the dress. I have a few pics of me in skirts and dresses that I'm going to post as soon as I can get to a computer. Would I dress my age where society expects me to, of course not. Not a pencil-skirt would look awesome with tall boots and hose with lace in them.