LuvyourShoes

Hey all! Small update, I sold a pair of flats to a guy who showed all the signs of a novice women's shoe wearer. He was nervous, wanted to get in and out, and knew exactly what he wanted. It was fun helping out someone who shared our passion! He didn't try them on in store, but opted to buy and quickly leave. He shook my hand afterward, smiled and left! Fun times! I work at the Payless on Mechanicsville Tpke. If you're in the Richmond area, feel free to stop by and get great service from a fellow shoe lover and his awesome team!! Lol. I must let you know that I can't give discounts so bring your coupons or search coupons.com for Payless. Give me a heads up if you are able to stop by!!

Hey Steve and all other fellow shoe lovers, No, I did not leave the wild land of Payless, and for the most part, I'm enjoying myself!! I dress business casually in full 'male' clothing... shoes and all. As I stated in a previous post, my manager asked me not to wear alternative footwear while on the job. He is fully aware of my heeling and he has no problem with me trying on shoes... however I happen to know that he is somewhat in hot water so I understand his hesitations and don't make too big a fuss about it. He lives an alternative lifestyle as well and is in the closet about that, so I further understand his professional angst. I have found that working with shoes makes you not feel as in love with them though... lol. I get irritated with unpacking and trashing the packaging, but seeing the latest styles early is a huge plus! They've got an awesome selection of fall flats coming out... but no really good heels. No interesting men in heels stories yet... just a ton of ladies who wear the same size as me (12/13) whom I've hit it off well with. I'll let you know if anything fun happens! Jetsheelfan, Just ask... we don't mind helping!

Well Chris, since I'm a regular customer, they know I wear flats and heels outside of work. However, they asked that I be conservatively professional and not wear heels or too feminine styled shoes. They want to ensure 'brand' is adhered to. I have tons of shoes to choose from, so I know I'll still enjoy being fly in all guy mode. I work in a part of town that is extremely conservative. I know they're trying to protect their business and me as well, so I'm not upset. I still get to enjoy shoes!!! ... and I can try on heels and flats in size 12/13 whenever I want!

I don't often get a chance to post, but Jeff you do an awesome job inspiring us all! Thank You!

Thanks everyone for your support! Heelster, I strongly considered going to try on a pair of heels in front of him... lol, but since it was my first official day I didn't want to do too much! I thoroughly enjoy the interaction with the customers. I have a lot of older women hitting on me already... its hilarious! We have the second largest selection of size 12s and 13s in the area, so I'm sure I'll see some men who will be interested in heels before too long! Nothing else big to report at the moment. I'll keep everyone posted!

This is a fun experience I thought would be neat to share... I recently started a part time position at one of our favorite places, the wonderful world of Payless!!! I'm super excited because I get to sell and be around what I truly have a passion for... SHOES!! Anyway, on my first day, I dressed conservatively in a black and white gingham shirt, grey slacks and on my feet were a pair of super comfortable black snip toe flats. First, I must say, I thoroughly enjoy this job. Each guest treated me very well and I gave them the best customer service I could! It was awesome! There always has to be one idiot to ruin the fun though right?? So, a very nice lady comes in with her disgruntled fat troll of a husband... and she starts shopping and trying on shoes. About 10 minutes roll by and the husband has a revelation that I'm not wearing conventional loafers. He blurts out "I know those aren't women's shoes!!". I didn't realize he was talking to or about me until his wife said something in my defense along the lines of "Those are just work shoes". I said these are simple flat shoes", and went back to helping his wife. Later I heard him mumble under his breath something else about women's work shoes, but I ended up winning because they bought two pairs of shoes due to my stellar service... flats and all! This site has given me courage to wear what I want, and I appreciate that. Go have fun in your shoes!! Enjoy!

I tend to do this as well... being a size 13, its already hard enough to find shoes I like in my size!!! The competition is fierce out there, so I have to get what I like as soon as I see it. If I wait, I won't see them again!! Finding anything in a size 12 or 13 that isn't a ballet flat is also a rarity! Long story short, yes, I grab shoes immediately!

It wouldn't surprise me. He had an incredibly high IQ so he probably thought to do and live as he wanted!!!

I think those are very nice shoes Matt! What you wear would depend on your comfort level. You could wear skinny jeans, but if you're not comfortable, start with some boot cut jeans to cover the shoe a bit until you're ready for a full on shoe display. I know how it feels to worry about acquaintances finding out about your love for shoes... but its kind of a risk/reward type of situation. Enjoy yourself!!

I LOVE those wedges Jeff! Nice work as usual!

Awesome stuff Kilty!!

Red goes exceptionally well with leopard ILK. try a red shirt or cardigan over a black v neck with a nice pair of skinny jeans or tights.

These Dune pumps. A little difficult to walk in, but so beautiful.

Absolutely WONDERFUL shoes!!!

Its crazy how its an "obsession" for us guys... for women... meh... normal girlie stuff!! :-)

Parts of me just wants to get it over with so I can move on w my life. I think I'll eventually do just that! Thanks for all your responses. Im checking activeskin right now! Sounds like something id like!!

The biggest (really the only) fear I have while heeling is running into someone I know or someone who knows my family seeing me then blabbing about it. Its never happened to me because I plan my heeling trips fairly well, but I honestly dont know how Id react.. probably calm (thanks to being a member here)!!! Anyone had an unexpected run in with acquaintances while heeling? Howd it go?

I purchased a pair from www.barefoottess.com and I love them. Im on a phone, so I cant post pics, however, If you check the site, you cant miss them. They are a bit pricey, but worth it for a size 13/14. Payless.com carries a brown pair for $50 up to size 12. Hope this helps!

I feel like thats the dynamics of all organizations. Church, social groups, community service orgs... etc. A few constants, mid sized group of people who contribute from time to time, and finally a ton of stragglers! Organization 101

This picture makes me smile! Its awesome to see men embracing high heels. I like the "guy" outfit with sky high red heels. Interesting contrast indeed!

Jenny, your story was very touching. I thoroughly enjoyed reading it. I related to some of what he went through. Being a shoeaholic is not easy!! Thanks again!

I too browse daily on my cell phone, however, typing messages proves to be an arduous task... especially while driving!!! I am rarely on a computer so my cell phone is my constant gateway to hhp.org. I'll type more when I get a chance.

I agree Jeff. I know many gay men and ALL of them wear masculine things with a small hint of feminine accessories. Alot of them dress like the "average" guy. People and their assumptions... smh

As a black man, I can fully confirm the preceding theories! Lol. The more urban the area, the larger the shoe section size range. Black women do tend to be larger in stature than white women. I rarely find white women with larger than size 10 feet, but I personally know of many black women who wear a size 10 and up. The stores want to make $ so they put the product near the audience. Even urban Payless stores have more 12s and 13s than suburban/rural Payless stores. Simple facts...

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Awesome work!!! Congratulations on a great date!