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  1. I recently got engaged (no ring yet though!) and I'm in two minds what to do. My boyfriend wants us to run off to Paris and grab a couple of cheroot smoking peasants off the street as witnesses. I want the big white wedding with a couple of bridesmaids and a pair of white (or silver) pigalles.

    Hmm! Why not get married in London and invite members of this community to attend? Make it a true high heel meeting while you're at it?

  2. It's not like women didn't have any choice in the matter. The desire to "conform" to ever changing fashions is strictly an individual choice. Some females eagerly choose to go along with ever new fashion in the belief that it will increase their attractiveness to members of the opposite sex.

    Weather this is actually the case or not, I really believe "men" do not have any say in this issue. Granted, men are selfish and tend to gravitate toward women wearing the most recent sexual enhancing fashions, but then again, who can blame them when the skin men love to touch is usually covered by clothing of some sort?

    Apologize, I think not. :silly:

  3. The real truth about your outfit, Heels4me, is that it's really eye catching or attention getting. I doubt that you could have dressed in any other manner or worn anything else that screamed "look at me" any more than this combination. :silly:

  4. Could it be you haven't gone out in a skirt because you don't want to? I myself have no desire to wear any other feminine item of clothing than shoes (heels or flats). Is your therapist challenging you based on their idea of how you should look or is this feeding back on your stated desires?

    I really am not certain, Scrappycoco, what either you or your therapist is trying to accomplish. Sounds to me like you're searching for acceptance and approval. I've been following your thread since the first and am still not sure of where your family is on this issue. If they're supportive and understanding, what is the problem? It seems to me that the real problem is in your own mind, accepting yourself.

    Perhaps your therapist is trying to "get you comfortable" within your own "self image" by asking you to present yourself in costume that you are most comfortable wearing. But if your family members are supportive, and, as you've indicated, your daughter helps you chose your outfits, why would you have any qualms about dressing anyway that pleases you?

    Sorry if I seem dense but I actually don't see any problem with you appearing anywhere, dressed in any manner that you chose, especially if you are comfortable in your own mind with who you are and with your self image.

  5. I recently came across a gorgeous pair of seven inch heels with no brand stamped on the shoe or written on the sole. There are no distinguishing characteristics except, confusingly, the number 9 on the sole of a pair of shoes which, as a size 8 foot, were far too small.

    I am selling them on Ebay (I have a post detailing those shoes on the High Heels for Sale Forum), but I was wondering whether anyone could identify the brand so I could buy a pair that actually fit me. I have attempted to upload pictures to this post, but if they do not work, here is the link to the item for sale.

    Any help would be much appreciated, even if it is just to point me to another retailer that has a pair of shoes like this. I have looked at Elite Heels and La Piazza and cannot find anything all that close, so if you know, it would make me very happy!

    Those actually look like a pair made by "Little Shoe Box." Perhaps if you found a copy of their catalog, you could positively identify them as such. However, LSB has been out of business for a number of years and I would guess that you might find a pair like them at La Piazza or one of the other places that sells the same styles as they made at LSB.

  6. I am a 34, almost 35 year old BI NYLON Loving Female. I also do wear HEELS - Shoes or Boots almost all of the time. When I dress for work, I dress conservatively in ooutfits that are Below-The-Knee or longer,2 - 2 1/2" heels. However, other times, I wear Shorter Outfits and much HIGHER Heels.

    Welcome to hhplace Stephs :unsure:

    Perhaps had you placed a comma (,) in between "BI" and "NYLON" it might have made it easier for Dr. Shoe to decipher. However, it must be made known that Dr. Shoe is always right except at certain times of the month, when he's really cranky and argumentative. This must be one of those times.

    While we're really more interested in your views of fashion and opinions and advice on wearing high heels, your sexual orientation is really not germane to the conversation, here.

    So, we're all eager to hear about you and your interest in high heels. :silly:

  7. No, It is sick and it goes against human nature.

    Im most likely going to get comments from left and right but I could careless, when society accepts immoral behavior and defends it, everything goes down from there.

    Its God they will have to answer to in the afterlife.

    Hmmm! This is interesting.

    Q: Do you like men in heels?

    LL's Response #1: No. It is sick and goes against human nature.

    There is no doubt about LailaLily's answer. This is a simple sentence that state her "individual" (as in " do YOU like?") opinion. No doubt about it. If she would have added some "clarification" pointing out that she was talking about those that don't approve of men in heels, then it would be a lot easier to draw the inference toward those that disapprove.

    LL's Response 2a: "I'm most likely going to get comments from left and right --

    As is normal when someone reads an opinion that disappoints them and is directly contrary to the one they hold. However, in all of the responses that have appeared in this thread, responding to her comment, the comments have been "totally respectful. )

    LL's Response #2b: "but I could careless, when society accepts immoral behavior and defends it, everything goes down from there.

    Again, she's right on the money, here. When people with an "agenda" go against universally accepted moral conduct and ideals, in an attempt to "modernize" (change) behavior, there will always be a great deal of resistance to any kind of change, or loosening of standards. It's a tough, up hill battle.

    LL's Response #3: "Its God they will have to answer to in the afterlife".

    Almost every religion centering around a "single omnipotent diety," has an established set of moral standards setting standards of behavior for true believers, whom are convinced that mortals breaking these standards will answer for their transgressions" in the after life. In the total span of human history, I am not aware of any mortal that possesses first hand knowledge that this is true. However, being the good Christian that I am, I'm fully prepared to answer directly to my supreme God in hopes that God will accept my explanation and pass me through into the "afterlife" with understanding.

    Based upon this analysis, how can anyone, without further words of clarification, jump to the conclusion that she was specifically addressing those amongst today's society that view men in heels, as being "unacceptable," is pure conjecture.

    In this particular situation, what would be very helpful is that if LailaLiy would add clarification to her comments.

  8. Heard on the new TV series "Harry's Law" on NBC w/Kathy Bates:

    Peeptoe, slingback, do me like a dog, pumps!

    That's one of those things where "you had to be there." Harry's law is a story of a lawyer that opens a new practice in a "less than desirable" neighborhood of a city in Ohip. The only place that "Harry" (Harriet) could find was in a fully stocked "gone out of business" shoe store front. So, the business became a Law Office that also sells woman's shoes. Good setting with some great shoes on display but really bad program. So, if I remember rightly, the quotation above comes near the end of the show and makes reference to the styles of shoes the business still has in stock (I think - ?)

  9. This morning, I opened one of those pesky, annoying spam messages that my browser routinely shuffles off to the side, This one was from Amazon.com and was highlighting woman's boots. Curious to see what they had to offer, I opened and looked through their offerings. Much to my surprise, there were about 7500 different styles of boots shown (75 pages with 100 styles listed on each page....some duplicate styles shown in different colors).

    I know there are tons of boot lover members here. So, here is the link to the website so they can see if they can find a pair that "tickles their fancy" listed there.

    Boots at Amazon.com

  10. Hi, just thought I'd sign up to talk to some like-minded people :silly:

    I've wanted heels for ages, but I am way too shy to buy them myself, and some of my friends have known I cross dress for ages, so one of those people suggested that they go shopping with me. It was awkward but pretty fun, and it helped that we went to the pub first! So we sat down, with these size 9 heels, the biggest in that shop. She took her shoe off and tried them on, she was sitting between me and the other people in the shop. then I secretly quickly tried them. They fitted, though I'm size 12, I cant walk in them for very long, but they are okay for around the house.

    Here is a link to those shoes, http://s2.imagefrog.net/out.php/i138244_DSC00024.JPG

    I've decided to leave them in a place where my mum will find them tomorrow, I'm fed up of the secrecy! xD Wish me luck!

    Welcome to hhplace, DMC-12.

    Interesting introduction. Please tell all of about your mother's reaction to finding your heels if you follow through with leaving them where she will find them. I'm sure we all hope that she reacts favorably and is supportive of your wearing heels.

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