StormClaw

Thanks for the help guys.Appreciate it a lot. Ill try a combination of what you guys said.Ill wear them more subtle boots,4inch wedges more often if its just the two of us.Like steve said, I dont want to trample over his comfort zone.He is my best friend and I his,so both of us care what how the other one feels.So forcing heeling in public aint going to happen Had a good talk with my other friend that understands.Asked him if he is botherd or not,and he said no.So atleast I can wear boots when out with him. Well thanks again for the responses.Ill keep you posted on how it goes with both of them.

Was my friends question to me tonight when we went out. Last week he found out I like to wear boots,didnt tell him straight up,just left the boots ,in my avatar, in my car,we got in my car and he asked "who's are these"(holding up the boots).I looked at him and told him its mine I like to wear them and he seemed cool about it.So I thought..... Tonight was the first time he saw me in them.Thought I'd do it subtle and wore them under my jeans, while driving he asked if I'm comfortable wearing them,not in the way of how they fit and the 5 inch heel,but wearing them in public where people could see me. He was clearly not comfortable but being his best friend he didnt want me to feel obligated to take them off. But I took them off anyway for his sake,how my friends feel is important to me.I tried explaining that Im attracted to heels and boots,have been since I was young.So I wear them 1.I like the feel,2. like the look and 3. im comfy in them. See both of us were raised in South Africa with the close mind set,whats right,wrong,mens clothes ,womens clothes, what our parents say is right,their way or the high way .Needles to say my parents doesnt know about my heel/boot love at all. After a while in the bar he thanked me for taking them off,he sort of understands why but I could see he doenst 100%.Guess he was also worried about what other people would think if they saw one guy dressed fully man and another guy with boots. My other friends are fine with it.Wore my thighboots infront of my other friend,he was fine.His fiance,my best female friend is also supportive,they are your boots,they look nice so wear them. We ended up having a great time,met other friends and joined them,so the boots didnt ruin the night.So how can I make my friend feel comfortable about me wearing boots.Im considering not wearing boots around him,but how can I explain it to him or make him feel more comfortable about the fact that I like to wear womens boots and heels?

Hurry up with the pics StormClaw!! Fork them over already!!

Of course, I'm joking. LOL

Charlie

Or else what?you going to break my internet legs?lol I know your joking

Must say, I like driving in heels.I wear boots every day to university now.4 inch wedge or 3.5inch boots.And I always drive to and back from class with them on. Last week Monday I drove around in the boots in my avatar.I have to admit that I do drive more careful than I would without them on.

Richy I agree,why not just thank the person for sharing instead of pestering the person for more and more pictures. Sure you might want to see more of the specific shoe, but why not ask in a good way "would you mind posting more pictures of that shoe please". If its a fetish or it gets you off to see men/women in heels then go take pictures of yourself.If I get pestered in a demanding way for more pics every time Ill share less and less at the end. Not that I've shared pics of myself with boots/heels on yet,they are still on the way Just my thoughts on this

Nice boots CPB.Just too bad Im comming back home for holiday in December,wouldve liked to get some boots there.Guess Ill have to wait and see what new styles South Africa has to offer me.

First, let me restate that I really like the look of heeled thigh boots on me regardless of the fashion statement.

Second, I do enjoy seeing a lady wearing a pair of thigh boots in public as a fashion statement.

I agree with you here,I like the look and feel of the thigh boots,biggest reason Im wearing them.And I also like to see women in thigh boots,or any heeled boots actually.

I doubt if the sort of boots thighbootguy and I wear could be found in a brick and mortar store. In fact, I rarely saw any thigh boots of any kind in stores, at least, not mainstream stores anyway.

We have the same problem here where I live.Heres a lot of shoe stores with no thigh boots.So thanks to this guy who imports Pleaser Boots,I was able to get my pair from him from his website.But of course theres no way you'll know that if walk around in stores.

Thanks Thighbootguy ,SleekHeels and JeffB.If weren't for you guys and this forum I would never have done that.

Spent the whole day at my friends house with the boots on,he noticed them,made a joke about the pointy points and thats it.Didnt bother him one bit.Left after a few hours and went to two stores in a mall.Everyone noticed them and then just ignored it haha.So no negative comments,and unfortanately no positive ones too.I looked a few people in the eyes as the noticed them and looked up,smiled at them and just walked on.

I just kept my cool and went about as if its normal.And after a while it started to feel normal.I was just walking as if walking with my mens shoes.

I can't help wondering, would you want thigh-boots to become much more widely worn, or is the rarity of seeing them and the boldness of the fashion statement part of the thrill?

Well for me,I love boots,from calf high to thigh high.I wear my other boots under jeans.I wear these just as part of my fashion choice ,over jeans.To me now its like buying mens shoes,buy them and wear them as normal.Today it just felt so normal to walk with them openly in public so Id say its a staement in the way of "I wear what I want because I like what I wear".

Thanks JeffB.It really was a big rush.I understand what you mean with the whole outfit.I wore a pair of black pants so everything blended in.Tomorrow Im going to a friend and Ill take my boots with.Pair of dark blue jeans with a black top perhaps. Ill make a stop somewhere,either get gas or something.Will keep you posted. And thanks for the tips

First and foremost, be calm, cool and collected, act like what you're wearing is no big deal, carry a casual air about you, that way, passersby won't take any serious interest in you. If you act nervous, jittery or furtive, people will invariably wonder what's going on and take notice of you, moreso than you might want. I've worn thigh high boots openly in public for some time now and it's an exciting and exhilarating feeling to say the least, heck, I've even been complimented by complete strangers on what I've worn. The important thing is to ENJOY the experience and you should do well.

Well I did it

Did exactly as you said.Stayed calm and cool.Was on my way to work today and had my boots with me.Decided I needed some mints for work and stopped at a gas station.

There was 2 guys on their way to leave and just the attendend in the store. Waited for them to leave, pulled on my boots and went in.Was so nerve recking but I pushed through.The attendend looked up and emediatly down at my boots as they clicked along the way with big eyes:blinkbigeyes: ,stared for a few seconds and then just carried on.Bought the mints and left,no bad comments or bad looks.Nothing

That gave me such a rush to that.Definitely looking forward to the next oppurtunity to try that again.This time Ill have a better look.Just had my work pants on under the boots and a top over my work shirt.Next time some nice jeans and shirt.

Thanks for the tip JeffB

I must say you have a lot of courage to wear thigh boots openly in public.Coming monday I might wear mine(in my avatar) openly to my friends house.He knows about my love for boots and doesn't mind,so I'm going to wear them 1 because I like the boots, 2 as a joke and see how he reacts What tips do you have for someone who's going to wear thigh boots openly in public?

Name: Francois Age: 22 Gender: Male Location: Auckland, New Zealand Occupation: Full-time Student,Part-time sales assistant Height: 5'5"(168cm) Weight: 90kg Shoe Size: US 11, Eu 44 Favorite Heel Style: Stiletto, wedge Favorite Shoe Style: Thigh high boots Do you wear heels outside: I only wear boots outside Favorite Heel Height: 4"-5" Heighest Heel Height: 5" How often do you wear: Try to wear boots/heels very often. Do you wear socks, nylons, hose or bare feet with your shoes: Nylons,hose or socks with my boots. Additional Comments:

Ive thought about that myself.Lucky me winter is just starting But Id probably go for ankle boots with jeans one or two days a week.

Bought some thigh high pleaser boots today,bought the Blk Str Pu, 5" Heel one.

http://www.pleaserusa.com/showcase/ProductDetail.asp?PROD_CD=SED3000%2FB&STYLE_CD=SEDUCE-3000

May I say well done Pleaser.Best looking and comfortable boots I have.Im considering wearing them in public.First coverd and depending on how brave I feel later on,openly.

Like most guys here I was very young when it started.Wanted to know how it feels to walk in them and thats when it started. Tried on my moms heels and at 20 I got my first pair of heels. Fought it a lot the last 3 years but now I embraced it,its a part of me so why fight it.

Do you really, really need to ask this?

If a TV in the high street costs £600, but a back street trader you never heard of offered it to you for £60, what would that tell you?

lol

Lol I know:silly:

I have my gut instinct about scams etc. I had to make sure that my instinct is true.

Thanks Tech

I found this link.Im looking for a pair of thigh high boots and found this link with Christian Louboutin Boots at a very very low price.Had a look at the Christian site,boots go for over US$1000,these go for aprox US$100

Does anyone think its a scam or is it real?

As a recently new member myself, welcome! Hope you enjoy it here and if you have any questions just ask away,we are a friendly bunch over here.

Well the rides was fun,but I didnt go with heels.Although I dont think you'd really want to sit on a spinning disc that spins around and going up and down a track with heels. But its definitely possible to wear heels to a amusement park.Type of rides we have is easy to do with heels.

have loosen the strap with the rings but right underneath it theres another strap thats just stitched on from the zipper to the other side.thats the strap thats tight.I forced a pair of socks in and left there over night.Its already a lot better.

Hey gentlemen and ladies Im considering wearing 4inch wedge boots to a carnival tomorrow night.They have rides,shows etc.Ill be going with friends who is totaly cool with me wearing heeled boots so it should be a fun night. Has anyone rode on those rides with heels on?Is it dificult to use the rides with heels or not really? Ill let you guys know how it was.Perhaps take a few pics.

Just wish I had the courage to do that. Wearing heels is my absolute passion.

Dont worry,I was the same.This site and posts like this helped me a lot.Even though I wear jeans over my 4inch wedge boots,Im still out there wearing what Ive always wanted.So just take that leap of faith

So thanks for sharing this post Roniheels.Im actually planning on going to "carnival" with rides etc in my boots and my friends are cool with it.

Ill give it a try.Thanks

Thanks for the reply ET88 but theres 2 straps. The adjustable strap isnt a problem,figured that one out,but the one underneath it is just stitched on from the one side to the other.Thats the one thats slightly tight on my right foot.They walk great and feel good,except for that strap. So my question,will it stretch with frequent wear or can i stretch it somehow?

Well today I told my best girl friend(female friend) that I like womens boots with heels.Asked her what she thinks about a guy wearing heeled/women boots and she said as long as they arent glitery/pink its fine lol.

Showed her what I have and shes cool with it.As I see her and her fiance/my best friend regularly, I can wear boots more often when with them.

I also bought newboots.Ill go out in a bit and test them out in the public.

http://www.numberoneshoes.co.nz/products/womens-shoes/womens-boots/kesha-boot-dark-brown.html

Then bottom strap is a bit tight,will it stretch with regular wear?