There are many like you. I love the way the ladies look in their strappy high heel sandals. I wear the same thing and love them. Have been wearing them for four months. Now have 12 pairs. Heel height is 3 to 5.5 inches. All are strappy and extremely sexy. I love wearing them.

You Are definatly not alone with your feelings, Its been a fetish for me but it really goes beyond that. Its who I am and what makes me happy.

You are not a freak. You are a beautiful person like everyone else. Just because you like shoes the other sex normally wear doesn't mean your any different. Follow your dreams and live life to the fullest!

Clarissa.

I don't class it as a fetish.  It is a matter of choice.  I prefer heels to any other kind of shoes.  They feel better, give much better posture, and look so fab on my feet when I'm in them.

I remember punishing myself the same way....My life would be complete if I could help just one poor guy from wasting years away with self punishment like I did....

The fact of the matter is that many guys have a secret desire to wear women's clothing....This does not mean you are gay, or a freak, or anything like that.  Please trust us when we tell you that.  Please take advantage of all the like minded guys you will find here, hopefully we can help you get over your unfounded fears. 

Again, the truth is that many guys have a thing for women's clothing of one sort or another.  Most keep this as a secret desire and never act on it.  Many guys have real nice figures and look amazing in fem gear.  Times are changing, hopefully we can break down some of society's silly stereotypes. 

Please stay in touch with us and let us know how you are doing...Don

9 minutes ago, pebblesf said:

I remember punishing myself the same way....My life would be complete if I could help just one poor guy from wasting years away with self punishment like I did....

The fact of the matter is that many guys have a secret desire to wear women's clothing....This does not mean you are gay, or a freak, or anything like that.  Please trust us when we tell you that.  Please take advantage of all the like minded guys you will find here, hopefully we can help you get over your unfounded fears. 

Again, the truth is that many guys have a thing for women's clothing of one sort or another.  Most keep this as a secret desire and never act on it.  Many guys have real nice figures and look amazing in fem gear.  Times are changing, hopefully we can break down some of society's silly stereotypes. 

Please stay in touch with us and let us know how you are doing...Don

 

So so true Don.  Well said . 

On July 13, 2016 at 4:34 PM, pebblesf said:

I remember punishing myself the same way....My life would be complete if I could help just one poor guy from wasting years away with self punishment like I did....

The fact of the matter is that many guys have a secret desire to wear women's clothing....This does not mean you are gay, or a freak, or anything like that.  Please trust us when we tell you that.  Please take advantage of all the like minded guys you will find here, hopefully we can help you get over your unfounded fears. 

Again, the truth is that many guys have a thing for women's clothing of one sort or another.  Most keep this as a secret desire and never act on it.  Many guys have real nice figures and look amazing in fem gear.  Times are changing, hopefully we can break down some of society's silly stereotypes. 

Please stay in touch with us and let us know how you are doing...Don

Have to agree with regret about not starting younger. Older we get another fear creeps in our mind, logical or not. Older i become the more disgusted feelings about my body's appearance. Knit picking flaws upon my body being depressed and doubting to wear certain clothes. 

Had a conversation with a rare like minded older 60 year old woman who adores my style and body. She feels wearing sexy clothes is not an option at her age. She believed when at a young age, why do old wrinkled old woman try to look attractive in trendy clothes showing off their body. Nobody finds her attractive it's silly to try to compete with young girls with smoother soft skin. While she has her moments saying fu@k it! i'm wearing my short spandex shorts with knee high strap sandals to the grocery store. Then had a woman stop her saying she looks amazing complimenting her style bringing a big smile to her face.

So it's not just me that have doubts but older woman who can't let go of the years of sexy form fitting clothing and various heels stored in their closet. 

Being bold enough wearing woman's clothes and comfortable in them. Tendency to second guess myself that older male can't look good as i might of at a younger age.

Rarely does a woman laugh upon my appearance. Although do get cat whistled upon by group of young girls noticing me passing them by. Or overhear discussions from woman that shockingly suddenly find me buff, but find very similar appearance to a female which tends to turn them off.

Suppose dissonance is what females  feel about me, but usual stereotypical judgemental opinions talk themselves out of admiring me to another. The first impressions two females had of me was wow look at him. Then their belief systems kick into gear saying he looks to much like a woman no point lusting after him or compliment his appearance because it's totally wrong for a man to appear as a female no matter how well he may or may not pull it off. Wearing my denim cutoff faded distressed short shorts and toned tanned smooth legs gave these woman difficulty to ignore what they see. After i overheard their criticism i gave both a look over from their backside. To be kind i found their figures needed a lot of work to be considered decent. So my conclusion was one found me stunning while the other concluded i was to feminine appearing  thus a bit of jealousy and envy creeping in.  Better to not associate with me and put some stereotypical labels upon what they see to make them feel better of their appearance.

Good quote from P!nk

And people like to laugh at you cause they are all the same, mmm

So individual can be unique but vast amount in society  will find him or her silly to their own personal beliefs. 

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