Wearing High Heels in Las Vegas !!!

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HiH,

Congrats on your retirement! Now you'll have more time to wear heels (but maybe less money to spend on them - hope not!).

Steve

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On 12/30/2014 at 10:23 PM, Histiletto said:

What a timid lot most of us are! Each of us has an affinity of varied intents degrees for wearing high heels and when we are wearing them, we feel really good about how they accent our appearance so much so that we never want to take them off. However the idea that we could be known as high heel wearers around the people that supposedly love and care about us and our welfare tends to generate a fear so extreme that we actually try to hide who we are from them. Yet we are willing to let complete strangers think what they want as they perceive a guy wearing high heels. This kind of interaction has lead to the misunderstanding that most people have about this situation.

 

If the world is ever going to accept guys in heels, it is going to have to start with those who know and love us. Even though they may not accept our declaration for wearing heels and refuse to be a part of such activities now, as more incidences or happenings of guys in heels are made common knowledge, their initial reaction to such information won't seem so characteristically alien and degrading.

 

It hasn't been that long ago that gals weren't suppose to get tattooed, because it was looked upon as a manly extravagance. In some areas it is still looked upon as body deforming and character defaming. Yet, the number of females choosing to go under the needle seems to have increased to the point tattoo businesses are springing up everywhere. It is not that unusual to hear somewhat of a boast from a girl's latest venture into this body imprinting. Why do they do it? - because they can!

 

Such an attitude use to be one of men's stereotypes of being strong and in control, but the idea of a male being caught wearing an outfit accented with high heels cowers most men back into compliance with the status quo of the day and continues to give credibility to the social attitude that choosing to wear heels wasn't meant for guys.

 

To those guys who have been open about their high heeling to the people they have around them, know that you are doing it right. This may not have lead to wearing heels as often or as much as you want too, but the possibility of reaching that goal is a lot closer as other male heeling activities happen and become another proof that guys in heels is as natural as gals in jeans. Besides, it is a natural procedure as individuals to choose our own appearance by the taste we have.

As one who is in that boat, I have to say, easier said than done.  In Vegas you are highly unlikely to bump into anyone you know and many of those that see you are often of an "elevated mind" as you are allowed to  have an open container in public.  Verses "showing yourself" to family who may love you, but have certain morals.  Those, you will see again and again and they may have the ear of other family members.  Times are a changing.  It's just taking longer for men who want wear heels.