Pam Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 Hi to all, Just wandering.... To all of you who have/had a relationship where the heeling/CD'ing was at know...were there any boundaries? (i.e. no heeling in public, etc?) Pam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 Pam:-) Between Mickey and I concerning heeling in public, I would say that there aren't any boundaries, but a mutual agreement on the time, situation, and place for the heeling to occur or not within reason. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sscotty727 Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 The only "boundry" I have is that I don't wear obvious femine shoes in public or in front of the kids. Other than that, my wife has been pretty understanding with me wearing heels/block heels. Scotty Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigj3650 Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 the only boundry i have is me...once i am use to the fact then everything will fall into place ff has already seen the boots i bought on ebay...kinda ugly but with a 1.5" heel to get me use to heel to begin with... J Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawn HH Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 Bigj3650:-) It's o.k. to start with a 1.5" heel and then you can work your way up when you feel confident to do so. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShockQueen Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 No boundaries or borders here! It's all wide-open between me and my loved one...and LOVING it! SQ.....still busting societal molds with a smile...and a 50-ton sledge! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bubba136 Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 I guess the largest boundary would be how much "imagined" ridicule you are prepared to take......it's relative, in my mind -- directly proportional to the more adventurous you are, the higher the "imagined" ridicule. Being mentally comfortable in your own mind is the key to wearing heels in public. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pam Posted June 6, 2005 Author Share Posted June 6, 2005 I guess one type is the self-imposed boundaries like the decision to go out, or hide the heel under pants...I agree that these are the most difficult ones to overcome; on the other had I see this as challenges. The other type are those you "negotiate" with your SO. As do not wear pointy shoes outside or do not shave your legs. Pam Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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