zebra heels Posted October 9, 2010 Share Posted October 9, 2010 So tonight was the first night since Feb that I went heeling. I lost my confidence to go out in public because my girlfriend now lets me wear them in the house but doesnt like to when i want to wear them out. So tonight she was out for the weekend and she left over her black 4in round toe pumps from the night before. so i decide to start small again and went down the street to the nearest plaza and parked in the back switched over to the pumps and went down the street and behind the near factory. As i was walking i could look at my shadow and see the heels. as every car that went by i got more and more confident. as i got in my car to leave i felt so good. all i have to say i love high heels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mtnsofheels Posted October 9, 2010 Share Posted October 9, 2010 Right on Zebraheels, Good for you to get out in them and walking around. Maybe she would allow you to go out with some other heels which are less obvious. Keep it up and have fun! Mtnsofheels Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maskdtw Posted October 9, 2010 Share Posted October 9, 2010 Try a pair of kitten heel boots for discrete street heeling. If they've got a pointy toe they look like pumps under long pants and the short spikey heel give the effect of wearing a much higher heel. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
roniheels Posted October 9, 2010 Share Posted October 9, 2010 Congratulations on your outing. This is the way to do it, a little at a time. The more you go out, the more confident you will feel. Good luck on future outings. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Histiletto Posted October 10, 2010 Share Posted October 10, 2010 I feel bad that you can't share the heeling experience with your gf. Hopefully, this scenario will be corrected soon, so that everyone can exercise the liberties, a free world claims to give its citizens. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zebra heels Posted November 10, 2010 Author Share Posted November 10, 2010 Update tonight was the first night since last winter I went to into price chopper in my black pumps. Last time i walked around outside on the streets. now i took a deep breathe and walked in. as i walked in there was i guy who was sitting there and he saw my wonderful footwear. what made this time better was that i did what everyone has said on here to walk with confidence. and thats what i did. it was great Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jay jay Posted November 10, 2010 Share Posted November 10, 2010 I have two pairs of bloock shoes that I wear on a regular basis when coing out with my Fiance. Have had not the confidence yet to wear others. But the time will come when I am going to venture it out in public. Allthough I am going to walk the Sisters with Blisters here in JHB with 4" stillettos Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
zebra heels Posted November 10, 2010 Author Share Posted November 10, 2010 Jay Jay its all about confidence and you can do anything. I believe everyone here on this website agrees confidence is the key. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wolf Posted November 12, 2010 Share Posted November 12, 2010 So tonight was the first night since Feb that I went heeling. I lost my confidence to go out in public because my girlfriend now lets me wear them in the house but doesnt like to when i want to wear them out. I understand you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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