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hey misterd73.... wow.... how cool is that..... don't stress out too much about people seeing you... i suppose you have the perfect excuse if people ask questions... since your wife will be there with you..... just say you are betting your wife that you can beat her in heels to win a very special prize..... or change it up slightly and say you lost a bet to your wife...... i think i would be much more confident walking around in eels if i had my wife (or a female) there for support..... but who knows.... don't think my time will come take advantage of it while you can and hope you win the bet

those boots are quite cool..... wouldn't mind a pair myself

very cool and for a great cause..... i might have to start the movement in Australia

got me excited for nothing.... when i saw westfield... i assume it was referring to the ones in Australia..... doh!!

kudos to you my man......

i usually take them off... and if i'm brave, i sometime would put on a more discreet hair of heels for the occasion i would like to tell the sales people... "No heels, No sale"

JSpikeheels - i totally agree with whay you are saying and i think it is true.... however, knowing this is the case still doesn't give me enough confidence to go ahead and fully out my heeling to the world..... i think my fears (probably a lot of people here too) is not of reaction from the general public but from those who we have already form a relationship with... yes yes, i know.. those who love me should accept me for what i am and love me no matter what... but i suppose the feeling is mutual that i do not want to do anything which may make their life more difficult (as slight as it may be).... i suppose, if i had no relationship with anyone (in a new country or something), it may be easier for me to live the way i may want it to be....

i think i'm in love lol

good on ya mikeheel..... wish i had the balls to do the same...... lol

Uh... yuck. The more that sort of stuff is out there, the more that's the sort of "flamboyant gay" (it's a quote from the linked page) image people will perceive me as if they see me wearing heels.

We need to see more normal displays of men wearing heels.

i think the keyword in your post is "flamboyant".... highlighting the fact that even in the gay community, wearing heels is notreally the norm..... i personally think that if heels were part of the norm for gay male, then i would have a much easier time wearing heels as a non gay male... a lot of male trends are bought across from the gay community once they are common place there..... it is then not much of a jump to general men trends.....

the problem is that it is still the "flamboyant" ones that are wearing the heels and not really a common choice for a gay male to wear heels anywhere they go (or maybe they simply don't want to) that is slowing the pick up of men in heels.....

not sure if that made sense or come out as what i've intended.... i suppose i'm suggesting that the gay community often serves a great middle ground that help defines what is purely feminine and masculine (not saying this is correct or right but it seems to be the case)... and anything that is worn as common place in the gay community falls in the grey area where it have a higher chance to fit in both categories....

seriously, i don't think the colour of the heels is stopping me from wearing the... it's the general acceptance of male wearing heels that's stopping me... if i can wear heels freely as a male, i would have no issue wearing a pink pair... in fact i would have a pair of every colour possible

i actually don't mind people adding a "M" to traditional feminine clothing/shoes to designated them as for male... in a strange type of way, for some people, having such designation is the only way they can accept that men can wear those items... it is a sign that society is beginning to accept such items and trying to work out how to categorise it in their (narrow?) mind set.... more importantly, it is also a sign that the people with money (corporates) are starting to realise there is a market and finding a way to market and sell these items..... so at the end of the day, isn't a more general acceptance of our choice to wear heels what we are after? i can't wait to be able to go into a shop and buy my pair of high meels, moot, medges, mallet flats and milettos lol

Here's a picture oof me in a new pair of girlie skinny jeans, fairly tight, with some gorgeous Faith stilettos

I love those shoes!!!!

They look fantastic.... and love those shoes.....

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mackman69 - lol... that's the biggest problem i have with wearing girls jeans... i found myself holding my wallet and mobile phones as they are a bit tight in the pockets .... guess i'll be moving to getting a handbag soon.... danielp6406 - unfortunately i've only been brave enought o wear the skin tight skinny jeans out a couple of times.... there's is definitely a trend for teenage boys wearing girls jeans (the whole rock/emo look).... and I've kinda jumped on the bandwagon... however, i don't look like a teenager anymore and may come off as a bit of a try hard (as in wanting to be a teenager) which in a odd way I can handle better people thinking I'm am wearing girls clothes..... in terms of what i wear with the jeans... i like to pair it with a pair of nice stilettos or any of the heels from the pics I've posted up recently... but when going out.. i often wear them with ballet flats....

i quite like the stitching in the back pockets on women jeans as well.... I suppose there are women jeans are are really uni-sex... and then there are cts which are more obviously womens (based on current fashion trends)... eg tight jeans with really obvious flare, or skin tight skinny jeans..... these are the style I like most (esp the skinny skinny low cut jeans)....

thanks everyone... bernheels: a lot of women would be jealous hahaaaa... and I'm jealous of all women as they can wear heels whenever whereever they want

thanks SBN.... i haven't really taken a pic of me in heels for quite a few years and it's been really fun doing it..... the thing is that I'm very picky with the pics and that I take load of them until i find a pose and angle that I like..... but I guess that's kinda the fun of it.... feels like a model for a little while.... lol hopefully I get to take more pics soon....

i'm now officially hooked on taking pics.... just hard to find time by myself so that I can take more... here's anoher one

like a fair fewof you guys... i'm just not brave enough to try in store... for fear or the sales people, the random shoppers but my biggest fear isthat I'll run into someone i know.... i know i know, go somewhere far away from your own suburb to minimise the chance but the fear is still there and I have a tendency to run into people at the worst time..... murphys law.....

am i too late for this? this thread and patentheel's thread really motivated me to get the camera out.... (while the fam is out of course....)

i would love to dress in any combination of male and female clothing...... it would be fantastic to be able to wear a skirt or dress when I want to with or without heels.... so I guess I would sit in the feminine category... but really, I think it's all about having the fashion choice to wear it.... at the same time, i know that such fashio freedom is probably not going to be widely accepted in my lifetime, so I'm happy to be wearing heels as male as I can see there is more of a chance of this being accepted.... pardon the pun but..... one step at a time

hey marcus.. sorry i didn't realise there was a similar thread.... but i guess it's more common than i thought.... i hate it that when you notice something, that's the only thing you focus on.... i'm finding myself trying to force myself not to walk on my toes all the time now...

i find that i only really do this when I'm bare foot... probably due to flats/men shoes are abit stiff to be able to bent my foot into such a shape....

i've notice that lately (but I'm sure that I've been doing so for a while) that when I'm at home walking around bare foot, a lot of the times I'm walking on the tip of my toes as if i had an invisible pair of heels on..... it came to my attention he other day when my wife noticed it and ask me why I was walking funny... she didn't draw any correlation (out loud) to me wearing heels but I'm sure it crossed her mind (my wife knows about my love of heels but we haven't spoken about it since I told her a year ago... that's another story).... does any of you guys and gals find that you walk around with an invisible pair of heels when you don't have a nice pair of real heels on?

i love my girls jeans.... in fact all of the jeans i wear now are girls straight leg or skinny jeans.... and it is so much easier to get away with wearing it with it being so popular with the current popluar/emo music trend..... just wish the same trend start with heels and i can where everything i want without a worry....